I am in a Dom sub relationship/ lifestyle as the Dom. My spouse my submissive. I am also a sadist and have come up with many new ideas for punishments.
I love when I get to spend lots of time in sessions with my spouse. Helps both of us relieve stress and bond more with one another. After care is also very important, and I take measures to make sure it happens.
No scat, it's gross in my opinion but I don't judge those who enjoy it. No permanent damage given, or making the other bleed. Other then those I am open to anything at least once.