BDSM Event Calendar

Naughty in N'Awlins 2026

Lifestyle convention and celebration in New Orleans

The Psychology of Fetish & Kink

Discover what factors can drive fetish and kink behaviours, and practical steps to communicate your desires for pleasure. Followed by Q+A.

Curiosity as a Practice: Virtual Workshop

Develop your curiosity as an intersectional skill to help navigate ENM/poly, kink, and play spaces

ABCD Munch

Join us for a cozy and playful social event. Meet other sapphic littles, chat, enjoy tea, finger foods, colouring, crafts, and board games.

Naughty N'Awlins 2026

Four-night alternative-lifestyle convention in New Orleans — seminars, themed parties, drag and burlesque.

Kinky Wednesdays

A Burlesque Experience & Content Creator Mixer

Chicago Fetish Weekend 2026

Multi-day fetish weekend in Chicago

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Tie & Bust — a BDSM Workshop on CBT

How to safely T the C and the B.

Rope Burn SF

The Bay Area's only rope skill-share for men who like to tie men*! For more information, including FAQ, check out www.ropeburnsf.com!

LA Kinky Weirdos July Munch - Theme: Intergalactic

Come out and meet other LA weirdos just like you!

Sex Positive Organizer's Support Circle: From Removal to Repair

Rethinking Bans, Accountability, and Reinstatement in Community Spaces

Kink-Curious Social Club

Do you want to make kink-curious friends? This is the place for you.

Flogging 201

Because sometimes, two hands are better than one!

Bootblack Round Up 2026

Bootblack community gathering

L!CKED - FLINTA* KINKY PARTY

Ein Raum für uns. Geschaffen für Freiheit, Vertrauen und echtes Sein.❤️

Queer Munch (July)

Queer Munch is a safe, inclusive community for LGBTQ+ folks to explore kink and BDSM in a non-sexual, pressure-free environment.

The Kink Workshop Conference 2026

The Kink Workshop Conference is back for its second year — three days of BDSM education, hands-on skill building, and community in San Diego

Code DRK @ Club X July 10th

Glasgow's full fetish social event for men/masc presenting only

Bound to Tease

An Evening of Kink, Burlesque & Sensual Sensations

NO LOVE EXPO

Live art with Shibari food and body painting competition

POSE alternative life drawing KINK EDITION

Explore the visual artistry of kink with our visiting practitioners, and sketch shibari, suspension, wax pours, and restraint.

Drawminatrix · BDSM & Fetish Figure Drawing

Kinky figure drawing for exhibitionists and artistically inclined folks

Session 641 - Days - The Kinks

Harness the power of singing with our uplifting online singing sessions. As seen on BBC, ITV, NBC + more.

BARBARA: My Kink is... Barbara!

BARBARA is a monthly themed queer party, put on by the House of Abstract Bulls**t (Linda, Aria, Jaundice and Cherry)

KNICK

Berlin meets San Francisco. Techno takes over. Erotic, fetish, or artistic attire. Adra · Alec Fursman · Juana

My devilish Desires : Shibari workshop

Step into a sensual world of Shibari with My Devilish Desires this July for an immersive couples rope workshop in London.

Shibari 102: Rope Bondage Patterns, Flow & Embodied Connection

A hands-on, clothed workshop for learning to connect techniques into flowing, intentional rope sequences that emphasize rhythm

Sausage and Banana: Every Dude Play Party

Get ready to vibe, snack, and play at the ultimate Sausage and Banana party for all dudes! Including performance by Bryan Quartz!

Shifting Gears

A gear making class taught by kinky people, for kinky people. There will also be a gear swap if you want to trade any unloved items!

The Barnet Munch Book Club

Weekly socials for books & kinks! For kinksters who prefer large country house getaways over theme park rentals. 21-40s ONLY.

Austin Kinky Speed Dating Mixer

Get ready to meet some adventurous singles and spark connections in a fun, flirty speed dating vibe!

Role Mapping: Discovering Yourself as a Dominant, Switch, or Submissive

Explore the spectrum of Dominants, Switches, and Submissives and uncover what best aligns with your desires in this online workshop.

Total Desire Pass: Foundations of Intentional Kink

Save on all 4 workshops in the "Foundations of Intentional Kink" series and get a month of Patreon access + 15% off 1-on-1 coaching FREE!

Conscious Play

Create more liberating sex-positive experiences through trauma-informed care, consent, communication, and connection.

Arts & Cuffs

Kinky figure drawing and other fun arts and shafts

VIP kinky gathering at Platinum 84

Join us for an exclusive night of fun and connection at VIP kinky gathering, Platinum 84’s hottest in-person event!

HMU Tie Me Down: Rope Jam

Whether you're a skilled rope artist, an experienced rope bunny, or brand new and just curious, we welcome you!

(ETHICAL) FINDOM 101: THE BASICS

Learn the ropes of ethical financial domination online—set boundaries, have fun, and stay safe!

Diversity in Kink Book Club w/ Missy: Deep End

Join Missy for our new, adults only book club, starting with Ali Hazelwood's novel, Deep End.

Free Online Event – Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey

Unlock a thriving Dom/sub lifestyle and gain the knowledge, skills, and confidence you need to overcome your vanilla routine and live your kinkiest life.
Contact: Dom Sub Living

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BONDAGE Life Drawing Class

Explore the art of drawing with a twist at our BDSM Life Drawing Class. Hosted by artist Stella-May & Come As You Are. +18

Sex, Death, and Kink

Queer Death Salon is a drop-in community discussion space to build skill, connection, and resource sharing networks for 2SLGBTQIA+ people.

Somatic BDSM Foundations

“The Therapeutic and Transformational Power of Conscious Kink”

Goddess Karaoke Munch

Are you a Goddess? Do you love Goddesses? Join us at Brando’s Speakeasy for a casual, pleasure-filled evening of music and connection.

Introduction to Japanese Rope Bondage

This hands-on workshop is dedicated to getting you doing Japanese bondage, whether you're an absolute beginner or have some experience.

Taillor Foot Lesson — BDSM & Fetish

Foot Things!

Kink Weekend OKC 2026

Join us for a wild weekend of kink and fun in OKC!

Sydney Leather Festival 2026

Australia premier celebration of leather, fetish, and BDSM culture. Parties, workshops, competitions across 10 days.

Elevation Rope 2026

Rope bondage and shibari retreat in the Blue Ridge Mountains

Beguiled 2026: Odyssey of Trance

Erotic hypnosis convention