Seeking Members

Use the Find Friends search to browse seekers by location, age, orientation, and more. You can mark yourself as "Seeking" on your profile to share your relationship goals, whether it’s a partner, mentor, submissive, or dominant.

Newest Members Seeking

Talu(masochist female)

“Not Play. Not Kink. Devotion.”

BB dom(dom male)

“Just fun online possible meet up play and connection as some scope or level .”

Pedro Bardín(switch male)

“Discipline as part of accountability coaching partnership”

Ladylou012(sub female)

Evvaa(sub female)

“I am seeking either a femme fatale type, a woman who looks like she runs the boardroom business feminine or a muscle mommy, butch, strong, powerful and dominant. Looks like they could rip you apart with their bare hands.”

Shaymutt(sub male)

“Submissive looking for a job/to work for you. Trained in massage therapy and personal training, also mow lawns, wash cars, clean, or submit”

PogA(switch female)

“I'm looking for an experienced, confident woman to help me create an intimate and unforgettable BDSM session for my husband. You know how to take the lead, bring your own ideas, and enjoy the dynamic fully. This is about chemistry, consent, and creative play. If you're intrigued .....”

OGHeadMaster(sadist male)

“I'm seeking a naturally submissive female submissive. While I am open to, and have trained both submissive and dominants, I would ideally like to find someone who is experienced and knows what they like and don't like. I'm seeking someone with a nice smile, a good attitude.”

PrincessTease(dom female)

“I’m here for genuine, exciting connections that spark chemistry—whether it’s a playful power dynamic, a mental exchange, or someone who knows how to appreciate and spoil what they admire. I enjoy being pursued by those who actually show effort, not just talk.”

BigG(dom male)

“A Woman I can have a great time with”

Alexspldn(sub male)

“Sub slutty bottom in London looking to be owned”

jjayson(sub trans man)

“searching for a male or female dom who can put up with a bit of brattiness ;)”

CookingSubmissive(sub female)

“Not looking for an online connection. If you're looking for something physical let's see if we can work something out. -Bratty Sub”

Masoncc(sub gender fluid)

The last true dom(dom male){Will give}

HaleyBabey(sub female)

plasticPrison(switch male)

“I am looking for a woman to play with and explore plastic wrap mummification and latex and tight bondage with.”

Cato(dom male)

“Looking for a casual friend to talk candidly about NSFW topics with - not necessarily a partner or FWB. Let's be the kinds of friends who link each other when they find good porn, but also vibe in SFW conversations!”

SkullsnMel(switch female)

unholygoddess(sub female){Yes}

“A bisexual/curious woman who would be open to joining my current dynamic”

Skulls Mel(switch male)

Queendee(dom female)

GoodGirlMandy(sub female)

“I'm seeking a mistress (cis or trans) to play with me irl”

adomsoul(dom male)

“Fun and exploration”

MNInkedGirl(sub female)

“I’m seeking the one! Not a couple, Not someone who is married looking for discrete anything. Not looking to connect with anyone outside the US, as it is not realistic. I’m looking for a like minded Dominant man who is looking to connect online/chat/call/text and see where it goes.”

YOUR EMPRESS(dom female)

“Looking for smart and successful slaves. Do you want to serve your Empress? I'm beautiful, classy, and very strict!!”

Sissy Slut Scarlett(femme){Own Me}

“Seeking a Femdom Mistress Goddess to own and control me”

MasterDomDok(sadist male){you?}

“I swing a mean cane, tie knots no one has escaped from lately, study Shibari with a steady strongpoint. I have been hunting for that one cross-wired masochist who loves being tied up, suspended, bruised, and begs for its cravings. The reaction to pain is orgasm so it begs for more.”

subcarson(sub male)

“Seeking dom male master preferably in or close to state”

Shanlc(sub male)

“I am a male. Sub, I like to stay naked and meet strong dominant people.”

Nataliasubmission(sub female){Yes}

“Discrete female for new adventures with my Dom and I.”

slaveineedtoserve(sub male)

“I seek my forever master”

Mork(sub femme)

Nyxaery(sub female)

“A soft dom. Relationship. Connection over sex. Preferably irl. No large age gaps (over 15 years).”

BMiGoodGirl(dom male)

BowToBeau(dom female)

“29 year old dominant goddess tired of years under the thumb and ready to explore my natural calling to lead, control and reward as I see fit.”

jeremy z(sub male)

“Just created an account and wanted to have a look around, I'll be adding more- so for the moment I apologize if my profile is lacking. Not just here for kink but a D/s relationship, FLR or some combination- with all the wonderful aspects of a vanilla situation too- love, affection, emotional intimac”

AngryGiner(dom male)

“Compatible subs. Still new to the site and figuring it out currently though 😂”

Mrmory(sub male)

“I need a dominant who can train me to be her slave and be caring also i havn't tried this before you can text me so iam still fresh”

VoidMouth(switch agender)

“Extremely new to this, right now looking for a mostly mental dynamic, non-sexual contact etc.”

babygirl babygirl(switch female)

“Im looking for age player in Omaha but all kinks are welcome”

Batmann(male)

“I’m new to all this and I am seeking my first sub”

Erotas(switch male)

“Hey, so I'm incredibly new to BDSM, don't know much but willing to explore, learn and discover”

ProOperator(sub male)

“I’m looking for a domme and friends.”

StonelyLoner(switch female)

“I am quickly learning that the only thing that is real in this world is energy. It can be manipulated, but trusting self will never lead you to destruction. Imagine leaving your entire experience up to the energy manipulation of an ill-intended human being. LOL too much? *shrug* Das Me...”

StarrLone(switch female)

“I am into females but I don’t mind exploring with males if it’s the right fit. But that’s a long shot , if it’s just play sessions to learn then I’m all for that with anyone.”

Neverland Lost girl(masochist female)

“Right now I feel like a Sado dom with a little sprinkle of daddy is what I’m looking for. However, I know I want to explore more, I want to immerse my self in all things kink and really figure out me”

AbsDom(male)

“looking for obedient sub for online relations, preferably LTR. i have my vanilla life so the availability is accordingly - but quiet a lot.”

TheWhorelock(dom male)

“Demisexual af. I hate approaching strangers, so if you want a connection just reach out and be human. I'd love to meet a woman who longs for a God to worship.”

Lady Lotus(sub female)

“A Dom that will be IRL. Not interested in anything virtual.”

krs(sub female)

AnnaBob(other female)

“A couple like many, but fun and friendly. We are looking for similar people to spend time together in an erotic mood and not only. We like sex, nudity, erotic climate, as well as sightseeing, walking, spending active time. We are educated, cheerful and sociable. We are looking for couples and guys.”

SubBiCurious(sub trans man)

“Open to meeting other submissives or local doms!”

subbbn(sub male)

“male slave with few limits available for online and in person domination.”

TheArchitectOfPain(sadist male)

“Complete Submission. No Brats. No CNC.”

AsianMalesPlayThing(sub male)

“I know and understand my only purpose is to serve and please Asian men. I am kink curious but willing to learn. I am obedient and submissive and a good puppy/boy. Older hairy Bear white Dad looking for Sir.”

Ladymislov(female)

“Somone too talk too, a dom. New people to talk too”

Bigmancoc(dom male)

“Anything I have fiancée sweet pussy big boobs”

your welcome(dom male)

“I deserve the best and will not settle for anything less. Are you up for the challenge?”

Bottom steve(sub male)

“I am seeking to be owned by an Dom Male (sadist) or other and used and to serve ! I’m into being . Caged. Tortured , into whatever the master likes TPE 24/7 slave”

ComplianceIsFutile(switch male){Not collar}

“Open to deliberate, aesthetically aware, and structurally sound connections. If you value logic, risk transparency, and emotional architecture — we’ll probably align. No hidden clauses. Some poetry preferred.”

Moanologue(female)

“It depends on who’s asking and how they ask. I’m drawn to minds that provoke, words that linger, and energies that don’t need to scream to be felt. This space is for exploration, not obligation. I don’t respond well to assumptions, but I do respond very well to curiosity, intelligence, and audacity.”

lookingforherdaddy(sub female)

“Looking for a Daddy. I find Im a better version of myself when I have one. Somewhat little but I dont regress or need a nappie. Im very much an adult woman all the time: If this is ONLY about sex for you I am not the girl for you. Have kids so not looking to relocate or livein.”

tpeloveloyalty(male)

“Love, Trust. Someone I can trust fully and whom I can be there for. Someone to have fun with, to explore with sexually or not, either together or if that doesn't work for you together with others. The key point being someone I know I can depend on and whom can depend on me in return.”

Maeday gmc(sub female)

“Also people who only wanna talk about sexual stuff within the first few few minutes of meeting are going to be blocked. I want something more thI’m looking for friends and a long-term relationship. I am completely monogamous and that is a must. Please no one over the age of 30. That’s also a must.”

BOKKIE(switch female)

Rennn(dom male)

“I am seeking an ongoing text based dynamic with a submissive girl. I want to claim and mold you myself. Own you and make you earn your praise by following my orders. I'll come up with a unique set of rules for you to live by and creative tasks for you to complete. Let's begin...”

PeachPlower(other male)

“I’m 32 year old man, fit, attractive and sexually adventurous. I love women and doing whatever they desire because their arousal is what arouses me. Everything goes, even pegging. I’m also curious about interactions with t girls. I’ve never experienced it before but something I’m interested in.”

ltr life slave(sub male)

“I am seeking real slave service tpe real in person full slavery to a high level”

Kinkdreamer(other male)

“Not looking for love — just craving control, chemistry, and the kind of fun that leaves me marked, messy, and aching for more. I’m a good little plaything who gets weak at firm hands, dirty words, and being told exactly how to behave. I don’t just follow orders — I melt for them.”

Lance1969(dom male){Master}

“If I may be so bold to ask of a lady to help me with a few things and be my assistant as I am looking for a new career and need you to help me! We may work together to a common goal, as I am an open heart. Just me, Jason”

Crvlee(switch male)

“Seeking new awesome adventures with new friends.”

GagFan(sub male)

“Long term relationship, Dominant/submissive, play partner.”

Finlanddom(dom male)

“I want a sub to train and explore the lifestyle with.”

MistressMeg(dom female)

“Seeking submissive to dominate looking for someone who repects their mistress and yearns to please punishment for disobeying is mandatory I will own you and enjoy humiliating you I am absolutely not into age play animals scat or mutilation do I make myself clear? now be a good boy and serve me”

HopesWings(sub female)

SleepyPuppy(masochist male)

“Male, 49, just exploring this side of me.”

flitter'fly(sub female)

“Guidance, discipline, structure, correction, connection, attention, honesty, truth, trust, actions, not just words. A Life Partner. i want real, raw. To get obedience, submission, or to turn a sub into Your perfect lady, only takes the will to step up and guide her. Will You Be Him ?”

lesbian sub(masochist femme)

“Seeking a female sadistic domme who will humiliate me and make me suffer I'm here to be degraded like a fucking whore”

Shoott(dom male)

“Looking to have some fun and try new things. I shoot massive loads Sc: shoott34”

Farmer(switch male)

“Somoene in san diego to visit my ranch or serve wome. At their location”

Sub Vic(sub male)

“Not currently looking to be owned, but would like to chat and possibly serve short term to amuse you”

Swano(sub male)

“Sub! Hurt me. Command me. Make me a pile of mental mush!”

SklaveNils(sub male)

“Devoter Mann (26) sucht ein dominantes Paar, das Führung lebt und sich einen loyalen, lernbereiten Sub wünscht. Ich bin offen für Rituale, klare Regeln und eine ehrliche, ernsthafte D/s-Dynamik. Kein Spiel – echte Hingabe.”

littlestd(sub male)

“I'm a young submissive bitch boi who craves to be dominated and humiliatied”

Lonig(sub femme)

“I seek a dominant female to serve and feminize me to her fullest amusement and pleasure!”

SmexyRay(sub male)

“Looking for that dominant male partner. 20 to 40 years old. I prefer white or Latino. Must have control of our relationship. Must have control during sexual rolls.”

Master JimT(dom male)

Jmdotts(dom male)

“Looking to get to know some new subs and will respect reasonable limits and boundaries. I'm currently Looking for someone to give a schedule , routine , tasks and any other commands I might desire. I'm willing to start out slow and train you until you're comfortable as long as you're committed to it”

Taktgeber(dom male)

Byours(switch male)

“A cool chill girl open to exploring and having fun.That will be my first real mistress, goddess, friend,lover, dominatrix, anything, and everything! Monogamous/Polyamorous whatever you want.”

LawrenceEl(dom male)

“Centrally Isolated so yes, seeking new connections.”

ChubSlaveMia(sub male)

“Would love to become someone’s slave. Seeking to please and be used.”

Master of Silence(dom male)

“I don’t want your body. I want your obedience — pure, total, and voluntary. I’m an emotional and intellectual sadist. I don’t yell. I watch you unravel. I build control slowly — through rules, rituals, and unmet expectations. I won’t break you. I’ll make you kneel willingly — and beg to stay there.”

Johnginkc(dom male)

“Looking for the right good girl for an ltr.”

BlackMasterD(dom male)

“I’m a Real Life Sir. Who enjoys training and service.! I’ve been in the Life for Decades. I’m also a Fetish Photographer and Content Creator”

SexyStevieSteph(switch male)

“Trans Women who are dominant top or verse to reciprocate a little i love being a submissive little slut and role play and when fully aroused sometimes caressing to ecstasy and get wet”

Dominum(dom male)

“I am looking for a needy sub who wants a long term relationship that involves her whole brain”

MrVick(sadist male)

“Daddy, dom, Master and a sadist all combined into 1. I know kink protocols and inam damn good at what I do.”

Lord Destu(dom male)

“Im looking for my sub. USA east coast but if you don't mind relocating we can work something out. Looking for 24/7 situation.”

TllObedience(sub male)

“Im new to this but im wanting to explore my submissive side. Ive realized recently that i like to be told what to do and am easy and obedient(as the name says ;) ) Not looking for anything too crazy tho, again im new to this so easy does it lol. Im also pretty shy and socially awkward. STRAIGHT”

CockSlaveForGangBang(male)

“Just joined. Im into a lot/ most interests and kinks, and willing to try almost all/any others. I'm not really good with making decisions or taking action so I really enjoy being grabbed, told what to do/pushed around, and controlled.”

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