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dominatio(dom male)
“Seeking connection, emotionally and intellectually, with someone that wants to feel ravished, safe, cared and what owned truly means.”
SissyEmmaNI(sub femme)
“Trapped closet sissy desperate to be a slut for dominant man or woman”
Subutzedel(masochist male)
“Nach dominanten Personen die mir sagen wo es lang geht ich werde so richtig geil wenn mir Leute sagen und zeigen wie es weiter geht”
Maria May(sub femme){Submissive}
“Seeking a dominant femdom Mistress for long term relationship and ownership.”
Knaui(sub female){No}
Cinnamonrollporker(masochist male)
“Looking for a full time master, big pig bitch , looking to be lifetime property. Very small penis. Looking for a master slave relationship like the ones in the 1700s. I am into bdsm, humiliation, submission. I'm 100% Mexican
5'7 , Good teeth, no stds, 240 pounds”
RenoDom(dom male)
“Submissive women for exploration and experimentation”
Sassynthicc(sub female)
KimStars(sub female)
“Looking for a dominant male to teach me more about humiliation and degredation”
Lakelifemike(dom male)
“Seeking sub females”
Gagboy(sub male)
“Looking to expand my submissive side. Open to most things. Very oral, have a foot fetish. Love toys”
SubbyGirl Alyssa(sub female)
“a relationship, possibly 24/7 dynamic. Seeking a Dom/Master that is ok with a sub, brat and pet.”
Madam Desire(dom female)
“I’ve been searching for quite some time for a genuine submissive—someone who is truly passionate, devoted, skilled, and values obedience and communication. I’m looking for a single person (not married or in a relationship) who enjoys exploring different kinks”
Jeffica(sub femme)
“I'm seeking a woman that would enjoy turning me into a bottom with a man, the humiliation turns me on, I thought of a female making a cuckold out of me serving her and a man would be awesome.”
Nick n(dom male)
“Kinky sex”
Imknewtothis(sub female)
“Looking to chat with like minded individuals!”
LewdHotdog(sub male)
“A harsh, sadistic, cruel daddy/dom/master <3”
Chill Guy(dom male)
“I just want to chat about kinks, desires, fantasies. Looking for some fun.”
Babysubprincesss(sub female)
AlexaJ(sub female)
“Looking for someone to help me explore my kinky and submissive side”
huntedbyyou(sub male)
“Dominant”
Akizari(switch gender queer)
“Currently looking for open-minded female switches/ dommes”
Shyboy Zeke(sub male)
“People who are comfortable with littles who just want to be little and have a kink side too. Mostly looking for Bigs and Middles to be around or to talk with.”
Celestia Calaway(dom female)
“Seeking articulate, obedient submissives for psychological power exchange, verbal degradation, tease & denial, and emotional control. Let’s talk limits and see if you can handle my cruelty.”
DaddydomIlyrian(dom male)
“I am here to meet like minded individuals. I have been looking for sites like these because I hate social media telling me I what I can and can't post. that I no longer have to feel ashamed for my kinks and fetishes. I look forward to meeting you all. have a blessed day”
gaiafylgja(masochist female)
“READ PLS: I HAVE A MASTER ALREADY. I"M JUST SEEKING KINKY FRIENDS! :D I really enjoy community building and wanted to try this out, read some articles, and be an encouragement to young people getting on the scene to keep going!”
Puffedstuffkh(sub male)
“I am new to this so I'm seeking a gentle guiding hand to show me the joy and pleasures of a FLR”
arlene
little echo(sub female)
“Looking to make friends in the BDSM community. Mentors of sorts are welcomed as well. I have a lot of learning and growth to do. All contact will be completely online (through thecage.co). Details of Dynamic can be discussed.”
Diluvian(dom male)
“Hi, I'm seeking a submissive who is interested in exploring all that life has to offer. I am a very supportive dom with a focus on learning and enjoying life. The most important thing to me is communication. I want to make fantasies and dreams real, but to do so we need to be open and honest at all”
Walkingin(switch male)
“a beautiful dominant, or submissive or a switch in may neck of the woods...”
MasterAtticus(dom male)
“Obedient, submissive female”
flammaAeterna
“Learned my yearly lesson, early.”
Cbtmaster(dom male)
“21 Dom seeking online cbt Slave, i want someone with clothespins, paddles, and any other balls punishing tools.”
Oakway
“I'm an experienced Dominant seeking a submissive woman for an online-only D/s dynamic. To be transparent upfront, I'm married and require complete discretion - I understand this arrangement won't be suitable for everyone, and I respect that completely.
About me: I'm older with experience in both onl”
Diaperbabyboy(kinky male)
“I'm looking for a Mommy or Daddy or both, Daddy must be Androgynous, I'm also Switch i can also be a caretaker but wearing Diapers 24/7”
SilverShackle(sub trans man)
“Friends to connect to, Doms to potentially engage with, boyfriends to date, Mentors to learn from.. Honestly anything to engage in the community and broaden my understanding! I wanna play, please!”
JacksonSpades(dom male)
“Seeking a devoted submissive.”
PhoenixS(sub male)
“I am looking for experienced people to help teach me about submission and what it truly means. I am looking for women to teach me what I can do to be better for a potential Dom one day. I am looking for friends to talk and understand more about the community.”
MgmLneWolf(sadist male)
“Seeking live in slave boy”
devoted straw{not search}
“I'm currently on the path to spiritual healing. The closest person to me, after my parents, caused me very deep emotional trauma. If you find me interesting, just be patient. Right now, I'm not looking for anyone except an audience. This also doesn't mean I want personal communication; that's diffic”
courtneyjames(sub trans woman)
“I hope to find a phone dom daddy or dom mommy to use me, control and feminize me and teach me to be an obedient sissy. I also hope to find other trans-women and couples for phone fun. I am NOT looking to meet anyone in person or through apps of any kind.”
Lovely Lena(sub female)
“I am a sub seeking a relationship with a dom in real life. I am not too experienced with BDSM, so I need someone who can handle being with someone newer.”
Budslave(sub male)
“I am a sub seeking a mistress. I am into many things. I want to be a slave to someone I want to be tied up and tormented. I want to be used. If you are interested this message me please.”
theironman(dom male)
“Seeking a classy educated alpha submissive that wants a protector and leader”
DominusMentis(dom male)
“Seeking meaningful connections and conversation.”
OutofNothing(sub female)
“I am looking for a local-ish Dom that is willing to work with someone who has trauma around their past BDSM experiences. I will always take friends and people who just want to chat.”
chastitypantyboy(sub male)
“Dom/Master to guide me as I explore my sexuality and submissiveness as a bi-curious virgin Sub”
Pussicat(sub femme)
“I have been looking for a dominant man to help me understand my feminine desires. I think I may be transexual. I love wearing pretty lingerie and heels.”
material(sub male)
“im looking for an older master who wants to live his fantasies. Sadists preferred. You know who you are and in retirement you want to live all those dark fantasies you never got to try.”
Kittylynn(sub female)
SecretNooks(kinky agender)
“Seeking friendship, guidance, connections. Brand new to the scene. All genders are beautiful and welcome to message.”
Ivorie(sub female)
“Patient and kind yet strict Daddy”
sweetlydrowned(sub female)
“I hope to find a long term partner. I gravitate toward Daddy Doms, Soft Doms, Pleasure Doms, and Primal Doms the most, usually some combination of those four. I enjoy DDlg, though I do not age regress. Ideally I am looking for a 24/7 TPE dynamic. I am VERY romance first, sex second.”
Babyga(sub female)
“I’m currently in my last year of college and I’ve been a sub for a few years! I also age regress and I do enjoy the 24/7 dynamic, I’d like to send a picture of myself instead of post it. I love to read and crochet! I’m lookingfor a cg/dom whos strict but will play games with me and watch movies :)”
Justin Seven(kinky male)
FLRman(sub male)
xxlittlekittenxx(masochist female)
“Sadist male”
Aravken(dom male)
“I am looking for a couple/girl who are willing to fully embrace the role as my slaves. This is not just about sex; it's about a lifestyle where you both willingly surrender your autonomy to me. I expect obedience, loyalty, and a willingness to learn and grow under my guidance.”
singularity gap(dom male)
“I enjoy controlling others and imposing my will on them. Always have. I'm looking for submissive individuals for an online / phone dynamic that could turn into a real life thing. Anyone with first hand experience as a hypnosis subject is very interesting to me...”
atc(kinky female)
EddieVel
Bigboyyy(dom male)
“A sub especially one who lives anal but open to anything”
Josie Josie(sub female){Under Cons}
“I am looking for a dom that is possessive jealous and obsessive. Someone dark minded like me.”
MasterLeon(dom male)
“I want to make a connection with a submissive girl”
deepruncage(masochist male)
“Dom male (may be undetectable) within 40 mIles of North Charleston SC who needs to breed a hiv neg subservient during the weekday daytime as his place as his slave.”
Dominantlooking(sadist male)
“A masochistic female to train and eventually collar and Mark as my permanent submissive in real life. I am only looking for females any male need not to apply.”
Lonewolfrose(sub female)
“I am looking to find new friends who are like minded and want to meet up and chat about their interests and experiences in the BDSM community.”
EssexPleaser(sub male)
“Looking to connect with a Mistress / Domme.. No findoms.. only real dominant women who want a submissive man to use for their desires and pleasure, only women who want to be served and worshipped. In person only.. no virtual and I repeat no findom.”
PainandLove(sub female)
“Soft loving sweet submissive in the right hands, but I'm not one to submit easily. Alpha female in my daily life, looking for someone to be able to soften into.”
Cleo Owen Sound(sub male)
“I am seeking a gay master to train me to be an acceptable total sub bottom slave.”
Allexclusives(sub female)
bedharak(dom male)
“As Salaamu Alaykum. I’m looking for a gentle Sunni Daddy Dom who loves breast milk. I am studious, searching for a study buddy, prayer partner, mind blowing sex as often as we make nawaafil salawaat. I want the best of both worlds I guess.. sigh. A balance between the Sunnah and kink.”
lilfarmboy(sub trans man)
“I'm newer to the BDSM scene so I'd love to meet someone who's comfortable with that. As a result of my inexperience, my intentions are to keep my BDSM connections purely online until I can get to know more about the scene and become more comfortable with kink. I'd love a male or female dom ;).”
Big Tony(sub male)
“Honestly, this is brand new territory to me. I know I want a woman or women to take charge of me. I want to explore new horizons of myself. I at one time wanted to a male stripper, not sure if I could.
But...I think I'd like to try for the right woman or women. Just want to know...can I?”
Big Daddy Kane(dom male)
“You can find me in the chat room!”
I'm yours goddess(sub male)
“Dom female near Bloomington Indiana”
Chastity Slave Boi(sub male)
“A master with a monster cock to lock me in chastity long term and brainwash me with his cock, ideally a twink hehe”
SteelEmbrace(dom male)
“Slave submissive looking for new online connections, possibly moving to in person”
NewInexperiencedSUB(sub male)
“I'm an inexperienced sub that wants a dom to bring out my submissive side.Looking for a Dom that wants to put me in bondage, make me plug myself more and introduce to new kinks.”
Discipline69(dom male)
“I’m looking for a mature lady or a younger woman , married or not, who wants to explore her secret fantasy or/ and her darkest nature ….A newbie is welcome.”
gaghertight(dom male)
“Play partners, people to discuss our kinks, friends”
MelloGuy(sub male)
“I am seeking a dominant and dynamic that brings structure, clarity, and the opportunity to grow along side one another”
Foxys(sub female)
“A Dom to teach me and be willing to push me but also understand my limits as we go along”
Scottieb(sub male)
“I seek Dominant Woman who enjoy submissive men. I enjoy many BDSM activities especially Bondage”
SFred(masochist male)
“I'm seeking for an cruel sadist..someone who bring physical pain and puts me into subspace. Curious to my tolerances? Dm me!”
MasterEd121(dom male)
“I'm looking for a serious relationship completely immersed in the lifestyle.”
Zooey(sub female)
“Hi everyone! I'm a lesbian, new to the scene but kinky at heart. If you're a girl/NB and feel like chatting, feel free to send me a message! Especially if you're a domme ;) 🏳️⚧️”
HiThereCatsuit(sub gender fluid)
“I identify as a damsel and prefer Femdom presenting people. I work in the kink and fetish industry as a podcaster and content creator. I welcome conversation from respectful and kind people and I will return with the same to you.”
Trembling(sub male)
“Man seeking woman. England based submissive who enjoys masochist, prey and slave roles.
I crave absolute vulnerability; my obsession though is less on my submission, but your ascension. Submission is merely a byproduct.”
MistressRG(dom female)
“I am a dominant woman seeking a long-term D/s relationship focused on complete submission. My ideal submissive is respectful, devoted, and prioritizes my pleasure above their own desires.”
HankSpank(sub male)
“I tried the whole "self discipline" thing, but i discovered that it was almost impossible to bend myself over my own knee...lol
I am now seeking an online dom to help me correct my behavior through assigned punishments, including self-spanking, line writing, corner time, etc....”
Jamia(sub male)
“I am a Sub! Seeking either a female or trans woman. Mistress Goddess Domme.
Wanting forced slavery and feminization, sissy. Whatever you want, please have me sign contracts or whatever willing and truly wanting ownership make me what you want please. Long-term please. Also more than sexual everythi”
Egremontguy(switch male)
“Looking for people to chat to and connect with hopefully somewhat close to the very north of England”
Finnmaster(dom male)
“I am seeking submissive female in an online relationship. I hope we can explore fethises together and build connection. Please contact only if you are willing to commit.”
Mangulo(dom male)
“Ongoing obedient online dynamic (with potential of meets, although they would be infrequent at best).”
oralpissboyslave(sub male)
“I want to be tortured, humiliated broken and emasculated.
I want to make amateur videos with somebody as a sub /toilet slave, facesitting, piss drinking, degrading scat, etc . I will film anytime, with no mask if desired. I could even do a series with a storyline of my training”
SubInPetticoats
a kinky sub(sub male)
Enzoxsub(sub male)
“I'm a beginner sub, 26 years old, looking for a mistress for remote sessions, or relationship if good feeling. I have a few toys that my mistress can use to play with me”
Frxncenn(dom femme)
“Seeking a sub female who loves bdsm and Dom fems”
frslave(masochist male)
“French Slave into TPE looking for a Master to serve him in a long term relationship.
I would love to have every part of my life under your control : Private life, relationship, food, clothes, comfort etc..”
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