In a polyamorous relationship
Just starting to dip into the life. My fiancé and I are poly but she’s not much into the lifestyle. I work full time and I’m a part time student and a parent. My plate is pretty full but I can work out time for my partner. Not looking for an intimately romantic relationship. Just looking for friendly playmates. I must get to know each other first. Trust is what this is all about.
I consider myself a Dom. I like a sub that likes to be played with and follow orders. That knows how they want to be rewarded and ready to take their punishment.
Being surrendered to is incredibly sensual for me. The level of trust and control in my sub and in myself is important. Not there for a quickee. And it’s no fun if the pleasure is all one sided. We’re both there to have fun.
Bondage is fun and rope play looks like it, but I’m no rigger (but I’m a fast learner)
Whips and spanking are fun but not always necessary.
Toys always help! I’m only human. I’ve got my limits. So if you’ve got some favorites I’m sure I can keep the fun going.
Threes not a crowd. DP/TP. Sounds like fun. May be hard to pull off, but if you like to be shared or watched or whatever, I play well with others.
Bodily fluids (scat, urine, spit, blood)
Fire/burns
Cutting