arwen
sub female

United States
Relationship status
Single
About me
But I don’t want to go among mad people," Alice remarked. "Oh, you can’t help that," said the Cat, "we’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad." "How do you know I’m mad?" said Alice. "You must be," said the Cat, "or you wouldn’t have come here."     ~ Alice in Wonderland 

I’ve been called shy, quiet, and reserved. Perhaps, but I think I’m cautious and curious. You can’t see the whole picture if you’re standing in the thick of it. The better view is a few steps away from center. So that’s where you’ll find me. Curiously watching and cautiously contemplating if it’s time to move closer to the center. 
BDSM and me
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 
100% Submissive 
100% Ageplayer 
100% Rope bunny 
100% Boy/Girl 
97% Brat 
94% Experimentalist 
90% Masochist 
85% Voyeur 
83% Non-monogamist 
71% Exhibitionist 
68% Degradee 
63% Slave 
58% Primal (Prey) 
47% Pet 
3% Vanilla 
0% Switch 
 
I have always known that I have a submissive nature.  I am content in knowing that; I have no struggle with being a woman that wants to give over control to Someone that I can trust will keep me safe.  Under the right circumstances, I've always been willing to push my sexual boundaries.

The Cage is a stop on what I hope is a journey that allows me to grow, helps me to meet new friends, and obtain knowledge in an environment where there are others seeking the same.
Limits
Hard Limits --  No to ... 

physical acts or use of implements that will draw blood
being shared
having my ability to breathe taken away
having my ability to communicate taken away 
public humiliation
being permanently marked; physically or mentally
bathroom follies (the usual suspects) 
Update date
Wednesday, November 8, 2017
Member since
Friday, August 18, 2017
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