I find it difficult to write about me. I found this site and joined 9 days ago and all I had done was recorded the voice msg part. I am a southern woman, a mom of 3 and find myself starting life as I knew it over after the universe threw me some unexpected major curve balls! I learned later in life the true meaning of bdsm and that I am submissive. I am caring, loving, talkative, silly (I laugh A LOT!), I am old school and old fashioned BUT not closed minded! I love most types of music, online karaoke (I ran an online virtual karaoke Friday evening gathering for several years and LOVED it!), I am a good cook (southern belief of feeding the people you care about a good home cooked meal is just another expression of caring about someone), I am fiercely loyal friend, Movies~ sci-fi, thrillers, horror, crime, marvel, DC, good comedies (miss Robin Williams!), true stories, and of course mushy chick flicks! TV~ all of the "Chicago" series (med, fire, pd), ER, the good dr., the resident, the magicians(miss that show), Lucifer, 2020, and game shows. Netflix, Hulu, Disney, and HBO movies and some of their series. Love making crafts, Love outdoors, LOVE LOVE the beach and Ocean!! I have a good sense of humor and love to laugh.
Although I have been exploring the lifestyle for close to 10 yrs I consider myself a toddler and started in the lifestyle when I was older (wish I would have discovered it when I was younger). I have been with and collared to a dominant in RL for 8 1/2 yrs. in a play/scening and friendship relationship. Talked with a lot of dominants and submissives and been with a few other dominants. I am NOT a slave, I have known ppl in the M/S lifestyle and respect it, but although I am a submissive and can be obedient, caring, trusting, and loyal - BUT I am also strong and independent in other areas of my life. I do love trusting a dominant and him being in control (not 24/7, but would love to find my forever partner and D/S be a large part but not ALL of who and what we are. I feel the D/S dynamic is different from couple to couple as different as any other relationships are and that as a D/S couple with communication and time you work out what is best for the both of you. Things I like in moderation, but can have these limits pushed a little: breath play (not choking until I pass out or anything close to that), pain (spanking - hand - belt- crop - paddle - FLOGGERS ( thuddy ((FAV)), stingy) love hate relationship with pain - NOT a pain slut for sure!
Hard Limits - blood, scat, animals, anything illegal.
On a journey to find "the one" who possess all my wants, desires and needs and that I can fulfill all of his wants, needs, and desires. I want to be his and his only!! I WILL be picky and will find the "right" one!!