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Newest Members Seeking
Diluvian(dom male)
“Hi, I'm seeking a submissive who is interested in exploring all that life has to offer. I am a very supportive dom with a focus on learning and enjoying life. The most important thing to me is communication. I want to make fantasies and dreams real, but to do so we need to be open and honest at all”
Billi(sub female)
“Wanna play?”
Walkingin(switch male)
“a beautiful dominant, or submissive or a switch in may neck of the woods...”
SecretV(sub female)
MasterAtticus(dom male)
“Obedient, submissive female”
flammaAeterna
“Define: Boundary”
Cbtmaster(dom male)
“21 Dom seeking online cbt Slave, i want someone with clothespins, paddles, and any other balls punishing tools.”
Oakway
“I'm an experienced Dominant seeking a submissive woman for an online-only D/s dynamic. To be transparent upfront, I'm married and require complete discretion - I understand this arrangement won't be suitable for everyone, and I respect that completely.
About me: I'm older with experience in both onl”
Diaperbabyboy(kinky male)
“I'm looking for a Mommy or Daddy or both, Daddy must be Androgynous, I'm also Switch i can also be a caretaker but wearing Diapers 24/7”
SilverShackle(sub trans man)
“Friends to connect to, Doms to potentially engage with, boyfriends to date, Mentors to learn from.. Honestly anything to engage in the community and broaden my understanding! I wanna play! :D”
JacksonSpades(dom male)
“Seeking a devoted submissive.”
PhoenixS(sub male)
“I am looking for experienced people to help teach me about submission and what it truly means. I am looking for women to teach me what I can do to be better for a potential Dom one day. I am looking for friends to talk and understand more about the community.”
MgmLneWolf(sadist male)
“Seeking live in slave boy”
devoted straw{not search}
“I'm currently on the path to spiritual healing. The closest person to me, after my parents, caused me very deep emotional trauma. If you find me interesting, just be patient. Right now, I'm not looking for anyone except an audience. This also doesn't mean I want personal communication; that's diffic”
courtneyjames(sub trans woman)
“I hope to find a phone dom daddy or dom mommy to use me, control and feminize me and teach me to be an obedient sissy. I also hope to find other trans-women and couples for phone fun. I am NOT looking to meet anyone in person or through apps of any kind.”
Lovely Lena(sub female)
“I am a sub seeking a relationship with a dom in real life. I am not too experienced with BDSM, so I need someone who can handle being with someone newer.”
Budslave(sub male)
“I am a sub seeking a mistress. I am into many things. I want to be a slave to someone I want to be tied up and tormented. I want to be used. If you are interested this message me please.”
theironman(dom male)
“Seeking a classy educated alpha submissive that wants a protector and leader”
OneDaySoon(dom male)
“I am seeking a deep soul. Attracted to building a sustainable way of life, where we can have the time and freedom to explore, instead of slaving over the rat race of society.”
DominusMentis(dom male)
“Seeking meaningful connections and conversation.”
OutofNothing(sub female)
“I am looking for a local-ish Dom that is willing to work with someone who has trauma around their past BDSM experiences. I will always take friends and people who just want to chat.”
chastitypantyboy(sub male)
“Dom/Master to guide me as I explore my sexuality and submissiveness as a bi-curious virgin Sub”
Pussicat(sub femme)
“I have been looking for a dominant man to help me understand my feminine desires. I think I may be transexual. I love wearing pretty lingerie and heels.”
material(sub male)
“im looking for an older master who wants to live his fantasies. Sadists preferred. You know who you are and in retirement you want to live all those dark fantasies you never got to try.”
Kittylynn(sub female)
Ancompunk(switch gender queer)
“Help with figuring out how to even exist in ENM and kink spaces. Open to talking, getting advice, making friends even.”
BeesBong(sub trans man)
“I’m looking for connection and to have some guidance in this avenue. Preferably with a Dom who is patient, a bit gentle, and who doesn’t mind my awkward flirting.”
SecretNooks(kinky agender)
“Seeking friendship, guidance, connections. Brand new to the scene. All genders are beautiful and welcome to message.”
Ivorie(sub female)
“I want friends of the lifestyle who I can turn to with questions and concerns”
sweetlydrowned(sub female)
“I hope to find a long term partner. I gravitate toward Daddy Doms, Soft Doms, Pleasure Doms, and Primal Doms the most, usually some combination of those four. I enjoy DDlg, though I do not age regress. Ideally I am looking for a 24/7 TPE dynamic. I am VERY romance first, sex second.”
Babyga(sub female)
“I’m currently in my last year of college and I’ve been a sub for a few years! I also age regress and I do enjoy the 24/7 dynamic, I’d like to send a picture of myself instead of post it. I love to read and crochet! I’m lookingfor a cg/dom whos strict but will play games with me and watch movies :)”
Justin Seven(kinky male)
FLRman(sub male)
xxlittlekittenxx(masochist female)
“Sadist male”
Aravken(dom male)
“I am looking for a couple/girl who are willing to fully embrace the role as my slaves. This is not just about sex; it's about a lifestyle where you both willingly surrender your autonomy to me. I expect obedience, loyalty, and a willingness to learn and grow under my guidance.”
singularity gap(dom male)
“I enjoy controlling others and imposing my will on them. Always have. I'm looking for submissive individuals for an online / phone dynamic that could turn into a real life thing. Anyone with first hand experience as a hypnosis subject is very interesting to me...”
atc(kinky female)
EddieVel
Bigboyyy(dom male)
“A sub especially one who lives anal but open to anything”
MasterLeon(dom male)
“I want to make a connection with a submissive girl”
deepruncage(masochist male)
“Dom male (may be undetectable) within 40 mIles of North Charleston SC who needs to breed a hiv neg subservient during the weekday daytime as his place as his slave.”
Dominantlooking(sadist male)
“A masochistic female to train and eventually collar and Mark as my permanent submissive in real life. I am only looking for females any male need not to apply.”
Lonewolfrose(sub female)
“I am looking to find new friends who are like minded and want to meet up and chat about their interests and experiences in the BDSM community.”
EssexPleaser(sub male)
“Looking to connect with a Mistress / Domme.. No findoms.. only real dominant women who want a submissive man to use for their desires and pleasure, only women who want to be served and worshipped. In person only.. no virtual and I repeat no findom.”
PainandLove(switch female)
“Looking for deep conversations that lead to a stable friendship. Willing to be either domme or sub based on how we connect.”
Cleo Owen Sound(sub male)
“I am seeking a gay master to train me to be an acceptable total sub bottom slave.”
Allexclusives(sub female)
bedharak(dom male)
“As Salaamu Alaykum. I’m looking for a gentle Sunni Daddy Dom who loves breast milk. I am studious, searching for a study buddy, prayer partner, mind blowing sex as often as we make nawaafil salawaat. I want the best of both worlds I guess.. sigh. A balance between the Sunnah and kink.”
lilfarmboy(sub trans man)
“I'm newer to the BDSM scene so I'd love to meet someone who's comfortable with that. As a result of my inexperience, my intentions are to keep my BDSM connections purely online until I can get to know more about the scene and become more comfortable with kink. I'd love a male or female dom ;).”
Big Tony(sub male)
“Honestly, this is brand new territory to me. I know I want a woman or women to take charge of me. I want to explore new horizons of myself. I at one time wanted to a male stripper, not sure if I could.
But...I think I'd like to try for the right woman or women. Just want to know...can I?”
Big Daddy Kane(dom male)
“You can find me in the chat room!”
Chastity Slave Boi(sub male)
“A master with a monster cock to lock me in chastity long term and brainwash me with his cock, ideally a twink hehe”
SteelEmbrace(dom male)
“Slave submissive looking for new online connections, possibly moving to in person”
NewInexperiencedSUB(sub male)
“I'm an inexperienced sub that wants a dom to bring out my submissive side.Looking for a Dom that wants to put me in bondage, make me plug myself more and introduce to new kinks.”
Discipline69(dom male)
“I’m looking for a mature lady or a younger woman , married or not, who wants to explore her secret fantasy or/ and her darkest nature ….A newbie is welcome.”
gaghertight(dom male)
“Play partners, people to discuss our kinks, friends”
MelloGuy(sub male)
“I am seeking a dominant and dynamic that brings structure, clarity, and the opportunity to grow along side one another”
Foxys(sub female)
“A Dom to teach me and be willing to push me but also understand my limits as we go along”
Scottieb(sub male)
“I seek Dominant Woman who enjoy submissive men. I enjoy many BDSM activities especially Bondage”
SFred(masochist male)
“I'm seeking for an cruel sadist..someone who bring physical pain and puts me into subspace. Curious to my tolerances? Dm me!”
MasterEd121(dom male)
“I'm looking for a serious relationship completely immersed in the lifestyle.”
Zooey(sub female)
“Hi everyone! I'm a lesbian, new to the scene but kinky at heart. If you're a girl/NB and feel like chatting, feel free to send me a message! Especially if you're a domme ;) 🏳️⚧️”
HiThereCatsuit(sub gender fluid)
“I identify as a damsel and prefer Femdom presenting people. I work in the kink and fetish industry as a podcaster and content creator. I welcome conversation from respectful and kind people and I will return with the same to you.”
MistressRG(dom female)
“I am a dominant woman seeking a long-term D/s relationship focused on complete submission. My ideal submissive is respectful, devoted, and prioritizes my pleasure above their own desires.”
HankSpank(sub male)
“I tried the whole "self discipline" thing, but i discovered that it was almost impossible to bend myself over my own knee...lol
I am now seeking an online dom to help me correct my behavior through assigned punishments, including self-spanking, line writing, corner time, etc....”
Jamia(sub male)
“I am a Sub! Seeking either a female or trans woman. Mistress Goddess Domme.
Wanting forced slavery and feminization, sissy. Whatever you want, please have me sign contracts or whatever willing and truly wanting ownership make me what you want please. Long-term please. Also more than sexual everythi”
Egremontguy(switch male)
“Looking for people to chat to and connect with hopefully somewhat close to the very north of England”
Finnmaster(dom male)
“I am seeking submissive female in an online relationship. I hope we can explore fethises together and build connection. Please contact only if you are willing to commit.”
Mangulo(dom male)
“Ongoing obedient online dynamic (with potential of meets, although they would be infrequent at best).”
oralpissboyslave(sub male)
“I want to be tortured, humiliated broken and emasculated.
I want to make amateur videos with somebody as a sub /toilet slave, facesitting, piss drinking, degrading scat, etc . I will film anytime, with no mask if desired. I could even do a series with a storyline of my training”
SubInPetticoats
a kinky sub(sub male)
Enzoxsub(sub male)
“I'm a beginner sub, 26 years old, looking for a mistress for remote sessions, or relationship if good feeling. I have a few toys that my mistress can use to play with me”
Frxncenn(dom femme)
“Seeking a sub female who loves bdsm and Dom fems”
frslave(masochist male)
“French Slave into TPE looking for a Master to serve him in a long term relationship.
I would love to have every part of my life under your control : Private life, relationship, food, clothes, comfort etc..”
bunj(sub agender)
“i'm new at the community, so i guess i'm just seeking people to talk about this whole world and share knowledge!”
Submissive Sex Sub(sub male)
“Obedient, loyal sub slave seeking Alpha Male ownership/use. UK-based, available for real-time TPE/service.
Core kinks: throat fucking/deep use (love open-mouth gags/devices for unrestricted access), cock & foot worship, bondage/restraints, domestic chores (cleaning, Man servant butler duties)”
SapphireCeleste
“My Primal Primary.”
Notsoarabarab(kinky male)
“Hey people,
Im an athletic 29yo from jordan looking for a long term relationship with some flare , been into the lifestyle for a while now , i have very fee limits”
morjewell(sub female)
“I’m looking for the proper Dom. Someone to train and make me everything I was meant to be”
HoneyMoon
shortxkingx(sub male)
“I'm looking for a lifestyle dom into chastity cuckold and all forms of subkinnk I'm intelligent and have some unique qualities that would make me attractive to a flr into key holding etca”
switchybunny
“i’m am inexperienced switch sub lean who wants to be taken care of and have some one show me what it can be like to have some to show my the way. also looking for friends”
YvonneR
Ganjagun(switch male)
“Looking for a travel buddy x”
Maxex(switch male)
“I'm a switch (leaning to sub). I am looking for women (dommes or switches) for productive communication, exchange of experience and sexting. I can keep up a conversation on any topic.”
Anonymousf(sub female)
“Dominant male”
NoEscapeBelle(sub femme)
weegie
“Hi, I am a healthy male Submissive mature safe sane emotionally stable financially secure seeking Dominant Woman seeking Direction Structure Guidance Discipline to become useful helpful supportive and to cooperate in there life successes. Please reach out so i can be helpful.”
DaddyBearSeven(dom male)
Shibharipractice(switch male){Nope}
“Something that’s missing”
BiVirginSubbie(sub female)
“For a Dom”
bitingrisk(sub butch)
“local connections in new england !!”
SilverPhantom(switch female)
“A dominant who will help me become the woman I was meant to be.”
MikeyZ(switch male)
“I'm currently looking for play partners to explore and help one another forget about life's worries and stresses for a bit 😘 or just some pleasant conversation. Kinky or otherwise. Bonus points if you're a bit nerdy”
CanBiWifeTwo(dom female)
“Hello ... This is my new account ... can't get into my previous account (CanBiWife). Sorry. Please message me if we have previously been in contact. Glad to be back !
I am looking forward to chatting with Submissive Bi Women and Bi Men. I am also quite interested in chatting with T-Girls.”
BadIntentions(dom male)
“I want a proprietary relationship with the right woman. Right meaning BDSM isn't foreplay or just on my birthday. No, she needs to fill that void she never understood. She needs control discipline safet. I once had that. Now I don’t. We'll get there. It's a process and I know the way. More. Just ask”
dizzydezzysomething(kinky female)
“Beach Booze Sex Combine all three and you have a great day!”
Sirmasterdom(dom male)
“Who knows what can happen. Friendship, just a chat or something more. Say “Hi” if you like. We can go from there.
Please just be your true authentic self from the get go.”
VanityVixen(dom female){N/A}
“Authentic & mature connections. Only the highly educated, intelligent, & mature simps are welcomed into My space.”
Babygirlade(sub female)
“Submissive little seeking her daddy Dom. 35-45 age range please.”
Artemis moon(sub female)
“Looking for platonic friends”
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