Your opinion about my situation
2 weeks ago • 04/03/2021 5:26 am
Sirr(dom male) • 04/03/2021 5:26 am
I'm a Dom and I was wondering about any advice.I met a sub (on here) and we talked just hi hello for a month give or take. I asked her cause we were friendly if she knew any gf's looking for subs. It was the kind of friendship we had. She had started seeing a Dom. Long story short it doesn't work out( I thought ) and she said it wasn't going well and we slowly began a Dom/sub relationship. Only texting ,we talked on the phone once. It was another month and I was getting to know her and she was new and told me all the time she will not use anything without talking about it and showing her.I agreed,as I go very easy in the beginning with new subs. We texted I was giving her space cause she was busy. One day she made a comment about she's surprised that I am not texting or talking more,I explained why and we began texting everyday. Things were going great. So we were set to meet tomorrow. I was excited and so was she.We were meeting eating dinner talking and seeing if we both still feel what we felt texting. On my way home today She says "you know I had a gf who wanted a Dom but I kept you for myself. I was even more excited. So I stop by the sex shop with no intentions of bringing anything with me. I call and showed her different things and said I got 2 surprises for later when or if we began our sessions .She texts me back a long text a bunch saying I'm not going to use anything I bought and you scare me with the surprises, I then tell her I only bought a massager that plugs in and just furry buckle cuffs , I was not bring the piece that held them together. She is telling me she just being honest and she don't trust me at all and she will not submit at all. And basically found out that made 3 more sessions with the other Dom that he only put 1 velcro cuff on her. But for 4 hours she is telling me She won't be touch without her consent and she doesn't trust me at all and it's just common sense and she's not being wrong. She also made up her own colors like 5 instead of what I normally use which is yellow for she at her limit no harder or faster and red Stop everything. She had a color for it feels good,it's feels great,it's getting fast and she had red which meant she was just done with whatever the Dom is doing to her.She really had no color for stop everything. Which in my opinion is important. I was apologizing just to calm her down after me being excited and happy to see her tomorrow. I asked her if you don't want me all of a sudden. May I have your friends# that you mentioned earlier. She said go to hell. I am very easy going and always show a new sub Everything before even thinking about using it.and instead of excitement for the surprise she got flipped out and started saying she DOESN'T trust me and no one will touch her untill she says so. I never even mentioned that I would do this or that to her. But after 2 months in one day she cause I was excited to see her and bought a basic gift she ended it like I betrayed her????? Any help? She was so sweet untill she would tell me she doesn't trust me,and I told her that maybe true but you need to start somewhere. I told her something personal this morning and we were great?? I am lost.