What are sigma males like?
A sigma male is a man who doesn't need validation from other people. He's not loud or brash but calm and collected. A sigma male is an introverted but confident guy. Sigmas are outside the usual and they don't typically fit into groups because they themselves are uncommon.
So......what am I looking for in a relationship? I have been divorced 7 years, my daughter is done with college and out of the house. I live in Ocala near Disney and a lot of other things that makes Florida amazing. Orlando, the Keys, the Gulf, The Ocean, Concerts, Theme Parks and much more. The economy in Ocala is going gangbusters right now. I am single and living in a 4 bedroom house by myself. I would like to find a woman that wants to start over and relocate to Florida, be my submissive, she will be a loved and valued woman. We will need to talk for awhile in a no pressure, mature mode. You come and visit with me for a few weeks and we see where things go. We will start very slow and talk a lot. If you might be interested send me a note and I will respond UNLESS YOU HAVE NO PICTURE. I wont answer without a picture.
There is no school or training that you need as there is no such thing as Dom or Sub University. Total BS and don't be hoodwinked by men who are idiots. So how does it work in a Dom/Sub relationship. You talk.....I understand your DYNAMIC and how you identify...then you understand my needs. Do not get matched up with anyone until you understand what that man wants. IT MIGHT NOT FIT YOUR NEEDS!
Stop saying you need training....you need to find out your Dynamic first and then find your guy WHO LIKES THAT DYNAMIC...that simple.
A good Dom will help you find your place in the BDSM world.
Always introduce your POTENTIAL DOM to a friend of yours...if he does not want to meet your friend then RUN LIKE FUCKING hell.
You should take the BDSM test here at bdsmtest.org if your Dom doesnt want to see this info you have an imposter not a Dom. The sub/dom dynamic must be talked out and both must agree to fullfil each others needs. Most Doms just hate women and want to abuse them under the cover of being a Dom total BS!.. Even if you are a pain slut, little, middle, slave or however you want to identify. Ask your potential Dom HOW he will meet your needs. Don't go into this relationship thinking there is some school you must attend...SIMPLE AS THIS....STATE your needs....will your Dom do this for you....talk...meet....have fun. There are things that I am not comfortable with doing to a woman...therefore we wont be a fit. You might ask how is he going to take care of you and love you? Remember your submission is a gift and you must still be very good friends outside of the bedroom.
Anyone who tries to dominate you after talking on the phone for 5 minutes is an idiot. You go to lunch and date for a bit...you will know when the time is right. A true Dom is not secretive but open and loving. Never forcing you to do things you do not want to do.
Having a mental connection, mutual attraction and a Dom/Sub dynamic with love and compassion is AMAZING. So don't let some predator hurt you or tell you what to do in the interim. If he acts like that tell him to fuck himself. A true Dom will get to know you and show you compassion and empathy.
AAAAAAAAAAnnndd never give up your ability to take care of yourself to a man because ...men are pigs...but women love bacon!
Narcissists are excessively self-absorbed. They monopolize the conversation, hog the remote, run the show. They pay scant attention to what interests you.
Narcissists view others as extensions of themselves. The narcissist sets the standards of behavior and does not tolerate differences – especially if your viewpoint would require her to alter her behavior.
Narcissists don’t appreciate different perspectives. If you don’t think or feel the same way he does, something’s wrong with you.
Narcissists crave constant validation from the world. Admire and respect them and all is well. Find fault with them and watch out! Open narcissists will go on the offensive; closet narcissists will cut short the conversation.
Narcissists pursue admiration, attention, status, prestige and money excessively. All of this is mere window dressing, covering up a real self that’s insecure and vulnerable.
Narcissists believe that they’re entitled to special treatment. If it inconveniences them, it’s a “stupid” law, a “retarded” restriction. So why fall into line? “That’s for peons; not for me!”
Narcissists believe that they deserve the best, regardless of cost. Hence, they may recklessly purchase status items and indulge in expensive experiences to make them feel like VIPs.
Narcissists may donate generously to a cause or to helping others out in order to reflect well on themselves. When a gift is a narcissistic display rather than a gift from the heart, it’s all about the narcissist receiving recognition or control, not about the cause.
Many people don’t realize that their partner (or family member or friend) may be a narcissist, discovering it only after much time has elapsed. Why isn’t it obvious at the very beginning?
It’s difficult to accept that someone you care for has a narcissistic personality, especially when he or she is talented, charming, smart, and yes, even caring at times. Yet, if you are often bewildered by their endless entitlement and repeatedly feel taken advantage of, don’t let your wishful thinking stand in the way of recognizing ‘what is.’
Narcissists are great masters of disguise, describing their behavior in the best of terms (i.e. I’m only doing this for your own good!). Hence, it may take awhile for you to ‘get’ what’s really going on.
Narcissism, reinforced by our culture, is on the rise. Advertisements that proclaim that you “deserve the best” or “you’re worth it” make no connection between deserving it and affording it. Nor do they describe what makes you so worthy. Hence, many narcissists feel that they’re acting the way they should be acting and see nothing wrong with their behavior.
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