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Newest Members Seeking
weekendsubmissive(sub female)
“Looking for an experienced Sadist to take me to the next level”
LatexFBoy(sub gender fluid)
“Looking for Doms into tight restrictions, latex and other hyper-kinky stuff 😸”
Wolven(kinky male)
“Seeking a woman for kinky times.Would like to try bdsm.Looking for a dom woman.I would be a sub.Let's get to know each other.”
Rufus has left
DaddysSluttyLittle(sub female)
“I am seeking to serve my next Owner”
Sillyly(sub female)
“Dom, male, age 20-45, preferably around Massachusetts, and whos experienced and stern”
riibbitraabbit(sub trans man)
“looking for dominant man who will control me and teach me how to be a good kitty !”
Master gentle(dom male)
“Let's skip the pony show. I am looking for a slave to collar leash and own for life. You either want to be owned and controlled, or you don't. I am tired of playing the "let's chat" game. I am not here to buy friends. I am looking for a female who needs a Master's hand on her existence.”
cyberbrat(sub female)
“more attracted to women than men. mostly submissive; kinky. would love to make friends before starting a dynamic. message me first!”
pretty good girl(sub female)
“Trying to find a daddy dom to kinda ease me into this lifestyle. Bonus points for fit nerdy guys!”
Darkrise(dom male)
Jqqqqq8(dom male)
MistressH
“Submissive male only at this time”
Zazabayarea(sub male)
“Looking for hung older dadddys to teach me guide me use me!”
Americangunner(dom male)
Robbycop(sub male)
“I have a strong desire to grow into the best version of my submissive self.
I’m looking for someone experienced, confident, and grounded who enjoys guiding, shaping, and building a real dynamic over time.
Someone who understands that trust, consistency, and communication are what make it work.
Ver”
Thistle(sub female)
“Wishing everyone a good morning”
MisterAngel(dom male)
“I'm primarily seeking community, mentorship, and friendship. Beyond that I'm open to finding additional dynamics that can co-exist along side my current dynamic.”
Ellie Rose(sub female)
“A deep genuine connection built upon trust and communication”
Subtousee(sub male)
“Seeking a mistress to serve”
CJWessar(sub male){Not yet}
“I'm looking for a Keyholder, someone who enjoys taking control as much as I enjoy giving up control. (And fun I enjoy a good conversation)”
LunaEclipse(sub female)
JellyTheBean(switch male)
MacReady(dom male)
“Let’s go.”
Jace The Fox(sub male){Jace}
“A dommy mommy, mistress or someone who is into ballbusting/wanting to explore ballbusting”
Princesswithaplan(sub female)
“Dominant males who are respectful and patient with a rather inexperienced submissive. I am a service submissive as well as a sex slave. Open to being part of a couple or perhaps a Dominant female.”
bellababyxo(sub female)
VioletFlower(sub female)
FetishSubby(sub male)
“Dominant female who shares some kinks or poeple who just want to talk. I'm open minded…”
swissroc(sub male)
“lopking forlong term dom”
DemonicZeusBWC(dom male)
“I'm seeking to dominate, and own a submissive and turn them into my sub slave”
VeeTheSwitch(switch male)
“Im seeking a master and/or a sub.”
RoseBlue(sub female)
“Looking for casual, low to no commitment fun”
FallenAngelyx(dom male)
“Seeking a sub female. Very kind person with a big heart and very understanding. I try to be fair yet firm in my dominant behavior”
CPaulMN(dom male)
“I am looking for a sub to become my in person slave. But I want someone who can become my lover, my friend, my life long partner. She understands that submission is a gift and not something to be taken, that this type or relationship is built over time through honest communication and trust.”
dominatio(dom male)
“Seeking connection, emotionally and intellectually, with someone that wants to feel ravished, safe, cared and what owned truly means.”
SissyEmmaNI(sub femme)
“Trapped closet sissy desperate to be a slut for dominant man or woman”
Subutzedel(masochist male)
“Nach dominanten Personen die mir sagen wo es lang geht ich werde so richtig geil wenn mir Leute sagen und zeigen wie es weiter geht gerne auch online”
Maria May(sub male){Submissive}
“Seeking a dominant femdom Mistress for long term relationship and ownership.”
RenoDom(dom male)
“Submissive women for exploration and experimentation”
KimStars(sub female)
“Looking for a dominant male to teach me more about humiliation and degredation”
Lakelifemike(dom male)
“Seeking sub females”
Gagboy(sub male)
“Looking to expand my submissive side. Open to most things. Very oral, have a foot fetish, love pussy and ass worship. Love toys, strapons, gags. Would be open to online play. Open to serve anyone that i connect with”
SubbyGirl Alyssa(sub female)
“a relationship, possibly 24/7 dynamic. Seeking a Dom/Master that is ok with a sub, brat and pet.”
Madam Desire(dom female)
“I’ve been searching for quite some time for a genuine submissive—someone who is truly passionate, devoted, skilled, and values obedience and communication. I’m looking for a single person (not married or in a relationship) who enjoys exploring different kinks”
Jeffica(sub femme)
“I'm seeking a woman that would enjoy turning me into a bottom with a man, the humiliation turns me on, I thought of a female making a cuckold out of me serving her and a man would be awesome.”
Johnny whenever(dom male)
“Trying to seriously explore this part of me now. Would love to chat with some female subs to bounce some vibes off of”
Nick n(dom male)
“Kinky sex”
Imknewtothis(sub female)
“Looking to chat with like minded individuals!”
LewdHotdog(sub male)
“A harsh, sadistic, cruel daddy/dom/master <3”
Chill Guy(dom male)
“I just want to chat about kinks, desires, fantasies. Looking for some fun.”
huntedbyyou(sub male)
“Dominant”
Akizari(switch gender queer)
“Currently looking for open-minded female switches/ dommes”
Shyboy Zeke(sub male)
“People who are comfortable with littles who just want to be little and have a kink side too. Mostly looking for Bigs and Middles to be around or to talk with.”
Celestia Calaway(dom female)
“Seeking articulate, obedient submissives for psychological power exchange, verbal degradation, tease & denial, and emotional control. Let’s talk limits and see if you can handle my cruelty.”
DaddydomIlyrian(dom male)
“I am here to meet like minded individuals. I have been looking for sites like these because I hate social media telling me I what I can and can't post. that I no longer have to feel ashamed for my kinks and fetishes. I look forward to meeting you all. have a blessed day”
gaiafylgja(masochist female)
“READ PLS: I HAVE A MASTER ALREADY.
Seeking to mentor people who want to be mentored :) (Ik, that's weird coming from a 25 year old woman, but if you want advice from a maso pleasure slave... I'm here).”
Puffedstuffkh(sub male)
“I am new to this so I'm seeking a gentle guiding hand to show me the joy and pleasures of a FLR”
arlene
little echo(sub female)
“Looking to make friends in the BDSM community. Mentors of sorts are welcomed as well. I have a lot of learning and growth to do. All contact will be completely online (through thecage.co). Details of Dynamic can be discussed.”
Diluvian(dom male)
“Hi, I'm seeking a submissive who is interested in exploring all that life has to offer. I am a very supportive dom with a focus on learning and enjoying life. The most important thing to me is communication. I want to make fantasies and dreams real, but to do so we need to be open and honest at all”
Walkingin(switch male)
“a beautiful dominant, or submissive or a switch in may neck of the woods...”
MasterAtticus(dom male)
“Obedient, submissive female”
Cbtmaster(dom male)
“21 Dom seeking online cbt Slave, i want someone with clothespins, paddles, and any other balls punishing tools.”
Oakway
“I'm an experienced Dominant seeking a submissive woman for an online-only D/s dynamic. To be transparent upfront, I'm married and require complete discretion - I understand this arrangement won't be suitable for everyone, and I respect that completely.
About me: I'm older with experience in both onl”
Diaperbabyboy(kinky male)
“I'm looking for a Mommy or Daddy or both, Daddy must be Androgynous, I'm also Switch i can also be a caretaker but wearing Diapers 24/7”
SilverShackle(sub trans man)
“Friends to connect to, Doms to potentially engage with, boyfriends to date, Mentors to learn from.. Honestly anything to engage in the community and broaden my understanding! I wanna play, please!”
JacksonSpades(dom male)
“Seeking a devoted submissive.”
PhoenixS(sub male)
“I am looking for experienced people to help teach me about submission and what it truly means. I am looking for women to teach me what I can do to be better for a potential Dom one day. I am looking for friends to talk and understand more about the community.”
MgmLneWolf(sadist male)
“Seeking live in slave boy
To chat easier with me contact me on telegram.
Username @masterwolf36025”
devoted straw{not search}
“I'm currently on the path to spiritual healing. The closest person to me, after my parents, caused me very deep emotional trauma. If you find me interesting, just be patient. Right now, I'm not looking for anyone except an audience. This also doesn't mean I want personal communication; that's diffic”
Lovely Lena(sub female)
“I am a sub seeking a relationship with a dom in real life. I am not too experienced with BDSM, so I need someone who can handle being with someone newer.”
Budslave(sub male)
“I am a sub seeking a mistress. I am into many things. I want to be a slave to someone I want to be tied up and tormented. I want to be used. If you are interested this message me please.”
theironman(dom male)
“Seeking a classy educated alpha submissive that wants a protector and leader”
DominusMentis(dom male)
“Seeking meaningful connections and conversation.”
OutofNothing(sub female)
“I am looking for a local-ish Dom that is willing to work with someone who has trauma around their past BDSM experiences. I will always take friends and people who just want to chat.”
chastitypantyboy(sub male)
“Dom/Master to take ownership and train this bi-curious virgin to be their caged sub”
material(sub male)
“im looking for an older master who wants to live his fantasies. Sadists preferred. You know who you are and in retirement you want to live all those dark fantasies you never got to try.”
Kittylynn(sub female)
SecretNooks(kinky agender)
“Seeking friendship, guidance, connections. Brand new to the scene. All genders are beautiful and welcome to message.”
Ivorie(sub female)
“Patient and kind yet strict Daddy”
sweetlydrowned(sub female)
“I hope to find a long term partner. I gravitate toward Daddy Doms, Soft Doms, Pleasure Doms, and Primal Doms the most, usually some combination of those four. I enjoy DDlg, though I do not age regress. Ideally I am looking for a 24/7 TPE dynamic. I am VERY romance first, sex second.”
Babyga(sub female)
“I’m currently in my last year of college and I’ve been a sub for a few years! I also age regress and I do enjoy the 24/7 dynamic, I’d like to send a picture of myself instead of post it. I love to read and crochet! I’m lookingfor a cg/dom whos strict but will play games with me and watch movies :)”
Justin Seven(kinky male)
FLRman(sub male)
xxlittlekittenxx(masochist female)
“Sadist male”
Aravken(dom male)
“I am looking for a couple/girl who are willing to fully embrace the role as my slaves. This is not just about sex; it's about a lifestyle where you both willingly surrender your autonomy to me. I expect obedience, loyalty, and a willingness to learn and grow under my guidance.”
singularity gap(dom male)
“I enjoy controlling others and imposing my will on them. Always have. I'm looking for submissive individuals for an online / phone dynamic that could turn into a real life thing. Anyone with first hand experience as a hypnosis subject is very interesting to me...”
atc(kinky female)
EddieVel
Bigboyyy(dom male)
“A sub especially one who lives anal but open to anything”
Josie Josie(sub female){Under Cons}
“I am looking for a dom that is possessive jealous and obsessive. Someone dark minded like me.”
MasterLeon(dom male)
“I want to make a connection with a submissive girl”
deepruncage(masochist male)
“Dom male (may be undetectable) within 40 mIles of North Charleston SC who needs to breed a hiv neg subservient during the weekday daytime as his place as his slave.”
Dominantlooking(sadist male)
“A masochistic female to train and eventually collar and Mark as my permanent submissive in real life. I am only looking for females any male need not to apply.”
Lonewolfrose(sub female)
“I am looking to find new friends who are like minded and want to meet up and chat about their interests and experiences in the BDSM community.”
EssexPleaser(sub male)
“Looking to connect with a Mistress / Domme.. No findoms.. only real dominant women who want a submissive man to use for their desires and pleasure, only women who want to be served and worshipped. In person only.. no virtual and I repeat no findom.”
PainandLove(sub female)
“Soft loving sweet submissive in the right hands, but I'm not one to submit easily. Alpha female in my daily life, looking for someone to be able to soften into.”
Cleo Owen Sound(sub male)
“I am seeking a gay master to train me to be an acceptable total sub bottom slave.”
Allexclusives(sub female)
bedharak(dom male)
“As Salaamu Alaykum. I’m looking for a gentle Sunni Daddy Dom who loves breast milk. I am studious, searching for a study buddy, prayer partner, mind blowing sex as often as we make nawaafil salawaat. I want the best of both worlds I guess.. sigh. A balance between the Sunnah and kink.”
lilfarmboy(sub trans man)
“I'm newer to the BDSM scene so I'd love to meet someone who's comfortable with that. As a result of my inexperience, my intentions are to keep my BDSM connections purely online until I can get to know more about the scene and become more comfortable with kink. I'd love a male or female dom ;).”
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