Lordoftheasylum

dom male

44

Single

When it comes to friends and family, I'm always there to help and be supportive. Very protective of those I care about. I have always been about having quality people in my life as rather have a few really solid people as my friends then hundreds of so so people.

I am a proudly wave my geek flag. I have a very fucked up sense of humor which can shock some.

When meeting new people especially in group settings , I may come off as stand offish but I am just observing people as I am really good at reading people. I like figuring people out , which is very helpful in and out of D/s.

Respect, honesty, integrity, and intelligence mean a lot to myself. So if you have a issue with myself, let me know and will at least try and come to a understanding.

I have been active in the bdsm lifestyle for almost 20 years now, been active in various communities in Sacramento, Chico, Albuquerque, Tucson and Phoenix. Have ran the Sacramento TNG group and ran their munches. Ran the most successful weekly kink socials in Albuquerque when the event runner and friend passed away. Was membership director of Desert Dominion in Tucson and one of the leaders of PAK in Phoenix, now running TAK in Tucson.

Now active in multiple groups in the Phoenix community.

In most areas of play I am experienced in if not at least knowledgeable about the subject. Will freely direct people to more knowledgeable people of something my knowledge and experience lacks in.

What I'm seeking is a female submissive for a long term D/s dynamic. Not specifically looking for poly but it's not out of the question. I believe in D/s that while physical attraction is important but a solid connection, trust and communication are the most important things.

Blood, poop and anything that involves those that cannot consent.

Nov 26, 2022

Nov 24, 2016