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A 14th century pub lovely staff atmosphere good food good beer. Large garden to use. Vanilla only we don't want to scare the regulars. 8pm to 10pm

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This event is a birthday party and Fundraiser to support our dearest Friend and Vampire Lord.... Count Blackrose... He has been to Hell and back these last 4 months... but as the Name says... The Vampire Never DIES!! so come out and celebrate the journey of this Count of Darkness with us... Birthday wishes of all kinds welcome... Want to guess how many years He has travelled this realm?? Bring your ones for the buy His birthday spankings!!! a 21+ event

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Local chapter meeting for Masters and slaves together international. (Cross posted from another site I use) Come Come to learn about kink related activities as well as power exchange relationships. All are welcomed

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This is a FEMDOM event. Male and female submissives are always welcomed. Male switches, please put on your subby/bottom hat and keep it there all night. (We have a stapler if that’ll help…just sayin’.) Male Doms—we’re not picking on you, but tonight is especially for the Dommes to work their delicious magic in the dungeon. Thanks for understanding! Not a member? Not a problem! Pay the $25 membership fee, have your nightly fee waived, fill out our waiver form and speak with one of our staffers. (Make sure to have a current photo ID with your date of birth on it. Must be 18 years of age or older. All prospective members and guests are checked against the national DOJ database for registered sex offenders.) If you are renewing or attending for the first time, you MUST present a valid government-issued photo ID with your date of birth on it. NO EXCEPTIONS! Parking and beverages are FREE at the Phoenix! :) New to our FemDom Fridays? We have some articles on our website that will help answer your questions!

Dress is Street Legal BDSM BEST!!! Gear, Costume, leathers, sweatpants!!! Hosted by: Alice Cupcake (I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HE IS WEARING!!!) HEADLINER: DEE DEVINE Performances by: Anitra Blue Mardi gras QUEEN Stacia VU YOUR FAVORITE BDSM community performers Come in Gear, Costume, Leathers, or your just rolled out of bed clothes! EVERY PENNY goes to: https://fetlife.com/events/740899 This event in May is run entirely on donations. Wonderland helps that happen. Every dollar brought in goes directly back into this community.

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Just a friendly (and small) get together of like minded people interested in alternative ways to life your life in a power exchange and BDSM style.

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Local chapter meeting for Masters and slaves together international. Come Come to learn about kink related activities as well as power exchange relationships. All are welcomed.

Doors open at 7 Street legal till the door- but after dark can be outside in your choice! Rules are : Always behave in a safe, sane, and consensual manner. Clean up after yourself and your partner. No drugs, alcohol, or controlled substances are allowed on the premises. If you are intoxicated, you will be asked to leave. Pictures with discretion is allowed- you MUST have consent of ALL of those in the picture before you take it. No negotiation of/or exchange of money or barter is allowed. No bodily fluids. Blood allowed- NO SPLATTER PLEASE No penetration is allowed. No Sex Allowed. All persons here are entitled to full confidentiality. The leadership of Bearwitch/Obsidian reserves the right to refuse admittance and/or expel any person from any Bearwitch/Obsidian event for any reason. For the potluck ; Please no cookies or ships. Drinks are provided. No Alcohol, No drugs, No illegal substances Marijuana will be treated as any other prescription drug. Please do not smoke due to possible contact high. DO NOT SHARE.

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Just a friendly (and small) get together of like minded people interested in alternative ways to life your life in a power exchange and BDSM style.

EVENTS CALENDAR Doors open at 1pm Vendors and Psychics • 1pm - 8 pm Play space for Littles • 1pm - 9:00 pm Animal Area sponsored by ASHAR 1pm-8pm Presentations • 4:00 pm - 8:15 pm Pet Parade • 7:00 pm Kink Walk • 8:30 pm Photographer • 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Dungeon • 9:00 pm - 2:00 am (Tent camping allowed onsite and a local hotel ten minutes down the road.) Tent Classes Elaina de la Mer on “Humiliation” 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Erotic Humiliation with Elaina de la Mer. A participatory introductory level class on consensual psychological humiliation for sexual arousal, enjoyment and fulfillment. After participating in this class you will have a base level knowledge of the why’s and how’s of erotic humiliation and be able to incorporate humiliation in your play. Find out more at her site: Mistress Elaina Alibi on "Single Tail Style" 5:15 pm - 6:15 pm Come in and learn about single tails (bull whips, snake whips and signal whips). Light play to heavy markings the whip can be an exciting addition to your bedroom or dungeon play! Count Blackrose on "Advanced Electrics" 6:30 pm - 7:30 pm In this class there will be some history of Violet Wand, advancements, new products, new uses for wands. penetration while electrified, silicone rubber, new and cheaper toys, what not to electrify and Fire play with wands. Russell on "Hooks and Hooking" 7:45 pm - 9:00 pm Covering both theory and hands on, this class will cover the fundamentals of how to throw a hook i.e. how to put a thick gauge, de-barbed, fishing hook into the skin of a person for meaningful ritual and/or a kinky good time. The class will cover the needed resources, preparation, hygiene, technical knowledge and skills, what to expect, inspiration for hook uses, clean up, burping and aftercare. Hooks will be available. Note: Although the process of "throwing a hook" is the same for hook suspensions, that subject is beyond the technical scope of this class. Indoor Room - Presentations Mauro speaking on "Never Forget! Stories of the AIDS Crisis from the Front Lines" 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm The presenter was an AIDS attorney from 1985-1995 in Washington, DC at the height of the AIDS crisis. He started as a volunteer at the Whitman-Walker Clinic in DC in 1985 and was hired as the first Legal Director in 1986. He held that post for 2 years and saw over 1100 clients die, as well as friends, roommates and even partners. He continued in AIDS work through volunteering and starting the HIV Legal Clinic at the DC School of Law. He is currently writing a book about his experiences called "Confessions of an AIDS Attorney". Giant (International Bear 2018) speaking on "Historical Revisionism: Narratives of History" 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm History defines our culture. It is who we are as a family, a community and a people. There is a saying that history is written by the victors but what does that mean for those in marginalized communities? What happened to their stories? My goals for this class are to understand the different kinds of historical revisionism, how it is used to sway narratives and how it can be counteracted at a grassroots level through storytelling and connecting histories. Jaki Griot speaking on "People of Color in Kink and Leather" 7:00 pm - 8:15 pm People of Color have unique experiences and a rich history of participating in the organized Leather and Kink communities. First half of the class is informative and the second half will be open discussion on the topic. We will discuss the history of Black kink and the challenges that affect marginalized communities who participate in public sex positive spaces. Other Events The Littles Play Space 11 am – 9pm This area is completely separate from BDSM activity. We will be providing a tent, juice boxes, animal crackers and bubble wands for the littles to completely be littles!!! Pet Parade / Fun Challenge Sponsored by: ASHAR (The Albuquerque Sanctuary for Human Animal Roleplay) 7:00 pm Awards will be given for the following categories: Most graceful Most comedic Most creative Most hard working Others such as Best original fur Best animal call Kink Walk 8:30 pm Strut those boots, corsets, your leather best and your chaps!!!! Come looking your best and show it off! Photographer 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Photos of you and yours are available onsite by Alibi for $10. Alibi has been our “community photographer” for years. He is known for his amazing shots that radiate our history and capture the beauty of all skin tones. (If you are interested in a personal session with Alibi please contact him for pricing and availability. You will love his work as much as we do!!! Contact Alibi Dungeon for Sex/Play and More! 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Play Harder • Love Stronger • Learn Deeper

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*Date subject to change* Local chapter meeting for Masters and slaves together international. Come Come to learn about kink related activities as well as power exchange relationships. All are welcomed

It’s hard to believe we are approaching our 1-year anniversary. We are planning a 3-day community event to celebrate the occasion. Mark your calendars for June 7th, 8th, and 9th of 2019 and make plans to join us for a weekend packed with an array of fetishes and kink. More information will be posted as the time nears. You won't want to miss this!! Any presenters and/or vendors interested in participating, please contact us. We would love to have you support your community and share your knowledge and wares!

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