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Mistress Regalia(dom female)
“am seeking a self aware, disciplined submissive who understands that power exchange is earned, not rushed. I am not interested in fantasy only interactions, entitlement, or impulsive messages. Approach thoughtfully, communicate clearly, and show restraint and you may be noticed.”
CanBiWifeTwo(dom female)
“Hello ... This is my new account ... can't get into my previous account (CanBiWife). Sorry. Please message me if we have previously been in contact. Glad to be back ! I am looking forward to chatting with Submissive Bi Women and Men. Don't be shy ... hit me up 🥰
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BadIntentions(dom male)
“I am ultimately looking for a proprietary relationship with the proper submissive woman. Proper meaning she doesn’t want BDSM as foreplay or a scene. She needs it deep inside otherwise she is not complete. And she knows it. And making some other perverts like me.”
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dizzydezzysomething(kinky female)
“Beach Booze Sex Combine all three and you have a great day!”
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Sirmasterdom(dom male)
“Who knows what can happen. Friendship, just a chat or something more. Say “Hi” if you like. We can go from there. Please just be your true authentic self from the get go.”
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VanityVixen(switch female)
“Authentic & mature connections”
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Babygirlade(sub female)
“Submissive little seeking her daddy Dom. 35-45 age range please.”
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Artemis moon(sub female)
“Looking for platonic friends”
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Ziggylee(sub female)
“I'm looking for a sadistic daddy dom”
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restraint406(sub male)
“Dominant, Aloha Males to serve and service. Older bearish guy here, few limits. TPE motivated. Love sucking dick for long sessions. ♠️ BNWO curious”
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Joniii(dom male)
“hello looking for fun”
Alpha Dom
“Experienced Dom seeking a submissive to build long term relation and be part of family”
AuroraInBed(sub female)
“An emotionally and intellectually intelligent Dominant man, who can be equally cruel and sadistic as he can be a good caring person. Mostly looking for online since I am married.”
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SeaWatcher(dom male)
“Submissive for a long term, real world dynamic”
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daveslavepgh(sub male)
“Dominant Female, any age, in W Penna region”
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sirbrianofWA(dom male)
“Submissive female for real long term relationship”
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Imknewtothis(sub female)
“Seeking an online dynamic to start.”
grampas lusts(dom male)
“I need a submisive that adores older men . i miss playing daddy would you like a sweet daddy”
Chevetro(dom male)
“Currently coming out of a 10 year relationship or separation. Currently just looking for some fun to enjoy with a mature individual that enjoys being little lewd and adventurous. PM me see if we vibe chat Dominant male when participating in roleplaying.”
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EuphoricDreams(dom male)
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Pabsman(sub male)
“Seeking a mistress that doesn't seek financial control and that would seek a vanilla type of relationship.”
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AcquiredTaste
“Seeking a beautiful, deserving princess for a long-term monogamous FLR. Ideally we'd do plenty of ordinary things together (cooking, hiking, traveling, board games nights, running) and I'd appear to be your normal/whipped boyfriend in public, but be completely controlled by you behind closed doors”
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NJ COCKSERVANT(sub male)
“I’m seeking a straight guy…just one…that’s all I need…to be his dedicated cocksucker…someone who needs his balls drained down to root…I like guys who are very verbal…one who will tell me what a faggot I am…act like he’s doing me a huge favor by letting me suck his dick which he is.”
Thepaidsexslave(sub male)
“I am looking for my first time sub venture, I am young, energetic and fresh meat for either an experienced male or female I have many fantasies of being controlled. Get in touch if you like the look of me”
Old Henryxx(switch male){Love it...}
“Even at my age, there is something so exciting, sensual, erotic and plain sexy to be told to strip to full nudity, then get on my knees and obey the commands... Love to keep my shelf fully shaved and expect the same from others...”
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Evenangelscry(dom male)
“New to BDSM world. Looking for a female submissive to get experience as a male dom. Glad to make new connections”
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Adela Single Mom(switch female)
“I'm hoping to find one meaningful, long-term connection with someone special online. I'm a pretty straightforward person who believes the best things start with a solid foundation of trust and real chemistry. I'm all in on exploring every layer of who we are. PS:im Bisexual, love dom girls, or trans”
SluttyVirginPup(sub female)
“Possible mentors or friends within the lifestyle”
loneliestgirl(masochist female)
“an interesting young gentleman for an online connection - xoxo”
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mmarie(sub female)
hsnwt(sub male)
“Looking for key holder 🤭
JaneDow(switch male)
“Looking for someone who I can care about.”
gimpbimbo(sub femme)
“Looking for my Owner :)”
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alexsf(dom male)
“Seeking an intelligent sub who craves total surrender to a firm, caring leader.”
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Master Angel(dom male)
“Looking for Sub Males to Facetime/Call/Text to control: Just a Gay Soft Domme looking for a puppy that wants love, torture, and attention.”
Urfavsubbymarina(sub female)
“Just looking for like minded people”
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IBreedBagels(dom male)
“Hoping to meet someone that's actually interested in the life, or at the very least is a real person, doesn't seem to be a lot of that these days. I know its a bit of a long shot lol but never hurts to try!”
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BoneJay(sub male){ None }
“Seeking FLR I have been a SIMP since age eleven Play partner SEE Loyal1forher former profile for additional details”
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BeanSproutSoup(sub male)
“Casual online fwb femdom. Kink and friendship”
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JazzyDee(kinky female)
“Not sure yet.. just looking around”
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WulfLarsin(dom male)
“Not really sure what im lookong for anymore, but ill know it when i find it.”
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Dalmassor(switch agender)
“Primarily a brat (also a sadomasochist switch who's bottom leaning, pet player, Little/middle), looking for a top leaning switch and/or dominant I'm whatever capacity that looks like.”
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JustLikeHeaven(dom male)
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MasterJ{none}
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AnotherMaleToy(sub male)
“Looking for a mommy domme to talk with online who is caring but dominant.”
NOLABiBttm(sub male)
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Crazy822(sub female){Owned}
“We are seeking other submissive females and passable Trans mtf”
Timswitch(switch male)
“Looking for submissives or Dommes (still exploring my submissive side). I've been a sexual Dom for over 15 years and would love to help introduce new subs to the dynamic since it would likely be online. Please no aggressive Dommes....”
Jennicat(sub female)
“Seeking Lifestyle Dominance I'm an independent, capable woman seeking a dominant presence interested in structure, discipline, and refinement in daily life. If you value restraint, presence, and purposeful dominance, this may be worth exploring.”
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UmbraDominus(dom male)
“Sapiophile seeks friends and fun chats.”
HisLilKitten
“Looking for friends”
puppy boi(sub trans man)
“Someone I can explore little space, pup play, or impact play with.”
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parebo(dom male)
“I'm looking to meet a polyamorous (or accepting of my poly situation), emotionally intelligent submissive, with a view to forming an ongoing D/s power exchange dynamic. I'm a believer in moving gradually, no jumping in with orders and honorifics.”
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LupoDominante(dom male)
“Cerco una nuova slave anche con zero esperienza, mi piace molto guidare educare alla sottomissione. Cerco un rapporto vero profondo intenso, un'intesa con una donna intelligente, un rapporto prima mentale e poi fisico da costruire assieme passo passo”
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phtheman(dom male){Dom}
“Seeking connections and discussions involving BDSM. May be willing to aid someone in learning more about themselves and figuring out what they are looking for. Most times we don’t know what we need until we are shown. Discovery is the best part.”
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Princess Penguin(sub female)
“I am looking for (Age 30+) doms to speak to and see where it goes. Not sure what I am wanting currently but willing to be an open book. (Online only)”
switch joey(switch male)
“Looking to exploring the sub side of me”
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BAD2000(sub male)
“seeking a long-term relationship with a dominant or a Mistress”
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LittPP(sub male)
“Hello. I'm a very submissive 56 yr old guy. I'd like for a dominant woman to firmly establish her dominance and take complete control of me. She then could have me do anything that she wants even if I don't like it and even if I don't want to do it. A slave should have no control at all.”
JakeyBoi(sub male)
“seeking a dominant female to put me in my place”
twodogs(switch male)
“A strong, dominant mistress. One who is creative and trusts my willingness to accept her kinks, wishes, and desires. I live in a small town so I will accept an online/texting relationship. I also sometimes want to switch and be in total control.”
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Firmdaddƴ(dom male)
“Here to assit you in your journey of discovery. I can be the caring loving soft Dom right the way up to the harsh sadist. Love been able to indulge in your kinks, fantasys/needs. Happy with online, but would ideally like to meet eventually. Want to chat? Not sure if this is for you? Lets chat”
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kaysiin(sub gender fluid)
“I'm pretty new to the space, but have been wanting to get more involved. I have an idea of what i like but i want to learn for sure what im into and what im not. I'm open to trying a lot of things, but I would say a definite hard no would be things like watersports or anything along those lines.”
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Subsissyjames(masochist trans man)
“Looking ideally for a new long term relationship with a selfish dom master who has the confidence to take what he wants….my duty is just to serve and all that matters is my masters pleasure, not mine.”
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Good girly(sub female)
“I’m seeking a Experienced Dominant Man that I can belong to, new to this so need a good teacher x”
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brian genderfluid(switch gender fluid)
“Dominants fellow masochists and submissives who want to be tortured and controlled”
Lefts(sub male)
“I want to wake up every morning with a huge plug in my bottom a locked cage over my penis and taped into a thick poofy diaper”
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Sweetlittleone(sub female)
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slavetrayner(dom male)
“I am retired and seeking a boy to train as My slaveboy/houseboy. it must be obedient, submissive and willing to be kept naked. It will submit to regular, unannounced physical and visual exaninations and inspections. Unfortunately, if it does not currently reside close by, dont bother!”
True Dom Lynx(dom male)
“Explained in my profile, not into repeating myself.”
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Cutie Pie(sub female)
Pheebes(sub female)
“New to all of this but looking for a dominant willing to teach me some things online”
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Mandi allcoxx(masochist male)
“24/7/365 slavery as a latex sissy maid/ dungeon gimp. Inescapable Permanent chastity with the aid of a 6 gauge Prince Albert piercing and and a custom fitted titanium chastity devices from steelworkks in Canada . Only two key will ever be made . Branded tattooed and collard micro chipped,”
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taboosub(sub male){N/A}
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xSabbyx(sub trans woman)
“I am seeking friends in the community hopefully in my area to learn more and possibly find a deeper connection.”
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Rakine(kinky male)
“I have suppressed my kink side. I have played with bondage as a sub (ropes, hoods, plaster of paris), breath play (solo), mummification, splosh. I have fantasies that I would like to explore such as being buried alive in sand, painted, mud play and other ideas. Want someone to explore with safely.”
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NekoShen(sub male)
“Looking mostly for fun.”
MasterofFantasy
“Masochist female that knows what she wants”
Rob PL(switch male)
“Domme for taking a orders”
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wheels(dom male)
“I'm looking for submissive/Slave that wants to do 24/7. I'm in a wheelchair and have recently developed an interest in pony play.”
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JayJ(switch male)
“I spend much time by myself. I also work part-time with plenty free time in the day. I would love to know more about you. I have stopped paying for Premium access here and thus depend on your gratitude to contact me.”
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gayshen(sub male)
“sub seeking a Dominant Male to have some fun, or for something a little more futuristic. I’m down to do most whatever, with some alone and free time. I know this isn't typical slave behavior but this keeps it new and fresh for someone like me. I have lots of kinks to explore, wish I could do IRL.”
HannahE(sub female)
“Just exploring Nobody too crazy or extreme”
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Submission from Mars(sub male)
“Here to serve mistress, let me know how I can be of best use”
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submissivekytn(sub female)
“Psst! Look over here… hi. Babygirl, plaything, pet.”
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sensual savage(dom male)
“Searching for a worthy Submissive.”
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techsubmissive(sub male)
“Devoted Life Partner Seeks Loving, Strict Owner - FLR > M/s”
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jessia ann(sub trans woman)
“i am looking for a dom daddy or mommy that can train me to be a sub sissy slut”
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PalestGold(switch male){Exploring}
“Hey! I'm a bi male switch looking for friends and connections. I love to meet new people for any reason, so if you want to chat or get to know me please reach out.”
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DanWN(sub male)
“I am looking for a Goddess who: - is into blackmailing me - is into exposing me (and the threat to) - is into breathplay - is into degrading and humiliating me - is into risky stuff”
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VikingDominus(dom male)
“Looking for connections and dynamics in and around Birmingham as I will be working there more frequently in the new year :)”
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honey8293(switch male)
“Switch male seeking a submissive slave for longterm”
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GayFotzeDAGA(sub trans man){DagaFotze }
“Ich liebe groupsex Split pervers piss nicht Spermadrink Bukkake . Ich suche aktiv dominant”
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Logggggy(sub male)
“A dom or a couple that can use me.”
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GlitteryxDoom(sub female)
“Ideally….looking for the Gomez to my Morticia. Mutual obsession. But that’s some day in the future…I would love some friends—please message for friendship. If you really really think we may suit each, My Gomez…message then too….I’m not looking to belong to anyone anytime soon…still healing some bad.”
Bruhhhmoment(dom male)
“I am seeking a submissive within the Midlands for connection and regular play”
Msayumi(sub female)
“FWB, cock worship and gangbangs”
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houseofJ
“Seeking women only, ideally someone open to joining an established, healthy, and emotionally grounded M/s relationship. We value honesty, stability, and intention. If you’re a woman who desires structure, growth, and a space where discipline and affection coexist in balance. I'd like to talk to you”
BlueCat(switch male)
“Trying to learn more from a female dom”
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Nudayvid(switch male)
“I’m hoping to find people who are patient and willing to teach and guide me as I am new. They need to be respectful of boundaries and open to discussion. They need to be gentle yet firm and commanding.”
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DisobedientFawn(sub gender fluid)
“Bratty sub looking for a dom to put me in my place. Not new to the game but still learning. Tie me up, use me, drive me crazy. Very hygienic and picky. Prefer hung or I won’t listen to your orders. Treat me right and I’ll serve you endlessly. ❣️
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wolsub(sub male)

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