My name is Scott, I am a straight male, I live in Waterville, Maine,
DOB 3/13/66,
Relocate? No,
Status? Married,
Children, yes all grown up, but not at home, and happy with the children I already have.
Height 5'10",
Weight 225,
Body type, average, a few extra pounds
Non smoker, seldom ever drink, drug free.
Education, associates degree, plus several certificates (in tradesmen type training)
Occupation, currently a heavy transport driver
Religion, brought up catholic, but see things more from an Abraham Hicks perspective than a religious one.
I like music, woodworking, learning new things that interest me.
As stated, I am currently married, my partner has had uterine fibroid tumors from before the time we married, she cannot have or enjoy sex because of the excruciating pain this condition causes her, she has been operated on before, but the tumors just grow back again. As such, she only shares a platonic relationship with me. That is her choice, not really my desire, I have been given permission, told I should find a girl friend, but that permission has only really been given in a backhanded way... even though I was not honestly told about her problem until after we were married, it is not my intention to leave her, make her miserable, or rub her nose in something she cannot give or to treat her as a broken doll over something she has no control over... For this reason, I am not seeking anything more than play partners for session play. I ask anyone who approaches me, to honor my desire to be discreet because of these circumstances. If you consider me a cheat, or are looking for any type of relationship, then please consider me as unsuitable and move on. I am honest, not pretending to be what I am not, not looking for what I cannot be. Only to find respectful play partners to share things that I am not able or allowed to share with my marriage partner...
If you are more than a few hours travel away, then obviously our opportunities to meet up may not be as conveniently frequent as you would desire. That said, I am willing to chat with you if you think there's a possibility of things being able to work out... after all, if a possibility isn't explored, then it will never happen by default...
I am financially stable and self sustaining within my job and the obligations in my own life. If you are a FinDom, I am not interested in supporting anyone, or being used financially. If anyone approaches me who requires any type of financial assistance or obligation, then you had better say so right up front from the start and almost certainly be prepared to be rejected unless there is an honest reasonable circumstance for me to consider accepting. I have toys, and can invest in more, if and when I need. If you are not financially stable and self sufficient and have intentions to try to use me as a means to financially supplement yourself, then consider me unsuitable. I am here to find possible suitable compatible play partners, not to be an ATM, or expect anyone else to be one for me, just for sharing session play to explore kinks. There are times when neither person can host and I realize accommodations need to be payed for to be used to have a session...
I list as a switch, but I am not overly either... on the bottom end, I am not really a submissive at all, I am just a primal bottom. On the top, I am not an alpha male type Dominant, simply because, I'm more of a sigma in most all my personality traits and thought patterns, which doesn't really lend to being a strongly Dominant aura either, but that could be an advantage for a sub, because I will cautiously advance in playing. I am primarily just looking for a local FemDomme/s to explore how it feels to be sexually dominated as a primal bottom in bondage role playing sessions, I am not seeking any D/s relationship, not looking to become a submissive, not seeking a contract or 24/7 exchange, only to explore role playing session play with a FemDomme/s that I am comfortable negotiating with, in exploring our desired kinks, who is mutually respectful and agreeable to use me as I am, an older but newbie primal bottom... if you find the primal thing confusing in any way, then simply substitute the word "primal" with "bondage toy", I don't have to actually be a submissive to be able to be used while being held in submission within bondage, but, I understand that this tends to make me a very limited type of play thing in some ways, so if you really need a true submissive, then I honestly know that I am not what you are seeking, if having a cooperative "body" to restrain and use as a bondage toy to practice your kinks or domination on is enough, then let's chat, I am prone to say, a submissive serves a person, while a primal simply serves a purpose, I am not a submissive, just a curious primal. So please don't confuse my respectful cooperation as being a signal of any desire to become a submissive, I know what I am and what I am seeking, that is why I am making the effort to accurately explain. This is a curiosity I have always had from my teens, just a late bloomer in seeking to explore it I guess...
If you are a local submissive female or switch, although I am primarily interested in finding an interested FemDomme, I am also willing to explore role playing session play as a top if you wanted to chat to see if this is something that you would find more practical or comfortable than a full blown D/s relationship, or something to try in between your search of finding your Dominant... again, I am not seeking a D/s relationship, contract or 24/7 exchange, simply to explore role playing session play, but because I am not a true or overly Dominant top, you are welcome to be more proactive explaining to me what you want to experience exploring, in other words, I don't mind focusing on the particular kinks and types of control you would want to try experiencing... and developing from that as a starting point.