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Finding a Kinky Match

Find friends, play partners, & more with "Seeking"

How can I let people know I am looking to make new connections?

If you're interested in meeting a kinky match, be it for casual play, dating, or something more serious, THE CAGE has some great tools to help you connect.

Each member profile includes a "Seeking" section, where you can specify the type of relationship or dynamic you're looking for. Whether you're seeking a friend, mentor, casual play partner, or something more serious, this is a great way to let others know what you're interested in.

How can I search for others looking for a kinky match?

You can find others "Seeking" a relationship through the 'Find Friends' search. Here you can search using several filters, including:

Age

Gender

Location

Sexual orientation

Relationship status

D/s orientation

To narrow down your search to people who are actively looking for connections, be sure to check the 'Seeking' box in the search options. This will help you find users who have filled out their "Seeking" section in their profiles, making it easier to connect with others who have similar interests.

This approach ensures you're reaching out to people who are also open to new connections, creating a space for genuine, shared interests to shine. By focusing on meaningful interactions rather than a generic personal ad, you're making your search for a kinky match more targeted, authentic, and ultimately more effective

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For community & moderation issues contact
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For technical & subscription issues contact
Cage Monkey

Or through support@thecage.co