The more experienced I become in life, the more I realize that this is a part of who I naturally am. I am searching for someone whom I can eventually hold, love, cherish protect but also do it in such a way that it is clearly understood that they belong to me. It is all the good and solid values that I was brought up with wrapped up and intertwined with a devilish kink that turns me on like a house on fire. The woman I’m searching for, wants to be exactly that. My most prized, cherished, protected and loved possession. She is my best friend, adviser, my lover, my soul mate and my sex toy all in one.
We can only build on a foundation of understanding, communication, honesty and Trust. Without this, there is no moving forward.
I love playing with Rope. It’s sexy and fun, and I’ll never get tired of it, but I like to imagine that eventually there can be a point where restraints aren’t even required. The subtlety of simply opening your mouth wide staring at me for 2 whole minutes whilst we’re eating dinner as proof of subservience can be way more intense. But this kink only fully turns me on if she is into it just as much as me. It only works if she knows that later while I will completely have my way with her, she will also cum once or twice or three times because that’s what I wanted. We might go shopping and I’d buy her a beautiful dress that she will wear for me. It is my dress that she wears, further symbolizing my ownership. I will put it on her or, indeed, take it off whenever I choose. To love, to have and to hold in rope or chain, to worship, marvel over, and to control, cherish and possess….to set free, and then to capture again.
Happy to talk about anything. I’m not into inflicting any kind of pain really.