Yesterday I had my first experience with rope. A Dom I trust, but am not in a dynamic with, came to my house. With a bunch of rope. YAY. I had told him that I was looking into the safety of Rope Bondage, he said that he would be more than willing to help me find out if this is my thing. He did a basic chest harness, and frog leg ties. We sat down and he asked me about any phobias, and he felt my temperature in different parts of my body. Then we got to it. First thing he did was tell/show me where the rope would go. He took his finger and ran it over the areas where the rope would be. He put more pressure on areas where the rope would be tighter, and where the knots would be. Once I told him I was okay with this, he slowly started to tie the rope on my chest. He continued to ask if I was okay, asking how the pressure is and telling me what he was doing. Once the chest harness was on, he let me take some pictures and get used to the feeling. I fell in love with the sensation immediately. Then we went onto the legs. He informed me that the leg ties would be a lot tighter. We started on the ankles and he kept asking about the pressure. It was really tight. Like really tight, but it was good. I liked it. I hung around in ties for about an hour, and then he took them off. The marks on my skin were fabulous. I can’t wait for it to happen again.
XOXO