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Newest Members Seeking
Purrrrfection(sub female)
“Petite Submissive Seeking IRL Dom for LTR
48 | Black | 5’0” | Curvy | Experienced
Emotionally intelligent, spiritually grounded, and deeply submissive woman seeking a real-time, long-term D/s dynamic with a dominant man who values psychological connection, intentional control, and mutual trust.”
Eddystone(dom male)
“Looking to lead and teach....”
Belgiumtoyxxx(dom male)
Brookss(switch female)
“Looking for a Dom, heads up I can brat”
Obedient Bunny(sub female)
“A Dom with experience and patience to guide me through becoming a Sub. Age 25-55 , probably male but a female wouldn't be out of the question.”
Izzy Darling(sub female)
“Friends.”
for your pleasher(sub male)
“I'm seeking a sub Dom relationship for 24-7 life”
GakiEli(sub female)
TSLexi(sub trans woman)
“Im 27 yo seek Older dom man +55 M/S+BDSM im total 100% bottom.”
cynicalone(dom male)
anya b(sadist female)
“i am entirely new to this, so i just want to explore. i'm attracted to the idea of being dominant and sadistic, but i've never really tried it? if someone has the patience to experiment with me, i would love to try.”
Greendale(sub male)
“Seeking someone to guide me and help me learn more about myself. While we build a bond of respect and trust.”
sissybambislut(sub male)
hardtwofindme(sub male)
“I am a Sub. I enjoy pleasing. Not into Sissification but I will do what it takes to give pleasure(s). I am not into heavy pain but I enjoy excessive verbal abuse. I delve lightly into a human toilet mode but, I am willing to take that deeper with the right teacher who really enjoys this type of cont”
Old Norse{Captured}
“It’s better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven’t done..”
PrincessRoyal
YesMasterJay(dom male)
“Always looking for an obedient sub that would appreciate an experienced Dom to play with. Prefer in person but have experience online as well.”
PurelyTrapped(sub male)
“Female dom long term
Male or female dom short term
Friends”
Little Cupcake(sub female)
bailor
SubPenda(sub male)
“An outlet to surrender control...”
SHAGINGTON(other male)
“Goth/alt women casual or serious, depends on the vibe.”
Vahotrod(sub male)
“A kinky mistress”
Lonely wanderer(sub male)
“Any female who wants to chat and see if we are compatible. I’m down to talk about anything.”
Alayabeckman(neither female)
“I tend to be more quiet and reserved until you get to know me. I know a lot of people here think your profile is your first impression, but I'm of the mindset if you want to know more about me then send me a message.”
LondonDominant(dom male)
“Female sub/slave ideally London based and well trained”
SubCuriousMan(sub male)
“I'm new to this side of things. I always thought I was dominant, but for the last year or so I have become infatuated with the idea of being dominated by a woman. I'm looking for someone to explore this with, to guide me through this new side of me.”
NevaehTheSaint(sub female)
mandeigirl
Big Bear(dom male)
MistressManson(sub female)
“I'm highly new to being a submissive. I want to learn all about it and find someone who I can connect with, learn with and hopefully fall into a dynamic with”
Honey Bear(sub female)
captivek(sub male)
“I am looking for regular bondage sessions with older men and couples. Especially into kidnap and abduction scenes.”
SpicyCalypso(sub female)
“Seeking meaningful and rewarding mental connections with like-minded, mature and respectful individuals. I value friendships first and view them as the basis of any dynamic. If you cannot earn my respect I have no interest in wasting my time and emotional energy engaging.”
Abbs(sub female)
“Hello all, I am new to Cage. I have been interested in the scene for some years but haven’t been able to explore much. My goal is to meet some like-minded individuals in a safe setting. And possibly find someone to explore with.”
Beck Dom(dom male)
“Seeking online Sub female”
faeprincesa(sub female)
“i’m not looking to play a part. i’m looking to give myself—completely. when the right presence enters the room, my whole body softens. it’s not about being forced. it’s about being moved.
i’m a quiet thing at first. earthy. intuitive. a little shy until something in you calls me forward.”
CottonTail
“Bet you can't tame me 
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Vortigern(dom male)
“I’m currently looking for a long-term slave. I might entertain a sub, but you would have to be open to a lot of different disciplines”
frank lucky(sub male)
Kinksplorer(switch male)
“I'm finally putting myself out there in the kink world and I wanna talk to people to figure out how to operate/navigate this kink world :)”
Mahsa Northwest(sub female)
“A gentleman
Who truly cares about me
Preferably educated person”
derekderek(dom male)
“Not looking for much just submissive or someone looking for a daddy. Looking for a girl that wants to start off things real slow and we can get to know each other as friends and see where things lead to in the future.
I am not very experienced when it comes to things like this. contact me and say hi”
SomeonesSoulmate{Uncollared}
“Looking for friends only”
LuckyStrikeD(dom male)
“Inspire me with your fantasy, send me a message”
joannerose(sub female)
Evashine(dom female)
“Slave, submissive male for long term relationship”
Rain Wynter(sub gender fluid)
“Looking for a Dominant Male who also has Daddy Dom qualities but not required! I have been interested in this lifestyle since 2013 but been heavy in the community since 2023!
I am also a Little/ Middle. Another thing you earn your title for me to call you sir don't demand it!”
SweetOnez(sub female)
“Looking for a tpe relationship”
Sanguinerequiuem(switch trans man)
“Community, friends, hearing about others' experiences and maybe learning new things”
Master Souless(dom male)
MrButtons(dom male)
hedgerow67(sub male)
“Hi there, I am just looking for like minded people to chat with.”
gachpack(dom male)
“I have experience as a switch but I’m looking to lean more into my dominant side with the right connection.”
ChallengePole(dom male)
“A couple looking to explore the world of BDSM, we are mainly looking for a female to walk Pole through her journey, while being watch and educating myself.”
barefootcumslut(switch male)
Dreamingofitall(switch female)
“Connection, friendship…the rest will follow.”
Worthless pig slut(masochist female)
“I'm ivy, very submissive and masochistic pig slave, love to suffer, humiliated and beaten daily, zero limits and enjoy being violated every way possible, always barefoot and barely wear anything in public.”
blackmanswhore
FirstTimeBottom(sub male)
“I’m am seeking to learn how to be a bottom. DM if interested.”
submalewantsDOM MAN{sub slave}
“Aroused only by Real Alpha Dominant Men w/ Twisted, Sick, Perverted Minds. Slappig It like Spitting On It is cool. Also cool is Degrading It (No Limits) Verbal, Mind Fucking. Dom Men NEVER ASK as They Take or Order. Head Down always +Thank You Sir For.......i am easy to make sub human or submissive”
Prnss(dom female)
“Foot worship 
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thecalling(switch male)
“A dom who wants someone to be there for their pleasure whenever they want or need”
NoSauce(switch male)
“I’m currently seeking an experienced member of the community who can help me find my footing.”
LostProperty
“Seeking a Dominant Lady with Sadistic interests.”
Yurlyght(dom female)
“Communication and trust are the foundations of our dynamic, and I prioritize your comfort while pushing your limits. Together, we will explore your fantasies and discover new heights of pleasure. Are you ready to surrender to the experience? Step into my world, and let me take the lead.”
smartandsweet(sub female)
“A dominant partner to share life and kinks/ fetishes. I can do strong and independent, but I don’t want to. Also, hands on is preferable to online”
theQueenB(dom female)
“Male dom for online relationship, and open to more if all goes well. Re-defining myself and I’m looking for someone to take me on that journey.”
Gentle Beast(switch male)
“I'm just your average guy looking to have a little fun, maybe a relationship of some sort.”
masterjayz(dom male)
“I’m seeking a partner who craves intensity and depth—someone ready to explore the edges of trust, vulnerability, and power with honesty and courage. I want a connection where communication is effortless, limits are respected without question, and surrender is met with unwavering care.”
LaosLovrr(sub trans man)
“A dom that can give me missions ;) I respond to everyone!! I’m serious, message me! <3”
SemperDominus(dom male)
Top of the morning(switch gender queer)
“I'm looking for local play partners who enjoy topping or bottoming for one of my existing kinks or new kinks that I want to try. For me a play partner is more of a friend than just a playmate. Also inactively looking for a long-term kinky poly life partner.”
Robine(sub male)
“Seeking dominant lady, to be her toy”
Blizzard Moth(dom male)
“I'm a dominant with a deep appreciation for masochists who truly feel their submission. Spankings, paddlings, floggings, biting, and bruises, especially on a well-marked ass, are things I take pride in dishing out. I'm not bound by a script, every dynamic is unique.”
TakethatDick(dom male)
“I'm coach you to Greatness”
BoredPanda(sub female)
“Looking to make friends and learn more about the lifestyle”
Rob A(dom male)
“Been away for a while.. looking for a new (remote) connection”
Mk0821(switch male)
“At the moment I'm especially interested in exploring my submissive side. Open to discuss other options as well.”
Carlitoh99
“I'm looking to be owned by a mistress”
Cuckii(sub male)
“Im a 39 sub slave i serve with passion it's my biggest turn on being a slave...
into older men”
Storyteller o(switch male)
“Looking for some potential friends, maybe some chat partners.”
PoeticOne(sub female)
“I’m interested in a dominant (male or female) who could also be a long term partner. Ideally available for both in person and online play. I am a sapiosexual, you must be able to engage my mind.”
Aussiefun(dom male)
“A cheeky girl who loves to obey… and doesn’t mind a little teasing while she’s at it.
Ready to play, learn, and have some fun under my lead.
Think you can keep up? Prove it.”
lakelocked
“Big beautiful natural titties 
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Aliraza(sub male){Slave}
“Anything related to bdsm and i want to be any girl slave and want to do physical meetup”
Master Alexander(dom male)
“Master available for a proper female Slave, long term relationship.
Can easily relocate inside the UK.
Men subs can contact, nothing sexual as i am Straight, can be your Leader.
Animals on my profile belong to friends of mine, i take only women pets.
Be fine to speak by voice like an adult.”
JCisco(dom male)
“I'm looking for a submissive woman that is std and drug free for fun times with a dominant man”
forcedbitexan
“Hi I am not knew to BDSM and have played with several dominatrixes, but I am interested in be submissive to another man. So that I am new to. I am into nipple torture, leather cuffs, strappado, nylons.
I in Austin Monday to Thursday nights.”
randybuttboy(sub male){Boy Toy}
“Masculine gay Tops beefy hairy big belly bears Daddies Leather Sadist CBT heavy nipple torture. Plugs. Big toys. Whipping.”
melwood
“I am seeking a live in 24/7 submissive female . Would like to use her as a open minded sub . Someone would would be willing to try anything at least once . Not into pain or scat urination or kids . Would love to turn you into a sex slave and introduce you to mmf gangbangs and all female fun .”
BlakeKinky(sub male)
“I am a submissive guy and want to have an online relationship that transforms into a real one. I don’t have a kink limit really as I’m kinky myself very very much.”
CuriousThursday(sub trans woman)
“Seeking a dominant female who is looking for a new sub / relationship, who is able to help me explore my fantasies while also training me to fulfill hers. Bonus points if you share similar interests to me.”
SacredSubmoon(sub female){ }
“I’m a woman of depth, softness, and strength.
My submission is not about giving up power It’s about offering it to someone who knows how to hold it with care, presence, and commitment.
If you come with reverence and emotional safety, that is exactly what I will return.”
RebelDad(other male)
“I’m looking for a little/middle with whom to explore kinks with. Preferably close to northern Delaware with the goal of a lifelong relationship/marriage.”
Lirdan Pharazon(dom male)
“I'm looking for a longterm monogamous relationship. I want find a partner to love, cherish, collar and own. Long distance is okay at first.”
Kagefrederick(sub male){twink Kage}
“I'm a 26 year old gay nudist twink faggot looking to be someone's naked house boy or sex toy want to have pictures and videos taken of me naked especially during sex and post them online wherever possible.”
mastergrisham(dom male)
“Everything starts with a chat. So, let's chat!”
LazLondon(sub male)
Little writer(sub female)
“Looking for a Daddy Dom who enjoys being strict but also loves cuddles”
calman
“I'm looking to submit for the first time.”
TheMissAngel(dom female)
“A loyal plaything. Online and In Person. A polished gentleman beneath me — and a desperate mess at my feet. Offering your body for discipline or indulgence
Someone who gets satisfaction from service, and arousal from obedience.”
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