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Curvy Munch, & Plus Size Body Positivity Group Any Gender Accepted Respectful Admirers welcome TOO! This event was created from this main group here in the Central New Mexico region: https://fetlife.com/groups/150736 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM Location: Alien Brew Pub 6601 Uptown Blvd NE Albuquerque, NM 87110 Wanna have a group that is positive and open and doesn't accept bad behavior, sexual advances (if that is all your doing), spamming the group or spamming your product, we don't want you! If u get out if control u will either be asked to leave by myself or manage. If you can't support the business, by buying 1 item or even better a combo and making sure you can tip 1 dollar for 1 item and at least 2 dollars for a combo, I will have to ask you to leave, we are not a group were we are to just hang out and not socialize and help the establish that is kind enough to host us! Treat people with kindness and with up most respect! Or You will be asked to leave! But if you are looking for a group that I would like to create that we can count on each other, make new friendships, connections and a new tight knit community, reminder this isnt immediate, this will take time and work from all of us! Please do not just look for a partner, one rule u must have at least 3 different events before asking for sexual or kink interests! Got an idea for an event hit me up! For this event perfect for a casual place to build relationship, friends, new connections, but know it take time for real friends to build real connections and if h believe this gathering is worth it give it multiple choices! 3, 6, 9, 12+ months! When you arrive you can either spot me and the dog, or you can ask the staff where the event for Curvy Munch aka Body Positivity ABQ and they will show you to the table. Please note I have told the manager 10 people but they can always add a table and an extra server, however if you RSVP and change your mind, please have the respect for others in the group and the establishment to take yourself off the list. Even if your a maybe. Thank you for your consideration and I hope to see you there, I must let the establishment know by 5pm the night before the event as to how many people are coming to make sure there is enough staff. I will then check this event page at 4pm that day to update the managers if the numbers have changed. Please note you will be required to wear name tags, you will be required to sign a set of rules at each establishment you agree to and ask that you read them before you sign, as this is a requirement. See you all there! Hours to Hang and Meet Others: 5:00-8:00pm (I will be leaving when everyone is headed out, normally 7:30-8pm, but everyone is welcome to stay and chat, but once I leave group u are responsible for yourself totally) How to Spot Us: Ask at the front for Curvy Munch/Body Positvity ABQ, the person at the front will show you were we are to be seated. Perks This event is open to anyone who is a positive person around people of size, from BBW, SSBBW, BHM, Foodies and there admirers. Or if you just prefer hanging out with the softer people in life, LOL, then this is the event for you! You are also welcome if you are body positive and do not mind whatever size you are or attracted too! But prefer if u have a fat roll that is noticable making u plus size, chubby or more extreme size and respectful admirers. This location is a test location for future events, to see how we are treated and if we are respected and if the staff/managers like our group. This is a test for this group to see if we can encourage the staff to want us back! So please be polite, on your best behavior and make sure to tip! If you have questions please DM and I am here to make this a success! See you there! Sunshine ========== Definitions for this posting • BBW - Big Beautiful Women • SSBBW - Super Sized BBW USSBW - Ultra Super Size BBW BHM - Big Handsome Man Plus Body Positive Person - A large Fat roll that diesnt fit into standards of thin figure. Admirers who are respectful and can be friendly and non sexual actions at all!

PLEASE NOTE: This event is for consenting adults who enjoy sexualised DDlg role-play and want to enjoy that environment with like minded people. This event will have Daddy's socialising and little girls talking to other little girls and, if they wish, taking part in games and activities (Colouring in, bead making, hair braiding, etc). We understand that from time to time little girls can forget themselves and so if any Daddy felt his girl needed some correction he can take her into the play room to remind her of her place ? Firstly can we please say what the event is NOT: * It is NOT an event suitable for anyone wishing to regress into a safe age environment. * It is NOT for nappy/diaper wearers. * It is NOT for young age play. * It is NOT for people who want to revert to a child like state. This event is: * An event for Male Daddies and their female partners, who enjoy Daddy Dom/little girl play. * For those who enjoy sexualised DDlg play. * Age range wise, it is aimed mainly at the tween/lolita little girl. Hosted at The Sanctuary, we provide a wonderful venue, to both socialise and play in, party food for you to enjoy and a relaxed ambience. Our events are pre-book only, you CANNOT just turn up on the day. To book your place please email us at hello@thegentlemensclub.events Dress code * Daddies - This is a party so we do expect that Daddies dress for the occasion, no jeans or streetwear, please make an effort as the little girls certainly will be. * little girls - little girls can wear whatever they want from school uniform to lingerie but please remember the ethos of the event and try to wear clothing fitting to that ideal. Etiquette & Rules * To provide a safe space to enjoy Daddy Dom/little girl related sexualised play. * To give couples an event to enjoy their dynamic with like minded guests. * To provide a safe, clean and legal space. * To vouch all attendees for the safety and enjoyment of all. * To be sex positive. PLEASE NOTE : Alcohol is allowed but please drink responsibly, for the safety of yourself and those around you. Please be aware that just because the Daddies are in control this does not mean we allow boorish behaviour. Anyone displaying poor behaviour (Daddies or their little girls) will be removed from the venue for the security and comfort of our guests.

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littles unleashed critters 2nd annual picnic @ Tradewinds Park who let the critters out??? the littles did --- Who: South Florida littles, critters, caretakers and handlers --- What: 2nd Annual littles unleashed critters picnic --- When: Feb 16, 2019 10am-6pm --- Where: Tradewinds Park - Daggerwing Shelter (the only screened in patio) --- Why: To allow South Florida littles and critter ark a day to play in the park. Daddies, Mommies, Caretakers, and Handlers are encouraged to help wrangle in critters and littles as they run amok. Who let the critters out???? the littles did! --- Theme: Superheroes NOTE: This is a G-RATED event so littles can maintain their headspace so please respect limits. NOTE: NO SINGLE BIG LETTERS/HANDLERS/CARETAKERS will be allowed. You MUST be accompanied by your little/critter. This is not a pick up event. GAMES Waterbead shooters Egg & spoon 3-legged race GIGANTIC Jenga Yard Yahtzee Cornhole Tic-Tac-Toe FOOD Hot dogs, Hamburgers and Chicken breasts (provided by Big letter brunch) Side dishes (please let us know what you can bring/donate) desserts treats ACTIVITIES --- tableclothes will double as coloring spaces and crayons will be provided. We will have plenty coloring pages/word search sheets to keep your little self busy :) --- little scouts merit badges for those in troop #577 --- bubbles... how can littles NOT have bubbles? Whats provided by the shelter? 1 outlet (I will bring a power strips but will be using probably 3 plugs for fans/photo printer). So if you would want to charge your phone, please bring portable battery chargers as electricity will be scarce. If using a plug, please be courteous as others would maybe need to utilize it as well. There is a DOUBLE sized grill so should be adequate to prepare lunch. Balloons are not allowed in the park (sorry littles).

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As before, the event is intended as an entry to CM/nf. Whilst total nudity from the ladies is preferred, we have allowed a limited dress code (see below) that will enable a modicum of modesty whilst still enforcing a considerable element of exposure. Although there will be the chance to play, the emphasis would be on the dynamic and headspace that being in such an environment would create. The day will include the usual luxuries you've come to expect from our events: * The Sunday papers to browse. * Our serving girls offering tempting treats. * Our wonderful guitarist to welcome our guests with live music. * Ample well lit car parking. * Very remote location, arrive (un)dressed however you wish. * Fully licensed bar. * Photography from TheSecretSmile * Nibbles prepared in professional on-site kitchens, cake served later. * 3 separate play areas downstairs. * 4 intimate play rooms upstairs. * Lockers and changing rooms. * Huge Jacuzzi with free towels. * Large outdoor lawn area (weather permitting). * Heated, seated and covered outdoor smoking area. * On site accommodation. Please email us at hello@thegentlemensclub.events to reserve your tickets. Dress Code This event has a VERY strict dress code, it is the guests responsibility to make sure they fully understand the requirements. If you have any questions regarding the dress code please do get in touch as we WILL be removing any guests who do not meet the requirements. We are sorry if this comes across as heavy handed but un/dress is central to this event and has to be followed to the letter. naked females Overall premise - Exposure and vulnerability Minimum outfit: Our preferred choice for female guests is of course naked. Maximum outfit: We understand that for a lot of our female guests the idea of being near or completely naked is a scary thought, it challenges them to fight one of their hardest foes, self confidence. Because of this we are allowing those guests unsure or unused to this dynamic the chance to wear very minimal clothing. * The majority of the body must be exposed, the skin directly visible and uncovered. * Clothing if worn must be underwear in style, very minimal and preferably sheer. * A minimum of breasts and/or genitals must be COMPLETELY exposed at all times. This means no covering of ANY KIND, even sheer items. Clothed Males * Suit: Our preferred choice is a tuxedo but a minimum of a 2 piece matching jacket and trousers, worn with a collared shirt and tie is acceptable. If you have any other formal outfits in mind please get in touch to see if they are acceptable. Payment Information Our events are by prepaid ticket only but we try to make buying your tickets as easy as possible. *By debit or credit card via our online payment system. Debit/credit card purchases incur a 10% processing fee when paying this way. * By bank transfer, details available on request. We can only accept payments from guests who have already received their Booking Confirmation Reference. Single men and couples will need to be vouched for if not known to The Gentlemen’s Club team.

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Saturday March 21st Door open at 7PM. Close at 2AM Cost: 5 $ donation per person and a potlick item per person VIP RULES APPLY Area and equipment for SUSPENSION available Sex allowed - please follow guidelines RULES: RESPONSIBLE REPORTING : It is your responsibility to report to Obsidian any concerns you have regarding activities or attendees within 24 hours. Preferably at the event. We cant address what we dont know. Always behave in a safe, sane, and consensual manner. Clean up after yourself and your partner. No drugs, alcohol, or controlled substances are allowed on the premises. If you are intoxicated, you will be asked to leave. Pictures with discretion are allowed- you MUST have consent of ALL of those in the picture before you take it. No negotiation of/or exchange of money or barter is allowed. Blood allowed- NO SPLATTER PLEASE We are opening up for fluid play, but please clear it with the host either prior to the event or the day of. Think about what you might need to contain your mess: chux, tarps, blankets, towels. These things may be required but will not be provided. All persons here are entitled to full confidentiality. The leadership of Obsidian reserves the right to refuse admittance and/or expel any person from any Obsidian event for any reason.

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KinkFest is an annual, 3-day event celebrating sexual diversity, bdsm, fetish and leather communities. There are numerous educational classes, evening play parties, and a large vendor mall filled with products and services from local and national leather, fetish and kink businesses. KinkFest continues to focus effort on welcoming ALL facets of our diverse leather, bdsm, fetish and kink communities. Kinkfest and the Portland Leather Alliance (PLA) encourage you to come and celebrate what we all share in common and to enjoy the rich tapestry of our varied culture.

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PLEASE NOTE: This event is for consenting adults who enjoy sexualised DDlg role-play and want to enjoy that environment with like minded people. This event will have Daddy's socialising and little girls talking to other little girls and, if they wish, taking part in games and activities (Colouring in, bead making, hair braiding, etc). We understand that from time to time little girls can forget themselves and so if any Daddy felt his girl needed some correction he can take her into the play room to remind her of her place ? Firstly can we please say what the event is NOT: * It is NOT an event suitable for anyone wishing to regress into a safe age environment. * It is NOT for nappy/diaper wearers. * It is NOT for young age play. * It is NOT for people who want to revert to a child like state. This event is: * An event for Male Daddies and their female partners, who enjoy Daddy Dom/little girl play. * For those who enjoy sexualised DDlg play. * Age range wise, it is aimed mainly at the tween/lolita little girl. Hosted at The Sanctuary, we provide a wonderful venue, to both socialise and play in, party food for you to enjoy and a relaxed ambience. Our events are pre-book only, you CANNOT just turn up on the day. To book your place please email us at hello@thegentlemensclub.events Dress code * Daddies - This is a party so we do expect that Daddies dress for the occasion, no jeans or streetwear, please make an effort as the little girls certainly will be. * little girls - little girls can wear whatever they want from school uniform to lingerie but please remember the ethos of the event and try to wear clothing fitting to that ideal. Etiquette & Rules * To provide a safe space to enjoy Daddy Dom/little girl related sexualised play. * To give couples an event to enjoy their dynamic with like minded guests. * To provide a safe, clean and legal space. * To vouch all attendees for the safety and enjoyment of all. * To be sex positive. PLEASE NOTE : Alcohol is allowed but please drink responsibly, for the safety of yourself and those around you. Please be aware that just because the Daddies are in control this does not mean we allow boorish behaviour. Anyone displaying poor behaviour (Daddies or their little girls) will be removed from the venue for the security and comfort of our guests.

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At The Gentlemen’s Club (TGC) the gentleman's desires come first, to be looked after and provided for by their submissive. How that is accomplished we will let you decide. Our event removes any ambiguity over orientation; the ladies are submissive, the men are Dominant. There will be no pressure, and plenty of respect. Hosted at Liberty Elite,We provide a wonderful venue, to both socialise and play in, and a relaxed ambience. We style ourselves on the gentlemen's clubs of old, somewhere for the gents and their submissives to relax, unwind and be themselves away from the prying eyes of society. There will be some smooth music to set the tone and our TGC ladies will be on hand to answer any questions, provide tours of the venue and serve nibbles. This event is aimed at both those new to the Male Dominant/female submissive dynamic and those with experience. It acts as a good entry to this dynamic and can act as a gateway to our more protocol based event, The CMnf Organisation. * Venue: Liberty Elite * Date: Sunday 14th June 2020, 2pm to 8pm. Our events are pre-book only, you CANNOT just turn up on the day. To book your place please email us at hello@thegentlemensclub.events Dress code We do have a full dress code but briefly: * Gentlemen - We of course expect you to be well dressed, so suits, smoking jackets and formal wear are de rigueur, as the saying goes ‘suits are to ladies what lingerie is to men’. * ladies - We expect you to dress to impress, you are there to please your man after all, so that could be a sultry dress, sexy lingerie or perhaps nothing at all. Etiquette & Rules We have a full set of Etiquette & Rules but at our core we have the following beliefs: * To provide a safe space to enjoy Male Dominance and female submission. * To give couples an event to enjoy their dynamic with like minded guests. * To provide a safe, clean and legal space. * To vouch all attendees for the safety and enjoyment of all. * To be sex positive, we are fully licensed for all adult activities. Please be aware that just because the gentlemen are in control this does not mean we allow boorish behaviour. Anyone displaying ungentlemanly, or unladylike behaviour will be removed from the venue for the security and comfort of our guests.

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SAVE THE DATE AUGUST 21- 23 2020 THROUGH THE LOOKING GLASS FEATURING: SUB MISS ANN https://fetlife.com/users/9326 AND GISELLE https://fetlife.com/users/1192973 SINGLETAIL COMPETITION BY R&S Whips FLOGGING COMPETITION BY TNG's Naughtia PIERCING BY DenizenUrth Free camping onsite Hotel 10 mins from grounds As like everything Obsidian does! DONATIONS ONLY AND VIP RULES APPLY

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