I'm a writer and aspiring science fiction/speculative fiction novelist in San Diego California. I recently began exploring the idea that I never allowed myself to fully experience sexual freedoms and or choose partners that were compatible on a sexual level. This brought me to the BDSM/kink/non-monogamy community but I'm still brand new to all of it. I'm looking for women experienced in kink that don't mind exploring with a newbie.
I'm open to at least learning about nearly everything associated with BDSM in order to find out what my preferences and limits truly are. I do know I'm straight but beyond that I'm still learning. I'm interested in slutwife, D/s, and DD/LG relationship dynamics but by no means limited to them. I don't find myself interested in inflicting or receiving pain or bondage but I'm open to the possibility that greater understanding might change that.
At the moment, however, I'm terrified of anything that would place me in a submissive role, so that's out for now. A few fetishes and kinks are similarly hard limits.
Being submissive
Scat
Being bound or caged
Small Penis Humiliation