dom male

California, United States
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About me
I am from Arkansas but currently live in California.  I work full time in the tech field, specifically doing phone support for computer hardware and software.  I work an early shift forcing me to get up extremely early in the morning so am not often available into the late hours.
I'm 5'9" and weigh 188 lbs, I have a slightly muscular build and spend some time in the gym each week.
BDSM and me
I am a fairly new Dom, I have a bit of experience dominating both in and out of the bed room, more with kink and less with pain and humiliation.
I am looking for a 24/7 type, specifically with a dedicated slave or little girl.
I am willing to train a new sub but am only interested in a sub who craves submission, not interested if your only desire is to have someone make decisions for you or if you are only pleased with the rewards of submission (spankings, orgasm control and denial, etc).  I'm looking for someone who's desire is to submit, everything that comes after that is just a bonus on top.

I did not know I was a Dom until the last couple of years, now that I have gotten into it I don't remember what life looked like without a sub at my feet.  I have had a few subs so far, though few who's view of D/s was the same as mine.  They all wanted the reward from being submissive, not the act of submission.

BDSM and me, extended
Here's a few rules I live by when it comes to everything about this lifestyle and I'd hope anyone interested in submitting to me would share:
--Be honest, always and in all things.  You don't have to be an asshole about it, but be honest
--Talk about what you both want before you even start.  Don't get overwhelmed by the initial discussion and jump right in, take some time and make your wants and needs clear
--Don't settle and hope for the best.  If you are looking for DD/lg and I'm offering M/s, don't settle for that. Now with that I do say experimentation is always great and fun, and if you are willing to experiment then by all means do so.  But don't think things will change to the way you want if you give your submission on something else entirely.
--Be respectful of the other person.  If things aren't working for you, let them know and move on.  Sometimes things work out, sometimes they don't, but be respectful of the time and effort the other person put in and let them know instead of just leaving without a word.
--Enjoy the lifestyle in every way you can at every opportunity!
I don't have much in the way of limits, pegging is the only hard limit I currently have and haven't found any soft ones since my recent ones were overcome.

I am hetro only but still enjoy loose play of many kinds.
Update date
Sunday, March 3, 2019
Member since
Tuesday, December 5, 2017
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