I am a Dom that does not have a certain type of woman, but I do want my sub to understand her place. She is mine in every way. I can be kind and caring but know that you a being assessed constantly. I look forward to hearing from you.
*PLEASE NOTE*
If you are inexperienced, please do not be intimated by this profile. I enjoy working with Subs that just entered the scene. It is exciting and fulfilling to me to help guide and nurture new Subs, when they have a new and fun experience I love to be a part of it.
I am seeking a SERIOUS BDSM/Long term/Lifetime Relationship. I don't have time for games, at least, not in that sense, anyway. My experience in Spanking, Toys, Humiliation, Aftercare, punishment, Protection, Faceslapping, Role play etc. I fully understand that Dominance and Submission is to be EARNED as well as Honorifics, and NEVER freely Given. This lifestyle is SACRED to me and part of my SELF CARE. I am willing to do online for now, SO LONG AS YOU DO THE WORK AS WELL. Ideally, I would like ILR in the future and someone to be My Special Collard Girl, Owned, AS MINE, forever. I ABSOLUTELY ADORE My Submissive/Slave. Of course, you can wish to be released, As that is your RIGHT as a submissive. If you wish to be released as a Slave, please discuss with me first. However, I warn you, It is extremely heartbreaking for both parties. I have expectations and expect them to be followed. If I give you a Punishment, I expect it DONE, to the best of your ability WITH PROOF, on, or before the due date, unless you ask for an extension. I understand things happen, however, I WILL NOT TOLERATE INCONCISTANCY, especially when it comes to Communication. I am eventually seeking Domestic Servitude. It's not just about Sex, though I WILL USE YOU FOR MY PLEASURE. I Cherish, Love and Care for My Submissive/slave in all Aspects of their life, Mental, Emotional, Physical, Etc. If I say NO to something, It's for a reason. You are Precious to ME and I DO NOT take that for granted. I expect Honest, Open, Clear Communication, and respect my Sub's limits. Your Constant Willing Submission to ME is a GIFT, every day and I Highly Cherish that. IF or WHEN I find a Primary, I WIL NOT ALLOW YOU OR ANYONE ELSE TO THINK OR SEE MY SUBS/SLAVES/WOLF PUP AS EXPENDIBLE! That is ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTIBLE AND INEXCUSEABLE AND WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. My EXPECTATIONS for you would be as FOLLOWS:
-You will call me "Sir" until I have decided YOU have EARNED the Honorific
-IF YOU ARE A TOTAL NEWBIE, I EXPECT YOU TO DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH INTO THIS, I WILL NOT DO ALL THE WORK FOR YOU, YOU KNOW HOW TO USE GOOGLE, DO IT. How well do you take Instruction? If I send you an article or several, I FULLY EXPECT YOU TO READ THEM. You NEED to UNDERSTAND what You're getting yourself into here.
-ALWAYS be a Lady at all times
-Exercise
-Eat Healthy
-Must be Shaven Clean at all times (Unless otherwise Negotiated)
-You will BEG for the things you want
-Open, Honest, Clear, Communication
-IF YOU CAN NOT Communicate with me for a certain amount of time, I wish to know about it, IN ADVANCE if at all possible, so that I do not worry. IT'S NOT THAT HARD TO COMMUNICATE CONSISTANTLY. IF YOU DO NOT COMMUNICATE, I WILL BE FORCED TO ASSUME TWO THINGS: 1.) THAT SOMETHING HAPPENEND TO YOU and 2.) THAT YOU NO LONGER WANT THIS. I CANNOT NOR WILL I BE THE ONLY ONE COMMUNICATING. I DON'T CARE IF YOU'RE SHY, YOU WILL ALSO CARRY THE CONVERSATION. THAT'S WHY YOU WORK ON IT.
-You will take care of your Mental Health
-There WILL be Spanking
-You will provide Sex on Command
-You will not Cum without Permission (If you do, there WILL be Punishment which ALWAYS fits the Crime)
-Remember who you BELONG TO
-I SPEAK, You OBEY (If you DO NOT feel comfortable with something, I Expect you to use your SAFEWORD and we will discuss it/adjust it) This includes Punishment
-Good Morning/Goodnight Texts
-I will NEVER make you do something, you cannot do. If you feel you cannot do something, Speak to me and we will figure something out
WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME, NOT WHAT CAN I DO FOR YOU? I'm a LIFESTYLE DOM. THIS ISN'T ABOUT YOU OR WHAT YOU WANT!
-What does "Service" mean to you?
-What Special Skills do you have to offer?
-What Specialized Knowledge do you have?
-What do you have to offer, that no one else can provide?
You will be asked these questions frequently, It would be nice if you actually came up with an answer and have one READY. Most of all, I CRAVE CONNECTION WITH MY SUB/SLAVE.
I WATCH ACTIONS, NOT WORDS. YOUR ACTIONS WILL SHOW ME THE TRUTH, MORE THEN YOUR WORDS COULD OR EVER WILL. I SUGGEST YOU THINK LONG AND HARD, IF YOU REALLY WANT THIS, BECAUSE TIME IS PRECIOUS AND WASTING MINE, WILL HAVE CONSEQUENCES.