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Use the Find Friends search to browse seekers by location, age, orientation, and more. You can mark yourself as "Seeking" on your profile to share your relationship goals, whether it’s a partner, mentor, submissive, or dominant.
Newest Members Seeking
loslunt(sub female)
“Looking for men and women to humiliate me”
tigertail(sub male)
Subtex(sub male)
“I am seeking a girl who can dom me and take control of everything. I want to be her slave”
JackDB(sub male)
“A dominant female to create a close connection with and to discover new things with”
Pretty Kitty US(sub female)
“Interested in talking to Doms and forming a part-time dynamic if our preferences and schedules align.”
Indom(dom male)
“Im looking for a sub. i have some experience, but not all too much”
Bound Echo(sub male)
“I would like to find a dominant woman (maybe couple?!) to submit to.”
theperfectslaveboy(sub male)
“young boy looking for older master. not too old, online or in person works whatever you would like sir”
Klank(dom male)
“Conversation flirting and more 😈 I'm a Dom who strives to find the mental and physical balance.”
TerraFirma
“Are there any professional Dominants/Dominatrix out there? I want to learn about my submission, but safely so.”
fetdream(sub male)
“Seeking a connection with a powerful, dominant woman who is willing to control and build a new dynamic for growth together.”
Raaiij
Lilymadlove(sub female)
“Daddy dom who's cares and know limits and know when no is a no. He should not be pushy. Max age is 30.”
DetroitDoggo(sub male)
Miri Fae Loch(sub female)
Tancrede(sub male)
Nug(switch male)
TokyoFlower(sub female)
“Hey everyone!
I am from Japan 👋🏻 Nice to meet you all!
There is not a huge BDSM community in Japan, so I'm mainly looking for new friends to connect and also to practice my English 🤣😅🥲
I am in a relationship so please don't ask me to be your girlfriend 🤣”
Hucowtradwife(sub female)
“Dom male, without children who wishes for a big family.”
Cocksleevewhore(sub female)
“Seeking men to talk dirty and degrade me online. No hookups but will give privileges to the best daddy meeting my needs.”
Ron Willing(sub male)
“Looking for Dom to show me the ropes. Literally and metaphorically
I’m 50 Not 28! Sorry for the confusion.”
Phoenixen(sub female)
“I'm looking for someone who can be my Dom, my potential boyfriend/husband, and my best friend. Someone who matches/compliments my silly personality, my desire for adventure, and wants some fun in life.”
CurlySue(sub female)
justMatt(dom male)
“Looking for a female sub to talk to, both about kinky and non-kinky stuff. Currently online only, but that may change in the future.”
Anonymousguy(switch male)
“Seeking a dominant female who's ready to introduce me to the real bdsm world”
Obedient Bunny(sub female){collared}
“I am not seeking a full on relationship but rather conversation, maybe a little playtime and real connections with like minded people. People that can help me on my journey of discovery.”
TPE Forever Slave(masochist male)
“I’m seeking to be a live in tpe slave forever, to serve my owner for the rest of my life”
Sas Wire(sub butch)
“Master$ mistress”
LilMoon(sub gender queer)
“Hi im new to this experience and I would really like it if someone from the community can train me to be a good boy, and transform my body into what you desire im looking to build myself into a sexy femboy for a pretty penny to also please you🌙”
ThinkingGuy(kinky male)
“I'd love to find someone who thinks vulnerability is kinky. Deep connection. Patience and honesty and vulnerability. And whatever comes of that is great. This site is way beyond me. I'm in a new stage.”
MascSubBttn(sub male)
“28 yr. Sub male, exploring as i am very new to the community I lean more towards Dom male looking for online for now to gain new experiences reach out if interested, I just need to clear with Mr. Vendetta first. Owned and Mastered by Mr. Vendetta”
Spruce(sub male)
“I'm looking forward to become submission of a wise and life experienced mistress (or master). In my master Id appreciate strong and reasonable life values, awareness and open mind.
Me personally is a very wise young fella with big heart, big brain, big dreams, and big dih😇”
Flower guy(dom male)
“I'm looking for a sub that enjoys kinky play that is looking for friendship as well as play partner”
Sargeantfury
“Connections) hopefully)eventually leading to one be that online or IRL”
Sissy Maria May(sub male)
“Attention all dominant females, trans girls and black dominate alpha males.
There is a sissy slut on the lose that is begging to be captured.”
fuzzyduck(sub female)
cocoabunnielove
The Knocker(dom female)
E cncluvr(sub gender fluid)
“First time here, hoping to find an older well endowed man to help me explore. Mostly interested in cnc, group dynamics, maybe some humiliation.
Scared to text first”
Itsmenicole(sub female)
cuffsnstuff(kinky male)
Rose Bud(masochist female)
“The most popular question, what am I looking for? Well I am new so any knowledge or insight would be appreciated. Also, I am not a “fling”, I crave someone to understand me completely. Do not message me if you do not want something long term.”
StickyFlicker(sub trans woman)
“Find out”
Payge(sub female)
“I’m always up for something casual, especially if you want a brain broken whore who gets off on unhinged chats and fear play. I’m into heavy cnc, degradation, general psychological warfare.”
Laidbacksigmadom(dom male)
“Friends both male and female, a female to join our relationship as a 'sisterwife' to my sub - no religious connotations intended.”
Coco Bound(sub male)
“Submissive man seeking a Mistress/Goddess to serve and pleasure. Prefer in person, but is willing to do online.”
Femme Divine(sub female)
“I know exactly what I need and I’m no longer accepting less.
I know who I am in my core and when I find the man I Need, I will do everything to please him… mentally, emotionally and physically.”
DaddyAsura(dom male)
Sharry Mistress(dom female)
“I am a lesbian Mistress who likes to meet like minded people and make new friends.
I am married to a man but inclined more towards females.
I believe in having a strong bond as normal people makes the D/s relationship even stronger.
I am pretty much open minded and into many kinks with limits.”
MoonstoneAC(sub female)
suballen(sub male)
BNWO Dom(dom male)
“I’m a Dom that likes to call texting is fine but power in the voice is a mental stimulation for the sub”
Minx Moon(sub female){Under Cons}
“Can you take me where I need to go ….
I’m a 49 (soon to be 50) year old woman looking to embrace my submissive needs predominantly in online environment.”
worldtamer(dom male)
“Looking for someone to play with.”
Bellexoxo(sub female)
“We're looking for Doms in the Alabama area or nearby.”
Rivera Storm(dom female)
“A person who comprehends my bio and bdsm and me, who is ready to explore a path of radiance and blossom into a fine human being as a whole.”
Amore Noir(sub female)
“A master/dom ~”
Cover girl Darcy(sub male)
“Seeking abuse. Mental and physical. BBC makes me cream.”
Sinity(dom female)
“Connection. I take a while to find connection with others and would like to start looking for a potential relationship. The closer geographically, the better.
I am looking for a male sub or switch for a monogamous/open to play partner relationship.”
Bdock(sub male)
“A woman near me to dominate me and have some fun help me explore this lifestyle its a lifelong fantasy”
Lokin(sub female)
“Online connections, looking to trade my Sub for pleasure on both ends”
Donrick(kinky male)
“Dom, Sir, Top, Master
I am a trained bottom and will suffer for you. My reward is your rock hard, dripping cock.”
Tut666(dom male)
“Looking for submissive female.”
SweetDemon(sub female)
Jinxed(sub female)
imamam
“A wife who expects me to be loyal while she is not”
MazieG(sub female)
“I'm looking for a long term Dominant queer woman, over the age of 30 for a D/s dynamic.”
submissive panty boy(sub male)
“Seeking an FLR relationship. A Mistress who is a natural Domme. Not because You are mean and angry and enjoy bringing pain and suffering to others, but because You enjoy the control aspect of it. Someone whose dominance is subconscious. Someone who it just comes natural to. BBW = 🥰😁😍😊🤩😄🥳”
Sperman(kinky male)
Dominantmales
“I'm looking for a female submissive to explore and bond with.”
Masterforce(sadist male)
“I'm looking for a submissive female willing to explore and learn”
homme{DOM}
“Open.”
AffectionateKitKat(kinky female)
“Conversation and common ground”
Midnight Bloom(dom female)
“Hello hello please read my profile”
homesteaddom(dom male)
“Looking for a sub/slave female for LTR.”
Seeking Veiled(dom male)
SlaveChan(sub male)
“Fully submissive black male seeking full time live in slavery. I’m bisexual but prefer older men/women (50+). I have next to no limits and those can be dictated by my potential Master when the time comes. Only serious contacts please. Thanks 🥰”
Encore Ready(dom male)
“Relaxed, free of drama, genuine connection, passionate, patient, good communicators, and adventurous.”
DivineAlterism(switch male)
“Long Distance Play”
SisDB(sub male)
“I very much enjoy chatting about mutual interests and swapping ideas. But I'm not looking for new play partners as I am serving a Dom.”
okielavatar(masochist male)
MRuffles(switch male)
“I am looking for a dom or a sub”
wideeyedgirl(sub female)
“I would do best with a Dominant man who is grounded, intelligent, and emotionally mature. Someone with strong integrity, who has enough confidence to celebrate and encourage my professional life, but enough sterness to control and demand my personal life. Push me, use me, abuse me, adore me.”
Metanoia(sub female)
“Friendship & Guidance.
Deep meaningful conversations with a side of laughter.”
Obsidian Pearl(sub female)
“not sure what im seeking. I know dynamics are serious and im not ready for that...chatting would be nice though...”
Hot Mess(sub female)
“Someone who can learn to tame this fiery submissive. Would love to talk and lead where things go”
Sex me please(sub male)
“a older hard DOMINUS for living”
SubRichx(sub male)
“I’m a straight submissive male with a humiliation kink. This usually leads me to performing for men on the internet. Im now looking for a dominant who wants to own me, a dominant I can be honest with and share my thoughts and fears with and a dominant I can serve completely. I love to be enjoyed.”
MobiusDoubleKnot(switch agender)
“Friends who also are interested in general bondage!”
DegenMaster(dom male)
“Just seeing what is out there. I currently have a service slave that is out of state and once her obligations end she will be coming to serve 24/7. Just looking for another that can add value to us, we both enjoy having a third.”
serviceguy(sub male)
“i love female dominance, slavery in its very meaning and being useful as a slave in a D/s relationship (TPE would be wonderful).”
Doc Hos(switch male)
“I'm not very specific”
Mystic weed(kinky male)
“Seeking someone patience and willing to learn with me as I explore. Not super experienced but I’m willing to learn and see how things play out”
inexperiencesub(sub male){Yes collar}
“I am new to this lifestyle I want to be a live in sissy slave pet permanently”
Toy Sex(sub male)
“A mistress who can train a beginner, but who will not let me stay one. I want to worship you and give you anything you need”
Ninjasmoker(sub male)
“I am looking for my owner prefer a female owner but open to a male one”
Willing Slave(sub male)
“i am seeking for a master”
PatheticDumbSlt(sub femme)
“Im looking for an owner <3”
Ditchpickle(dom male)
“I'm looking for a F submissive, willing to relocate. Someone who identifies as a service submissive/slave and masochist, and is serious about a longterm dynamic.”
submissivedaniel(sub male)
“Looking for a mistress or master maybe for key holding and or exposure and humiliation 😉”
BattleBogs(switch male)
“Someone to experiment with. Looking to try new things”
LoveOfFluff(sub trans woman)
“Pretty much just seeking online rp partners for short term. I'm a submissive sissy who prefers men and enjoys diapers. open to other things, but again, mostly just looking for online rp fun for the short term.”
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