This workshop examines how toxic or predatory people can exploit trust in BDSM, including both Dominants who abuse their power and bottoms who behave manipulatively. Participants will learn to recognize warning signs—such as ignored limits or safe words—and distinguish healthy negotiation from coercion, while practicing communication, boundary-setting, and self-advocacy. The class also covers vetting potential partners, building a support network, and protecting yourself from draining or unsafe dynamics.
Contact:
Miss Mackenzee(dom female)
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
| Online | |
| $26 | |
| venusiansociety.com |
Come out and meet other LA weirdos just like you!
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
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Untamed Spirits 3715 Evans Street West, Los Angeles, CA 90027 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Dinner gets YUMMY: an intimate 28-guest Baltimore cabaret of burlesque, kink, theatre, storytelling & the unexpected.
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
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Kink Cafe 2015 North Charles Street, Baltimore, MD 21218 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Foot Things!
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
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Exact Address will be sent via email Bushwick, Brooklyn, NY 11207 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Bondage with no ropes.♡
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
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The Crown Exact address will be sent to you via email., Brooklyn, NY 11207 |
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| eventbrite.com |
The Bay Area's only rope skill-share for men who like to tie men*! For more information, including FAQ, check out www.ropeburnsf.com!
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
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StopGap 9th and Mission, San Francisco, CA 94103 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Eat. Chat. Learn. Play. For adventurous people who value growth and connection.
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
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43 Towns Rd studio 202 43 Towns Road #studio 202, Toronto, ON M8Z 1A2 |
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| eventbrite.ca |
Dynamic Floor Rope teaches you how your ropes will act on a body when forces are applied to them, and how to use that to your advantage!
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
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magic box studios 429 hillside avenue, Victoria, BC V8T 1Y6 |
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| eventbrite.ca |
Spanking evening at the No Limits SM bar, 20:00-02:00.
| Nov 12, 2026 | |
| No Limits SM-Bar, Wien | |
| nolimits.bar |
Kink convention and hotel takeover weekend
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
| Manchester, NH | |
| eastcoastkinkevents.com |
Leather and kink weekend in the Pacific Northwest
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
| Seattle, WA | |
| thecage.co |
Fetish fair and community weekend on the South Carolina coast
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
| Myrtle Beach, SC | |
| thecage.co |
As a group, we will do a simple self-tie rope harness and drop into an embodied meditation with the intention of presence and relaxation.
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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45555 N Ridge Rd 45555 North Ridge Road, Amherst, OH 44001 |
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Explore rope, rhythm and connection with Lola Tiger Nawa and Kiran Premnath. Tango meets Kinbaku; beginners welcome.
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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Rope Jam Studio 7 Fountayne Road Unit 2, London, N15 4QL |
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| eventbrite.co.uk |
The BDSM art of consensual shaming & other belittlements.
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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Lower Manhattan Exact address will be sent to you via email., Manhattan, NY 10012 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Step into an intentional, trauma-informed space where desire meets self-awareness, boundaries become empowerment, and kink becomes a pathway
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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Kink Cafe 2015 N Charles St., Baltimore, MD 21218 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Learn new skills, deepen your practice, and experience rope play in a fresh way.
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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MarYSoul Expression Studio 1001 East 2nd Street Door C-D #1545, Dayton, OH 45402 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Queer Munch is a safe, inclusive community for LGBTQ+ folks to explore kink and BDSM in a non-sexual, pressure-free environment.
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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Bridgeport Pride Center 166 Elm Street, Bridgeport, CT 06604 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Come get lost in leather & lust on November, Friday the 13th.
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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The Rock House 8 George Street, St. John's, NL A1C 1H7 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Kinky figure drawing for exhibitionists and artistically inclined folks
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
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10012 10012, New York, NY 10012 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Kink community meetup (Stammtisch) in Vienna.
| Nov 13, 2026 | |
| Smartcafe, Wien | |
| fetischparty.at |
Aural kinks? Sexy Strings? Sonically queer music? Adult content films? Sounds like a hot sexy night to learn about musical erotica
| Nov 14, 2026 | |
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Alternative Creations Studio 1659 Venables Street, Vancouver, BC V5L 2H1 |
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| eventbrite.ca |
Workshop with RE-strai-NT followed by an open play evening at MINK, the Flemish kink venue in Geel.
| Nov 14, 2026 | |
| MINK (More Than Kink) | |
| morethankink.com |
A practical and empowering class designed for anyone who wants to explore or refine their dominant side in BDSM play.
| Nov 14, 2026 | |
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1800 S. Broadway 1800 S. Broadway, Denver, CO 80210 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Beginner rope bondage workshop by the Paris BDSM association PariS-M, 14:00-18:30. Mixed audience, open to association members (adults only); 25 EUR per registered member, exact address sent the day before.
| Nov 14, 2026 | |
| Aubervilliers (Paris area) | |
| paris-m.org |
It’s not the next step, it’s the first step. And, it’s the first step that counts.
A Facilitative Experience for Newbies!
| Nov 14, 2026 | |
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The Stockroom / Syren Latex 1769 Glendale Boulevard, Los Angeles, CA 90026 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Get ready to learn some cool Shibari knots and techniques, perfect if you’re new or looking to step up your game!
| Nov 14, 2026 | |
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297 Pleasant Street, Northampton, MA, USA 297 Pleasant Street, Northampton, MA 01060 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Ropes and Leather Kink Education event runs 9–11pm, followed by a party from 11pm–2am. Leather is preferred but come as you are.
| Nov 14, 2026 | |
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2805 NW 36th St 2805 Northwest 36th Street, Oklahoma City, OK 73112 |
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A lecture and hands on workshop cultivating connection and creativity for resilience and healing.
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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Therapy Suites 366 Adelaide Street East, Toronto, ON M5A 3X9 |
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| eventbrite.com |
A five-hour TK lab exploring anatomy, mechanics, adaptation and creative construction with Lola Tiger Nawa at Rope Jam Studio.
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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Rope Jam Studio 7 Fountayne Road Unit 2, London, N15 4QL |
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| eventbrite.co.uk |
Celebrate the launch of the book Fetish: Smash Taboos and Celebrate What Turns You On with Niki Fainbloom hosted by The Romance Section.
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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1909 9th St 1909 9th Street, Boulder, CO 80302 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Intro to Rope Bondage: Rope essentials, with core practice on secure wrist and ankle ties.
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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Lower Manhattan Exact address will be sent to you via email., Manhattan, NY 10012 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Shared knowledge is our kink.
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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Exact Address will be sent via email Bushwick, Brooklyn, NY 11207 |
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| eventbrite.com |
A Wild Pleasure Sanctuary x Viriditas Apothecary x Willow Sisters Community Production
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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111 Superior St 111 Superior Street, Victoria, BC V8V 1T2 |
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Four hours of learning rope, breath and presence for two. Max. 4 couples, €150 per couple, English & Deutsch. Guided by artist Dan Carabas.
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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Shibari Studio Hannoversche Straße, 10115 Berlin |
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| eventbrite.de |
A 2-Hour Interactive Crash Course for the BDSM & Alternative Lifestyle Community
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
| Online | |
| eventbrite.com |
Join us for a chill Sunday Shibari Session to practice the art of Japanese rope bondage in a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere!
| Nov 15, 2026 | |
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unit 6/66 Kent St 66 Kent Street #unit 6, Cannington, WA 6107 |
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| eventbrite.com.au |
This trauma-informed workshop explores when kink may support healing and when other forms of connection or pleasure may feel safer, with a focus on autonomy, boundaries, check-ins, and thoughtful negotiation. Participants will learn to recognize triggers, attachment patterns, red and green flags, and shame spirals, while using pacing, grounding, somatic exercises, and care plans to manage activated feelings and post-play drop. Open to people affected by sexual, systemic, generational, developmental, or other trauma, the workshop also offers ways to explore roles and headspaces and support a partner with a trauma history.
Contact:
Miss Mackenzee(dom female)
| Nov 16, 2026 | |
| Online | |
| $25 | |
| forbiddentickets.com |
Join us for our fun and informative Fundamental Rope Classes - perfect for beginners!
| Nov 16, 2026 | |
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Ye Olde Salutation Inn, Hounds Gate, Nottingham, UK Hounds Gate Upstairs, Nottingham, NG1 7AA |
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| eventbrite.co.uk |
If you're curious about the psychological benefits of subspace & power dynamics through a strengths based perspective, this one's for you
| Nov 16, 2026 | |
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120 Walker St floor 5 120 Walker Street #floor 5, New York, NY 10013 |
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| eventbrite.com |
This workshop explores the messy, tender, awkward realities within interconnected communities, and how to navigate them with care.
| Nov 16, 2026 | |
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Come As You Are 464 College Street, Toronto, ON M6G 1A1 |
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| eventbrite.com |
This workshop explores erotic humiliation, from playful teasing to more intense shame-based scenes, and explains how shame and arousal can connect while keeping consent and emotional safety central. It covers negotiation, reading cues, starting gently, managing complex feelings and post-play drop, distinguishing consensual play from abuse, and pausing or ending a scene when needed. Participants will explore activities and techniques—including verbal domination, objectification, service-based humiliation, public-space play, and props—while learning to create experiences that feel exciting, caring, and affirming.
Contact:
Miss Mackenzee(dom female)
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
| Online | |
| $26 | |
| venusiansociety.com |
A monthly social gathering for kinky adults
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
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815 E Front St suite 4a 815 East Front Street #suite 4a, Missoula, MT 59802 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Small Bites Sex Ed is a three-part workshop series focused on Polyamory, Kink, and Neurodiversity, brought to you by Oleander Institute.
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
| Online | |
| eventbrite.com |
This class is to help prepare you to bring your full self to the negotiation process and improve using your words with others.
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
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1800 S. Broadway 1800 S. Broadway, Denver, CO 80210 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Monthly social meetup of Libertine Wien, Austria's long-running BDSM association, from 20:00 (next: 15 December). Mixed audience; a relaxed evening to chat and meet the community.
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
| Smart Cafe, Vienna | |
| libertine.at |
Don't miss out on an exclusive offering combining great modalities to spice up your life from an amazing instructor!
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
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Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section union square, New York, NY 10003 |
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| eventbrite.com |
A weekly, in-person kink workshop to explore devotion, build skills, and connect with others in a welcoming space.
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
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The Tiny Cupboard 10 Cooper Street, Brooklyn, NY 11207 |
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| eventbrite.com |
Come hang out and practice your rope skills at Shibari Perth's Mid Week Rope Jams
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
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unit 6/66 Kent St 66 Kent Street #unit 6, Cannington, WA 6107 |
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| eventbrite.com.au |
Foundations of the art of Japanese rope bondage
| Nov 17, 2026 | |
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Soul Rope Studio Private address (sent in separate email after ticket purchase), Coburg, VIC 3058 |
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| eventbrite.com.au |
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