Cybr

United States
Gender
Female
About me
Newbie Sub, but in the sense of calling myself a Sub. It's been a part of my sexual preferences to be submissive without the "label" as I've learned over time. Why not now enjoy the action of being Submissive and cared for by a Dom.?.
BDSM and me
I want to be free of control and decision making in the bedroom. I want to be respected, spoiled and well treated while having my mind blown and body taken to new heights.

I'm juicy, thick, happy and healthy and I love it here. However I am working towards what I consider a better physique for my health and future. In my opinion we all should. But this is a judgment free zone period. I want to perform well for my Dom and myself. That requires stamina and strength from what I have learned so far. There is a personal achievement goal of mine, to be more disciplined in other areas of the life I'm building. Physical health and mental health are ultra important for my plans. But trust some of this thickness will linger. So if you have an issue with a little meat, kindly continue to scroll and thanks for visiting.

I'm seeking a mature experienced Daddy Dominate type. As I am very much a Princess Submissive with some Bratty tendencies. I also enjoy a bit of Masochist play and am sure that as I grow my tastes will evolve as well. All in all I am a soft woman who wants to be treated well, respected, be cared for, appreciated,spoiled and be "punished" in only the best ways. Especially when my bratty side emerges asking for it.
I am the type of woman I would choose for a Submissive if I were a Dominant man. What does this mean? I may not have everything figured out but I work hard, I take accountability, I have goals and plans for my future and am actively working towards them. Creativity is an important outlet which encourages imagination and personal growth. My actual limitations are only obstacles and effort is placed on overcoming them through allowing myself grace and patience. I believe that delays are golden opportunities and are a gift because it allows for reevaluation of our own self. My health mental and physical are extremely important and I make an effort to be as consistent as I am able. I realise perfection is a false God. I strive to reach all financial goals and responsibilities for my wellbeing and the future I desire. Treating others with dignity and respect is a priority. However, I spread love and take no shit. I realise this may derail my progress in finding compatibility. However realistic these statements of affirmation are; many will unfortunately be unprepared to meet me at the table. In other words im not seeking a sugar daddy. I'm looking for my equal. Because the D/s world in my opinion is not a 24/7 existence. There is real life with real life challenges and individual responsobilities, we should be our own person, have outlets and enjoy these differences.

Most importantly, I am willing for the right Dominant to be what he desires of me. Freely. Because that is what I want. To adore my dominant, grow with and trust his leadership elevating him always in the process. I am willing to see and desire to been seen. I am willing to learn, be guided and molded. I am willing to be transparent and trust. I am willing to coordinate with my Dom the best alliance that can only be defined through the agreement of terms we choose to establish. This is about growth and being taken past my limitations in a way that brings me joy. Through submission i want to achieve what I believe can be considered spiritual bliss. To dwell in my feminine energy while transcending into depth; beyond what I believe is possible and always discovering, challenging even the new parts of myself the deeper it becomes.
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Limits
Your life's drama/chaos is not to be taken out on me.

Preferred age range 30 to 50
Long distance isn't my thing but depends on the vibes.
Not relocating from where I'm at, lol. Not closed to it completely either. That will depend on many things up for discussion.
Not interested in HEAVY drug users. Shrooms and Mary are ok.
No criminal record behind some super crazy shit.
Absolutely NO animal kink
Absolutely no bodily fluids
Must be STD free. Testing done regularly.
Must be mentally & emotionally stable and mature or willing to grow in that aspect.
I am not in a rush to move forward with anyone be prepared to take your time
I will absolutely not send you pics until you have been throughly vetted and I am comfortable
Do not assume that "new" means naiveté, Realising this sounds stern but there have been many jokers and I've had enough lol.
Update date
May 3, 2024
Member since
Apr 13, 2024
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