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Newest Members Seeking
EmmaMoonsong(sub female)
“I am seeking a male Dominant, monogamous, for a long term or life dynamic and relationship. A Daddy Dom with a Sadist side is ideal, who is willing to grow together through effort, communication, and exploration. Preferably with local or reasonable distance so we can spend time together.”
mikef54
“I’m seeking a Female Led relationship in which I devote myself to my Mistress via servitude, obedience and deep submission. Should my Mistress choose to cuckold me I would accept that requirement and do my utmost to please her including as her servant in the presence of her lovers .”
Bdubc(dom male)
“New to the kink and just looking to explore”
submissivedaniel(sub male)
“Looking for a mistress or master maybe for key holding and or exposure and humiliation 😉”
LoveOfFluff(sub trans woman)
“Pretty much just seeking online rp partners for short term. I'm a submissive sissy who prefers men and enjoys diapers. open to other things, but again, mostly just looking for online rp fun for the short term.”
Emmett Flame(switch male)
“Looking to meet new friends here. I am very new with the whole bdsm world. I would like a guide and friends to talk to and more”
AshtheFreeSub(sub female)
“Friendship from fellow Female subs/brats”
BunBuns(sub female)
lenaszy(kinky female)
“I'm looking for someone to connect through texting and to build a connection with. I would like to develop some kind of d/s-dynamic that both of our lives enriches :)
Important for me: I don't want to receive nor send any pics.”
Sir Jackson(dom male)
jaimiekit(sub female)
“Seeking MFM threesome
Or a dom”
Emmyyyy(sub female)
“Hi!! I’m seeking a dominant master, who can praise but also degrade and control me, and make me their 24/7 Slave.”
fatedcassandra(sub female)
TobeforHim(sub female)
“i feel You giving me a tug on my leash, reminding me You are always with me, and the time that we do spend together is a bounding that cannot be found in the vanilla world . So, here i sit…wondering about it all, yet knowing that only time will tell.”
Schwarzwaldspitzen(sub male)
“Are there any Doms or Femdoms from Germany around who are interested to take control online only?
Turn on the mental cinema. Lower the barriers: Shedding all inhibitions completely—and not just in the bedroom.
For a long time now, we have secretly and intensely lived the swinger lifestyle as subs.”
Rose Bound(sub female)
“I’m seeking conversations that don’t bore me. Dark minds, patient energy, emotional intelligence, and people who can speak about power without needing to prove they have it. I’m in a relationship, so respect matters, but curiosity still has a pulse.”
meeshymeesh(sub female)
“The combo is rare, but my soulmate is out there somewhere. I am looking for a forever NC partner between ages 29-34:
- anti-MAGA
-A gamer (marvel rivals/fortnite/cod)
- An anime watcher
- Christian/tries to be Christ-like (willing to read Bible together)
-Dominant (can handle a clingy brat)”
Castleoflight(sub trans man)
“Minneapolis, sub for serious intense collar with sadistic intelligent man, many kinks. Good communication and trust needed.”
BigGirlSub(switch female)
Your pleasure
“I am a man who seeks the companionship of a subservient female. Your job will be to please me sexually, emotionally, and spiritually. You will be required to adore me and most of all respect me. Disobedience will not be tolerated.”
Drogo
“I am a dominant that desires to be submissive.My natural state is in control and I’m normally the person that starts the conversation. I find myself being the glue in situations always finding ways to connect. I want to really allow myself to submit without the hang up around masculinity.”
TallDutch(dom male)
“Looking to build a genuine D/s connection — starting online as trust develops, with potential to meet in person over time. Seeking an experienced submissive woman who knows herself, understands her desires, and is serious about the lifestyle.
Communication and authenticity are non-negotiable for me.”
KinkyAppetite(dom male)
“Seeking LTR”
Wannaserve(sub male)
“Seeking a Dominant man to submit and serve to. Looking to learn new and exciting sexual tasks to please Him. Want to worship and appreciate the taste and scent of a man. Sucking His cock, licking His balls, rimming His ass. Enjoying His feet, nips, pits. His cock in my ass, my mouth.”
darlingsubb(sub female)
“Been here once before but not for long. But it keeps calling me so I’m back to continue exploring what it means for me to be owned and precious. Looking for care not just cock. Do not bother messaging me if you don’t have profile pics or don’t include one in the first message.”
littleboy18(sub male){yes}
“a mommy dom”
The Queen Boss(dom female)
“Online looking for a eager to pleaseSub !!!!”
Templepilot(dom male)
“I am seeking something long term. I am not seeking game players, fakes or wannabes. If you cannot communicate consistently or have a millon excuses then pass me by.”
Averysonfire(sub male)
“I’m submissive and looking for a girl who likes control. I work from home and have a lot of time I can dedicate to somebody. Please message me to get to know me.”
pabeav(dom male)
“Submissive women, The more open minded the better.”
Cravemycum(dom male)
“I’m seeking a submissive woman 18+ for a sub/slave type of dynamic. She would be an on demand cumdump for my pleasure.”
chilly
LangaMS(sub male)
“Looking to Explore and Serve
I'm a naturally giving partner who finds genuine pleasure in a woman's satisfaction. I love the intimacy of oral pleasure - the closeness, the taste, the connection it brings. For me, there's nothing more rewarding than focusing entirely on my partner's pleasure.”
Jinxedjohn(dom male)
“I am now seeing a wonderful woman and for now, I am now just learning and talking to friends.”
ETBass
“Seeking Dom Top who knows how to use a sub cumdump”
CassiethePuppy(sub trans woman)
“mainly looking for a domme or owner, but playmates too!”
NewSubRach(sub female)
“Looking for online play sessions focused on orgasm control/denial, bondage, anal and nipple play. Open to anything else you may enjoy!”
WMBMFMMMWBC
“Sub/slave male seeking a Dom or Domm to serve and please.
Experienced in the kinkier and rougher side of BDSM.
Few limits, other then the normal stuff that goes without saying, but for clarity I will anyway: kids/scat/animals,
Looking for a long term ongoing relationship as a collared slave.”
TeaMenthe(dom female)
“A full service Sub with TPE”
Servant Prince(sub male)
“Open-minded and respectful gentleman seeking connections with single women or couples (FF or FM) who share an interest in cuckolding and open exploration. I’m a switch who enjoys watching, pleasuring, and connecting on multiple levels, whether it’s through touch, intimacy, or shared experiences.”
Cainpoise(dom male)
“Seeking a submissive female for a discreet online connection. Mainly interested in chat, building trust, exchanging photos/videos and exploring dynamics naturally over time. No pressure regarding face reveals — privacy and comfort come first. Respect, honesty and clear boundaries are important.”
theprincessbirdie(sub female)
“Very good girl seeking someone to fulfill my praise fetish and all of my kinks. Coming back after a hiatus and ready to find a Dom I want to keep for a while or at least see where it goes.”
Our secret life(dom male)
“I am seeking someone who wants a safe place to get to know one another and if comparable a safe place to live out those naughty and kinky fantasies”
SubFantastic(sub male){uncollared}
“I'm tall, white, average/slim, sub, intelligent, funny, oral, and very interested in being written into people's dominant sexual fantasies (as a sub). :-)”
Graymane(sub male)
“Part time, hook ups, females that love body worship, friendship, online”
mollylou(sub female){No collar}
“A master or mistress to tame my wild side”
AmeliaQueen
“Really just someone to chat with and if you're local, possible playtime?”
slavepsv(sub male)
“Looking for a dominant female partner (Mistress) to build a D/s relationship. I am interested in genuine commitment, mutual trust, loyalty, and clear rules.”
Lexxiii(sub female)
“New here. Looking for a dom who will use and abuse me. Oh and… Sharing is caring.
5’3. Skinny with a booty. I promise you won’t be disappointed.
Sometimes a brat, so you’ll have to punish me once or twice 😏”
bondageslaveforyou(sub female)
“An owner/master”
Slifer(switch male){One day}
“I am a switch with more sub lean and looking to be a good pup to the right female. Prefer local to AZ”
Dual Hyde(switch male)
“Looking for someone to chat with possibly flirt with . I’m open about anything just ask. I also have pictures upon request.”
Scarlet Red(kinky female){Hunting fo}
“I'm looking for someone or somebody's tha int are ok with me not believing in monogamy or in marriage... I just want to have fun and not have to stress or be caged up! I'm super fun and very chill! Would you be interested in a (date) with me? Well hmu and we can get the details hashed out!!”
Thomas Keen(sadist male)
deadly kittenn
“A long term daddy dom”
SanityAssassin(dom male)
“I love dorky smart women who spend an unnatural amount of time with nature”
DaddyzPrincess
“A bi- sub who want to play with daddy and baby”
Malkavyan(switch male)
“Looking to learn more and explore”
Tinyx(kinky male)
“Looking to explore my secret kinks”
Chance(kinky male)
“Seeking subs friends and switched to bond with poly open pansexual”
jakndbox(sub male)
“I am a submissive man looking for Dominant Male.”
UrUse(sub male){No}
“I am a Mature fit submissive IRL / camslv looking for a naughty Dom to use me with few limits. Open to tasks, too. Not interested in romance, just good fun”
AGM(dom male)
“I value deep conversations and genuine connection first, I enjoy understanding how someone thinks before anything else. I’m especially drawn to intelligent, intellectually curious women with a naturally submissive side.”
unownedslaveboy(sub male)
“Seeking a Domme a Domme who knows what she wants a Domme who wants her slave/sub to serve and worship the ground she walks on to please how ever she desires”
aaveryy(sub female)
“I'm seeking anyone who's fun!”
PugPavel(sub male)
“Is it possible to find a mistress/trans/master here who wouldn’t care about looks and things like that, but would take me on a leash like into some kind of academy and train me, use my mouth, whip me, use all my holes, force me to pee, shit in my mouth and make me swallow.”
slavegurlmarisa(sub female)
“Hello, I am looking for a long term experienced Master/Dom (35-45) in the Dayton area. I have a wide variety of kinks please check them out on my profile. I am open to couple if both parties are dominant types.”
nordinarygirl(sub female)
“Male Dominant
Fairly new, no old habits to break. Willing to explore with open mind.”
dollyxoxoxx(sub female)
“someone who loves roast beef and who’s willing to explore things with me”
ConstructionManager(dom male)
“Long term sub to play online and in person”
GentlemanDomm
“Looking for kinky female playmates while I'm in the US. Dominant but occasionally switch”
suppop(dom male)
“I am not here with a rigid blueprint or a strict checklist of what our connection must look like. I believe the best dynamics grow organically from mutual attraction, shared respect, and a genuine spark. Therefore, I am keeping my mind—and my doors—completely open.”
maggsy(sub female)
“I'm here, for now, for chat and to make friends in the scene. I'm open to finding a dom, but not seeking to rush into anything.”
Borealis
“Looking for a deeply purposeful relationship based on power, the psyche, and intense compatibility. Age gap of 12-15+ years. I need a strong Scorpio placements with a stellium preferred.
Everything is the purification.
Surely there’s submissives in OKC who want to develop something extraordinary.”
kruiza(dom male){None atm}
SalohWill(sub male)
Usefulunused(sub male)
“Im a total sub with very little experience. The thought of being used by a dominant man fills me with desire. Want to find someone who will take my virginity and use me as the will. Im so willing and crave this very much.”
Bella the pup(sub trans woman)
“This slave seeks an Owner, but not in a kink sense. It seeks an Owner who will own it in the truest and oldest sense. Someone who will let it stay in contact with its friends and allow it to keep its hard limits...and doesn't mind it being trans.”
ddezyxx(switch female)
“trans women hmu i actually love dick if it comes with a pretty girl 😋”
Theblackspanker(dom male)
“Submissive woman who is interested in most normal aspects of the lifestyle, like control, spankings, punishments, sex, dates,”
leahsoo(sub female)
Pink Bunny(sub female)
Arabian Dom(sadist male)
“Submissibe/masochist female Someone who can have intelligent and emotional conversations. Open minded. Trusts me to take control. Over everything. In the bedroom she yields complete authority to me, trusts me completely to pleasure her thru pain. A brat needing punishment. Likes to talk dirty.”
Evenangelscry(dom male)
“Looking for an online dynamic. Open to both potential partners and like minded people”
ControllingDom(dom male)
Chris K(dom male)
“I am smart, honest and direct - interested in meeting kinky friends that appreciate intense mind and body connection.”
VelvetLeashDomina(dom female)
“Looking for submissive men, women and trans women who enjoy worshipping and being my slut. Aftercare, consent, and communication are essential and also feeling safe and comfortable.”
SilkAndSurrender(sub female)
“The Secretary. If you know you know……
That’s what I am seeking.”
Asuraonetwothree(dom trans woman)
“Seeking somebody who’s willing to go on long trips with me for a month or two at a time he is very much a masochist has an insane sex drive and has been part of the Bdsm culture for a while”
Retired maso sub(masochist male)
“I was a sub masochist to my Black Female Sadist Partner who passed 2 years ago. I miss the lifestyle and have decided to return. She trained me to switch teach others local and on-line. I'm hoping to reconnect with someone, even remotely if necessary. I'm new here and deciding if I will join.”
thomasbenard(dom male)
“i am looking to own a slave”
WireBarb(sub female)
“I'm new here just exploring my new world wanting to make new friends and learn about the world of sub/Dom relationships.”
Saya(neither female)
“Friends”
Brat Baby(sub female)
“I am new and mostly uneducated here. Looking to learn more and to be able to help my partner grow in his role as well.”
Shaggy D(switch male)
“Friendships, and people to explore and talk about life, kinks, and problems”
Mikeelectric(sub male)
“Looking for sexy women who would wear a gstring heels strap on dildo bsng me shove dildobij my mouth my hole lightly use vibrator on me. Dildo sucking dildo bsnging”
Vestige(sub female)
“I’m new to this space but I know what I’m drawn to. I like a calm, confident dominant energy—someone who takes the lead naturally and doesn’t get easily thrown off.
Someone grounded, self-aware, and genuinely dominant—not just in words. And can also handle a bit of playful brat behaviour ☺️”
Antho(sub male)
“I'm not sure what I'm seeking.something exciting for sure though. I'm Anthony I'm about 5 ft 9 inches tall and weigh around 150 pounds,I'ma redhead and shaved.looking for exciting people too show me! 👿”
Angeleoff(dom female)
“Je Recherche soumis , fidèle et curieux . Avec ou sans expérience , qui m’aidera également financièrement. Qui aime les pieds et le voyeurisme + fétichisme.
Qui possède un cage de chasteté serais un + .”
acmar(switch male)
“Looking for someone to really push my sexual limits tired of the same old thing would love to meet a woman who would like to step out of the norm and do new things.”
SingleGentlemanAT(dom male)
“Looking for the perfect obidient little dirtyminded angel there can be so If you are in need of a passionate yet very rough owner and daddy, then let me know by introducing yourself properly XD”
Atlpigslave
“Looking to meet Kings and Masters with a view to short and long term submission”
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