Seeking Dom to guide and teach me the lifestyle…
I took the time to write this, so PLEASE READ IT.
I’m interested in exploring and learning more about the BDSM LIFESTYLE with a SAFE and SANE Sir/Dom. Service commitment, possible ownership, chastity, etc. Not just looking for a one-time scene. Been researching and think “sub/boy” is my true calling…
Otherwise, I can be sub or Dom, depending on the person. I’ve always thought of myself as a sub, but have been having these Dom-ish feelings for a while and have enjoyed using other men as the Dom in scenes.
57, 5’10”, 180, 6” cut, hairy chest/stomach, buzz cut, goatee, brown, hazel, total bottom for fucking as a sub, but have lots of toys/fingers to use on other bottoms/subs in my role as a Dom. Ideally, my Sir/Dom would be a nice furry top or versatile. The more man fur, the better! (The same holds true for what I’m looking for in a sub.) NSA, unless we decide too. Just get together for use (yours or mine) and a good fuck on a regular basis. Host or travel. Sometimes, I would like to suck to completion and swallow. Occasionally, I can get into rimming a clean, furry hole. My nipples are hard-wired. I’m a pasty white guy, so really get into darker skinned men. I’m also cut, so have a fetish for foreskin. NEITHER ARE REQUIRED! I can literally go from mild to very wild. Please be somewhat height/weight proportionate. Poz, undetectable. Kissing, if you're into it, adds SO much more passion... Very verbal here…
Sir/Dom and boy/sub relationship, Nipple Play/Torture (Not really into tit clamps. I like the sensation of having them pinched, pulled, twisted, licked and bitten. I do have some Eagle Talon Tit Clamps though.), Light CBT (sensitive balls), Cock Rings/Ball Stretchers, Hoods/Blindfolds (I like to have my eyes covered while being used by a Dom/Sir.), Bondage/Restraints (Once we get to know each other and develop trust.), Ass Play/Prostate Massage/Dildoes/Plugs (The real thing is preferable…), Slings, Milking/Edging, Electro, Crotch Shaving, Hot Wax, Light Flogging without a lot of pain on my back/ass, Riding Crops on my ass/cock, Sensory Deprivation (never done it, but interested), Piss Play (just not in my mouth), Anal/Oral Sex (Preferably without a condom.), Rimming (give or receive) , Cumming on my body, Any gear you have that you would like me to wear, Shrink Wrap (never done it, but interested), Like a little pain, but wouldn’t want to leave a scene in a lot of pain, Having two Doms/Sirs use me at once, Penis Pumps, Pics/Video (That’s HOT, especially video….as long as I get copies of any pics/video too.)
Needs Discussion:
Whips/Spanking/Caning/Paddling (Maybe I was spanked too much as a child.)
No, never:
Blood, Scat, Enemas, Kids/Women (I’m totally gay, so a woman would be a boner killer), Bestiality, Saline/Needles/Catheterization, Permanent Marks, Hard Flogging with a lot of pain, Fisting/Really Big Dildoes, PnP/Poppers (I will be on Viagra.), Pup/Dog Play, Extreme Degradation, Diapers/ABDL, Breath Play/Asphyxiation, Sounds, Feet/Boot Worship, Being Punched/Slapped, Grunge/Smelly Pits, etc., Spit, Medical Play, Household Chores, Burning.
Take it or Leave it:
Cages (boring), Smoke/Cigar Play (smoker, so really doesn’t affect me)