In a polyamorous relationship
Oxbridge educated guy - writer, sometime journalist and comms professional, living south east of London. Sexually dominant, socially egalitarian, dislike prejudice and bigotry in any form. If domlypants exist I don't own any. If you want a domly swagger look elsewhere. That's not me. Consensually non monogamous.
Ooooh! That's a question... I have a very personal approach to domming - it's about gentle but firm control and taking away the sub's responsibility so they can truly enjoy their sexuality. It's about liberation through power exchange.
I do like being creative with rope. I occasionally use cuffs and restraints. I'm very open to the log fire, glass of whisky and you curled up at my feet scenario. Ask nicely and you get whisky too. I like good whisky.
I cook. Being a dom doesn't preclude turning out something rather delicious and ensuring that a sub is fed and cared for (veggies, vegans and others catered for).
Consent - it's a thing. It needs negotiating. It needs to be open to constant renegotiation. 'No' means whatever but 'red' or other safeword means stop. Armadillo is not a good safeword. Actually on second thoughts Armadillo is an excellent safe word. It's hard to continue flogging someone if they're screaming 'armadillo' - unless there's an Indiana Jones in Latin America theme in which case pick another safe word...
No scat! Blood only with caution and precautions. Otherwise pretty much anything that doesn't leave permanent or long term physical or psychological scars.