In a polyamorous relationship
I'm Alex, I use they/them pronouns! I'm a first year university student studying math and computer science. I love hiking, backpacking, rock climbing, and spending time in the outdoors. I also have some indoor hobbies such as sewing and crocheting. I'm a snake parent; ask me for pictures of my baby if you really want to make a good impression.
I bond with funny, intelligent people who know how to hold a conversation. I'll put 100% effort into getting to know you if I see you giving the same effort in return.
I'm asexual and aromatic so I won't develop sexual or romantic feelings for you even if I get flirty. Because of this, I tend to take a long time to get to know someone before I trust them enough to submit to them.
I'm not very eloquent when writing about myself so please feel free to message me if you want to get to know me.
I have a fairly unique relationship with BDSM because of the fact that I am asexual and aromatic. I crave a good consentual power exchange. Submitting to someone I trust makes me feel very at-peace. Unfortunately, it's been hard for me to find someone to welcome my submission without trying to have sex with me.
I enjoy things like kneeling at my Dom's feet for hours, following commands, being tied up, and mild pain play. I enjoy being praised. It makes me feel safe when I am punished fairly for disobedience. I'm open to experimenting with new kinks, as long as they are within my limits.
Oral, anal, and vaginal sex. Touching me with sexual intent (cupping/touching sexual places to establish dominance in a non-sexual way is fine). Humiliation. Bodily fluids. Extreme pain.