Where to start.....
Well, I'm 43, been involved in the lifestyle well over 20 years. This isn't something I do for fun; it's how I live my life every day. I've seen many here claiming they want kink and vanilla, more power to you, but that doesn't work for me. I have developed many skills over my life to help me train the right girl. It's more than a physical thing for me, I enjoy getting inside someone's head and molding it to my liking. Consent-no-consent is something I generally need, as well as the TPE. Although let's be honest with CnC is there really anything that is off the table.
I've been around here for a while, talk to a few. With the knowledge I've gained from my time here I'd like to take a moment to make something very clear. When I say something, I mean it, if I commit to something I mean it, societal norms are not something I subscribe to, my concepts of right and wrong might differ so make sure to ask, don't assume. It might seem petty, but it's been a big deal in the past. If you don't ask, I might not tell. If you commit to a relationship with me, it's to be understood.
I'm not overly in a hurry or even sure if I want to bother with training a new girl with the way the world currently is. I know I'll be safe as I've prepared for these things, but bringing a new girl up to speed might be a little taxing, especially if she wants to maintain the safety of a computer screen and isn't looking for something real and lasting. I welcome those who wish to enquire and see where things go.
Do not ask the stones or the trees how to live, they cannot tell you they do not have tongues do not ask the wise man how to live for, if the knows, he will know he cannot tell you if you would learn how to live, do not ask the question its answer is not in the question but in the answer, which is not in words do not ask how to live, but instead proceed to do so.