Calmira
switch male

Baltimore, Maryland, United States
About me
Hey there 
what to write what to write.....ummmmmm po ta toes. God I'm horrible at these, I can talk for days on end, but ask me to type something about my self, I'm an empty broken cup.

I guess we can start here at the beginning where all things must start (damn some fucking poetry, killing this shit right now), new to all this, and know fuck all of nothing other than I'm pretty sure I'm submissive, might be a switch( am I using these words right, Gods help me) and from what I saw on a tiktok (kill me now) maybe a brat? fuck who knows if you do tell me please, cause I'm done making decisions about life for a while haha.

I'm married but we play, he's not into kink or anything beyond a lil spanking, so off I go to learn about myself, don't get me wrong love this man, will walk up to any God back hand them, spit in their face and walk backwards flipping them off grinning if they look at him cross. He just doesn't share this interest that I do, and that's life.

ok where was I...... do I put sexual things here.......fuck it if I'm wrong someone will tell me I'm sure.

Vers bottom here, people keep saying im a bottom, but thats only cause i keep falling for tops.......


Update- took a test on bdsm.org and this is what it says.


100% Switch
97% Exhibitionist
96% Voyeur
91% Primal (Hunter)
90% Submissive
90% Daddy/Mommy
89% Non-monogamist
87% Brat
85% Primal (Prey)
85% Ageplayer
81% Boy/Girl
77% Rope bunny
75% Experimentalist
74% Dominant
67% Pet
66% Vanilla
66% Degradee
63% Brat tamer
57% Owner
55% Master/Mistress
47% Slave
24% Rigger
17% Sadist
15% Degrader
0% Masochist

BDSM and me
Ok again new... lets start there, other than some spanking, lite choking, a shitty estim cock ring and butt plug combo, and a few threesomes I haven't done much. 

Ok lets start with what I know I like or would like to try

Watersports- did this with a 2 bf's but not often. Drank and got pissed on, loved both, but only drink if well hydrated haha. 

Cock cages- very interested in them.

Collars- very vague idea of what they are for, would love to learn more, or have one. Probably have it wrong though haha.

Being commanded- yes fucking please, just tell me what to do to you.

Pits, balls, rimming- love them all, love the smell of a man (well most men, some of ya'll smell like mildew in a golden corral), though the pit licking and sniffing is new for me, hubby never smells of anything but irish spring and always has on deodorant so can't lick them. love rimming can rim all day.
 
Groups- never done want to so bad.

Cum- love it in and on me, just not my face, no touchy face. Multiple loads, multiple people +

DP- did twice, first time great, second not enough lube, not great time. want to again 

Interested in

pretty much anything else that wont leave perm marks or bruises (work would get worried and send me for a mental eval or call someone for a home check on my hubby)

Pretty open to most things. 

pup play seems interesting.

being spit on....yes?? maybe? guess i'll fuck around and find out.

open to suggestions
Limits
LOTS OF PAIN! 

SCAT!!!

ok now that that's out of the way 

FISTING. no way to tight can't do nope, no amount of training will help, this ass is virgin tight after 2 days.
What's new
all of this haha
Update date
Sep 3, 2021
Member since
Sep 3, 2021
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