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RoundRock(dom male)
“Experienced Dom who makes the best of every day. I am looking for a classy sub who has a sharp wit and loves to laugh. She loves to look good for her Dom, dressed to hit the town or in jeans with a touch of lace underneath. Sapiosexual. Intelligent conversations wanted”
Abs olutely(dom male)
“New to this site, checking things out. Feel free to interact, ask questions or share what you know about caged”
Dhead1990(sub male)
“A dominant female for long term partner, marriage minded FLR.”
Nancye(sub female)
KTTraveler(dom male)
underHisFeet(sub male)
glasub(sub male)
Lemming Boy(male)
“Seeking Dom male for sexy fun”
Sissymaidloser(sub male)
“It is my dream to serve as a women’s complete sissy maid”
Lewis sub(sub male)
“I’m seeking dominant, mean females.”
borntoservehim(sub female)
“Well behaved and still learning.... looking for my daddy...”
CptD(dom male)
“Looking for a new Sub to train and teach.”
Kendalla(sub female)
“I'm seeking a daddy that can turn me into the good girl I am & one that will show me exactly how to do exactly what it is that daddy needs me to do”
Lady Jay(switch female)
“Want a FEMALE SUB that would enjoy being dominated in a FFM experience w me and my guy in the KY/IN AREA. Message me if ud like to come play w us💋”
Your favourite Dom(dom female)
“I'm a soft Domme seeking a genuine, serious submissive male for a deep, trusting connection. I value honesty and commitment, aiming for a real relationship that grows beyond the distance, someone eager to meet in person and build a meaningful physical bond Let's create something authentic together.”
AeliaSerein(sub female)
Montmons(dom male)
“A sub-minded, service oriented woman seeking deep, intelligent and possibly confrontational conversations. Not easily offended by whatever is spoken from the heart even when it is sharp or dark-edged. It could be Ds, DDlg, Ms, or any other powerplay form. We will find what fits us best.”
Haileybadams(sub female)
“Me and my fiancé share a bdsm ddlg relationship. I am a submissive little and my fiancé is my daddy dom. We are currently looking for a dominant lesbian to be another caretaker for me”
Kaitsune(sub gender fluid)
mrtank(male)
“Daddy is looking for his good little girl. She loves praise and positive reinforcement but craves discipline and feeling her fleshy ass turned hot and red from punishment for gagging on daddy's manhood like an amateur.”
Giosaldana(sub male)
“I’m looking for a big strong man I can worship”
HimeHearts(sub female)
NotaRealDad(dom male)
JonJonJon(sub male)
“Young dom”
MasterDombear(dom male)
“Black master looking for a sub slave”
CaliWhore(sub female)
“I'm your new resident sex toy! I love; to be used as a sex slave, to be spanked, to have my hair pulled, be brought to the edge and back again, wearing bondage (collar, cuffs and especially a hood), sucking on cock”
Daantje(sub femme)
“Looking for a male or female dom to show me the ropes of bdsm, i have littel experience but would love to explore.”
KYjelly(male)
“A live in slave”
ehmahr(switch male)
“My partner (f24) and I are always seeking fun partners/couples. We like mmf, cuckold, bondage... so many possibilities”
Wadd(male)
“I want to get a bdsm connection with a dom women that slowly advance”
Jay Garrick(dom male)
“I'm into bondage, spanking, choking, role-play, cnc, public play, toys, race play, whipping and humiliation & degradation.”
bLeaDiNgHEarT(masochist female)
“Seeking connections, good vibes, interesting conversation, and ultimately a Dom/sadist partner. Yes the sadist part is a must. Looking for true connections first and foremost. From there, looking for adventures, experiences, and kinky fun sprinkled with some bruises, welts, begging, and moaning.”
Irving(sub male)
“Have a history of relationship with being a sub to a Dom Top. It really opened my eyes to how much I like to serve another man. Recently got into hypnosis and really like the idea of giving everything over to a man. I am an open book ask away.”
sissycarl(femme)
“Training and collared by a master or mistress”
ForeverLittle(sub gender queer)
“ABDL Kinkster seeking creative loving Dom/Daddy”
FlipSide1481(dom male)
Gxjdkxhdmxkjsjs(other female)
“Hello I am a plus size black sub, little, slave looking for irl long term dom/ daddy. If you do not like bigger women o black women please ignore otherwise all are welcome.”
Leenaa(sub female)
mikewrigley(sub male)
“Seeking reality. I want to seriously worship a superior man”
Beckleycouple(dom male)
“Couple seeking bi female or swinging couple”
KingsContrivance(dom male)
BeneathHerFeet(dom female)
“Seeking a competent Butler/Personal Attendant/Life Escort”
Cecilia Lancaster(sub female)
“Im a sub looking for new connections, and maybe a new Dom, I've been in the life about 6 years now and I have loved ever minute of it. I've been out of the life for about a year ready to start again and find me a good Dom to fill my needs.”
Oldgroovy(male)
“Seeking a lady friend in London UK, preferably North London for ease of travel.. i seek a Mistress to serve in any way she may desire.”
BellaPegasi(sub female)
“I only chat online. I am too nervous to meet in person and I think its better to say that straight out rather than be called a cock tease later.
I can be a brat, pet, a slave, a little. Submissive to the core.
Please don't expect me to leap straight into sexual scene play.”
Master KP(dom male)
“Looking for a sub, who together we can connect and form an online relationship to start. One who’s willing to submit and be obedient.”
visser(sub male)
Crusty(switch male)
“I am looking for a relationship and looking for someone who wants to help me with my journey”
ChocolateDom(dom male)
“Seeking new connections. FEMALES ONLY. A willing little sub who wants to be taught and has an eagerness for the endless possibilities.”
Nefariousmurdr(trans man)
“"I would rather hear your deepest thoughts, and watch the words tremble from your lips, nervously, as I gaze upon you, admiring your intelligence."”
SwitchF(switch female)
“Hi,I'm a switch looking for connection and communities, in the lifestyle..
I am mostly Dominant but I do like to switch it up, sometimes when I NEED to loss control. When
Life just seems to much to handle, I like to let go of all the bull shit. And, hand the control over it something I crave .”
Submissyy(sub female)
Readytobe(sub male)
“Seeking a Mistress to guide me and lead me to me.”
FeelMeBreakMe(sub male)
“Looking for a Mommy, Domme, or emotionally grounded Top.Someone who values obedience, affection, and connection over cruelty.
I offer softness, trust, and a deep craving to be held and owned.”
HellsSweetheart(masochist female)
DarkDemon(switch male)
“Seeking a goddess/mistress to take full control”
MikeTWOMichelle(sub gender fluid)
“I am looking to be a sub in a full time relationship, ideally with a woman or a trans woman open to men but you will have to work harder to make me your sub, not a paypig or into findom so don’t ask for money, feel free to ask anything, I am dyslexic so I prefer a call then endless messages 💜💜”
Kinky milf(sub female)
“Lewd and kinky friends, sexting buddies and online connections only.”
Dtbafallday(sub male)
“Seeking a Dominatrix Femdom switch , I'm a Dom Male that is also a femme crossdresser at times enjoying lingerie,stockings, and stiletto heels, I enjoy eating and fucking pussy as well as sucking cock and getting anally fucked and pegged , being a sissy cd cum slut and a Dom Male is who I am ?”
WestCoastDom(dom male)
“Looking for relationship with submissive women.”
Rooskie(sadist male)
sisi(switch female)
“Seeking meaningful conversation and connections. Im poly and open to whatever comes my way. I am not seeking hookups, one night stands or no strings attached.”
Eminence Front(dom male)
RookieHere(switch male)
“New to the Lifestyle, would like to sub but willing to learn to be a master”
The Boo(dom male)
“A relationship between a sub and her dom is something special, something that words can’t define, mutual respect, love and caring are always number one.
Seeking for a sub that’s welling to explore, and learn under an experienced guidance.
Up for a hell of a ride 😋”
Mohamedtah(sadist male)
“ترSeeking a Submissive Queen for a Powerful Dynamic
I’m a commanding, sadistic dominant on a mission to find a submissive woman who craves a thrilling, consensual power exchange. Let’s build an intense connection rooted in trust, respect, and shared desires.
to explore a world where boundaries are”
Airana(sub female)
“To learn”
LexiXO(sub female)
“I'm pretty new to the scene. I want to get out there and meet new people while I continue to learn and grow.”
Witch boy(switch male)
“Currently I'm into experiencing new stuff but mostly I'm not looking for a long-term ar anything serious, i just want to have some fun, i could think about being friends with benefits as long it's not a long term thing, people in my age are welcome but i prefer 30+ daddy's 🥴”
WhitneyBound(sub gender fluid)
“I am looking for people into bondage, especially into ropes!!! Located in Ohio”
czech(male)
“Hello, I seek a m/f dominant couple that is interested in owning a male slave. I am David. 23 yo.
I seek someone who would like to chat with me and get to know me well before I come to them.
I seek someone who do not mind videochatting with me soon and proving their identity.
I seek someone who d”
Roxxxxy(sub female)
“Slv seeking for a serious sadist Dom male. Thank you.”
TiedTiberius(switch male)
AvaLush(sub female)
Wimsical(sub female)
“Seeking a Dom to lean on a little.”
Bcaged(sub male)
“I’m seeking a dominant female partner. I would like to have the kind of relationship where I am locked in chastity and go to the gym. I think it would be a good motivation and it would be hot.”
Dark Desires(sadist male)
“Interested in online or irl dynamics”
SirRedWolf(dom male)
“I’m seeking a healthy, adventurous, attractive, mentally mature and submissive woman to explore shared desires, interests and fantasies. Local to Fort Lauderdale and ready to be in service in and out of my safe and secure play space. I will coach, mold and teach how to best submit as we grow!”
FeminizedHopefully(femme)
“A willing Female Domme who is willing to help a shy guy accept his place as a submissive”
Imready(sub male)
“I seek to submit/obey and serve
24/7”
mikesla(sub male)
“I am white, 29 years old and 6’4” with a football build. Completely submissive and bisexual. Let’s talk.”
LittleZelda(sub female)
“I'm looking for a true Dom/Master. Let me be clear, if you are looking for someone to temporarily masterbate to or send you dirty pics, please move on. If you are looking for someone to just have rough sex with, please move on. I'm not easy - PLEASE READ THAT A FEW TIMES!”
Purplestar(sub male)
“I am seeking a long term D/s relationship.”
SirGrant(dom male)
“Hi all, I am seeking a submissive who will obey me without question, I am very discreet, I respect all and am not here to degrade you just to have an unforgettable experience , I do expect respect and hygiene no exception. Let's see where this will go.”
Freckled fae(sub female)
“I’m not looking for casual. I’m looking for command. The kind of Dominant who can take my mind, body, and spirit—and hold them with precision, reverence, and fire. I crave intensity, psychological control, ritual, and ownership. This is sacred to me.”
FellOuttaTheSky(switch trans man)
“Looking for connections, whether that's friends or otherwise, BUT only online (at least for the foreseeable future)”
Emmasd(sub female)
“Looking for someone who will mess with my head before my body.”
stuartM(sub male)
“I found my partner on thecage.co. Both of us lost our usernames and PWs during the past year, sad to say.
But we are interested in events and munches, particularly in the NYC area, but also other East Coast. We also have interest in similar groups and events in Europe. Thank you.”
Danishguy(sub male)
“Im seeking a dominant top”
Subwhiteslave(sub male)
“69 yr old submissive white slave here, do all I am very obedient and need to serve a Master”
livingandlearning(sub male)
“I hope to develop a FLR with a very confident woman. She will know how to be in charge. She expects to lead, be served and obeyed. I am a healthy and athletic mature male, 65 years old. I am masculine. I am confident and competent. I am handy with tools. I am a good housekeeper too.”
Curiouskitt(sub male)
“I’m seeking someone to chat with that will ease me into life as a sub.”
SquirtleSquad(sub male)
“I’m not here for shallow or SKINNY connections.. I crave something deeper, BIGGER—a dynamic built on trust, respect, and an unspoken understanding of power. If you walk through life with quiet authority, if you enjoy being adored without having to ask for it, then we’ll get along just fine.”
The real Catboy(sub male)
“I'm a Sub boy who's looking for something serious 👀
I have a lot of kinks and fetishes, text me if you're curious 😌”
Jforher(sub male)
“I'm interested in a female
To honestly separate my thoughts and put into reality, dominate me”
MasterDarcy(dom male)
Lapa(dom male)
“Looking for attractive (average for some) submissive women 19 to 45. I like small chested and small ass women.”
Brooklyncouple(sub female)
“We are looking for Dominant Bull who can teach us step by step we don't need one night hook up”
ForSubJock(switch male)
“Hi. new here and wanting to explore. I'm looking for a submissive jock type. That will please me when when I want but will also let me do what want with him . Within limits of course. What I am searching in a sub is a guy who is Athletic, muscular, toned,. Prefer white guys. who is a top verstop”
Ironcowboy(switch male)
“I am a sub but have been a switch in the past, I am looking for a Domme close to home to serve and please, but would switch to dominant part time for the right person”
bracedGal(switch female)
SwitchRose(switch female)
“A dominant or submissive, who is available to meet in hotels for real life, or happy for an online agreement. I am overweight, so would appreciate you not contacting me if you are not into that. I’m more experienced in dominating than submitting. Feel free to contact.”
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