Organized Chaos

You're nerd is showing. 😉😂

This is not a bakery.....

I do not sugar-coat anything.

If you ask for my opinion.....

Then that's what you'll get. 

Don't be mad....

When it's not what you want to hear!

#Unapologetically Me

Find somebody who is willing to fix their mistakes when they are in the wrong. 

Find someone who knows that date nights are mandatory.

Find someone who never punishes you for the mistakes made by the ones behind you.

Find someone who you have amazing chemistry with.

Find someone who is willing to graduate to a real lasting love with you. 

Find someone who is willing to navigate the ship of life together.

Find someone who knows that not a single person on the face of this earth sits high enough to look down on anyone. 

Find someone who doesn't make you fall for them without intending to catch you. 

Find someone who would rather spend a Sunday morning with you, rather than a Saturday night. 

Find somebody who's quick to put their ego aside, and willing to listen and grow with you with every day that passes. 

Find someone who chases you .... long after they already have you. 

Find someone who will never let you fall asleep at night wondering if you still matter.

Find someone who makes a reservation at your favorite restaurant unannounced. 

Find someone who has genuine intentions with you from the very beginning.

Take my advice and .... find someone real enough to treat you .... like they can never replace you.

~ Cody Bret

I know you may have opened your eyes this morning and felt like the world is stacked against you.
You’ve had a tough time lately, I know.
I’m here to tell you that this isn’t your whole story, it’s just a chapter.
Maybe it’s gone on longer than you’ve wanted, been hard to endure and left you feeling down, but chin up, darling.
It’s always darkest before dawn and it won’t rain forever- you’ve just got to hold onto what you believe in, dig deeply and find your courage.
Maybe you’ve lost your way, forgotten your voice and can’t find your happiness like you used to be able to,
But this too, shall pass.
Whether it’s been life knocking you down, a relationship falling apart or just feeling down, I’m telling you that you got this.
Take my hand and let’s walk a while.
Let’s talk about who you are what amazing things you’re capable of..because you are.
Bravery isn’t about turning it around immediately, it’s about getting up every single day and doing the best you can.
It’s okay to not be okay.
It’s okay to need rest or ask for help.
It’s okay to fall and get knocked down..
Just choose to keep verging back up, keep fighting, keep holding your head high.
What you’ve been through doesn’t define you and you’re more than you give yourself credit for..though you may feel alone and helpless right now, it’s up to you to claw your way out or sink deeper into the darkness.
Even then, I’m going to find you and remind you that you’re all the things you’ve stopped believing in about yourself..
You are more than enough.
You are strong.
You are capable of rising again.
Maybe it won’t be easy, maybe it’s going to hurt some.
But I promise you that you can do it.
Maybe not today, in a week or in a month, but start taking the steps.
Start knowing that you can find your wings- stop caging yourself and start breaking free.
Turn the page.
Start a new chapter.
Most of all, just start to believe.
You’ve always had the power inside yourself..
Now it’s time to use it.
You got this, darling..
Now and always.
Believe.

~Ravenwolf

Today was ridiculously busy!! My Wednesdays always are... part of my day includes making my office mate laugh so she doesn't cause a code white! Part of it is keeping my little leprechaun bestie out of HR!! Which is a daily struggle and also includes being the voice of reason..... me? Scary, right?

Don't tell anyone I'm a responsible badass! 🤫

We are both heads of our departments, we work under the same umbrella, but in different areas. 

Well, her team decided to act up, as they do, and not only affected her department, but also mine for tomorrow. It took A LOT to keep her off the ledge as she forgot to take her meds this morning. Namas... NOPE! 😂

So I introduced her to the sexshop website.....well, fekk me!! 

She's in my office, leaning over my desk, pushing her phone in my face, "Bish, LOOK AT THIS!!" She was like a toddler in a candy store!!! Then the FLOOD of questions and show and tell started...... 

She then asks me the difference between a dildo and a dong..... it went down hill fast from there....she found a strap on face dildo 🤦‍♀️.... her new obsession.... she's getting it to wear for Halloween! Then went off on a tangent about slapping her husband with it.....to her wearing it to work, and dick slapping anyone that pissed her off! (Complete with demonstration). Lord help us all!!

My WhatsApp has been having a stroke since she got home with all the pictures she is sending me, asking what it is used for?  She's very naive. I told her to stay out of the kink folders and she'd be okay. 

She has no toys so I told her about the Satisfyer yesterday. Well low and behold the sexshop had it on sale when I got home so I ordered her one. I told her I was going to wrap a bow around it and leave it on her desk. 😂

That caused my five foot flashbang to go off!! 

This should be interesting when it arrives!! 

She's already planning an "education lesson" date for us at the sex shop on our lunch.....

Pray for me, y'all! I've created a MONSTER!! 🫣

YOU GOT THIS!  Let's make today count! Do something today your future self will thank you for! You don't have to make waves, but start little ripples. 

So much this! 

I have been here off and on for 5 years. I have had to take breaks because the gossip and drama can be unreal at times!

I don't do drama, attention seeking, or people that don't stay in their own lane. 

We are all supposed to be adults.... I left high school a long time ago. 

It's hilarious the things that I have heard over the years. I would learn new stuff about myself every day! Very educational. 😉😂

I used to care in the beginning, and would waste my time letting it affect me, or trying to correct people. 

Now, I straight up don't care. I have learned the hard way not to fully trust people here. Not everyone that appears to be your friend, is. I freely admit I am more guarded and keep everyone at arms length. 

I run with my pms locked and am very selective who I reply too. Some say I'm a bitch, and maybe I am. 

I'm definitely less trusting and more detached with people than I was when I started. I come here to shoot the shit, then be on my merry way. I am also super selective of what I share about myself. 

Cage has been the downfall of many happy couples as it can be very toxic at times. I have witnessed many promising dynamics crumble under the influence of Cage. 

I think the turning point for me, was when people were saying I said things/did things, and my internet was OFF all weekend. I wasn't even in an area which supported it. 

It made me truly see how toxic Cage can be. I'm sure any social media platform has it's issues. That's part of the reason I have a very small online footprint.

I have always and will always make my own decisions about people. They will be based on my experiences with them, not anyone else's. I am my own person, period.

There are some positive aspects of Cage. It has its purpose, and can serve you well, depending on how you use it.  

She never set out to become strong, independent or resilient, but life had other plans.

She didn’t choose the path her life took- it chose her..

So she did what she had to do, grew stronger when she needed to and learned how to fight back, rise above and keep going..

Even when she felt like quitting so many times.

That’s not who she is or will ever be, though.

She doesn’t know how to stay down, accept defeat or be okay with giving up.

Truth is, she never saw half of what happened coming and she definitely had no idea how to make it through..

But she figured it out-

She always has.

It might not always be graceful, well planned or executed flawlessly…but she gets it done.

She’s not always had the strength or fortitude to push through and there were so many times she thought life would pull her under, but somehow, she would fight through.

The storms she has survived have made her appreciate the rainbows after the rain..

And she’s thankful for the moments that have turned into memories, people that turned into friends and the setbacks that turned into comebacks.

There will always be hard days, formidable challenges and stormy times..

But she’s learned to never let it overwhelm her or make her question herself.

She’ll find the answers, figure out the path forward and dig deeply to find her strength- she always has.

She’s more than a survivor, she’s a warrior with a heart of gold and an iron will.

For her, this life wasn’t ever a choice-

It’s who she was meant to be.

And as surely as tomorrow will rise, the first rays of sunrise will find her doing what she does best..

Living purposefully and loving passionately.

She’s got this,

And she always will..

Because she is me..

And I’m a strong woman,

And that’s what strong women do.

Overcome, fly high and shine brightly.

~ Ravenwolf