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Newest Members Seeking
Hogger(dom male)
meowy(male)
“Need a goddess to worship. According to bdsmtest.org i'm 83% sub, and 64% little. Must be gentle, caring and nurturing. US only please, due to health conditions that I have that need monitoring I can't relocate outside the USA.”
Ironcowboy(sub male)
“I am a sub but have been a switch in the past, I am looking for a Domme close to home to serve and please, but would switch to dominant part time for the right person”
talktome(dom female)
“Men who are or lean submissive. Start with conversation, before moving forward with anything (online first, in person only in very special circumstances).”
dommegoddessemma(dom female)
“obedient subs who know how to worship and serve a goddess”
SquirtleSquad(sub male)
“I’m not here for shallow or SKINNY connections.. I crave something deeper, BIGGER—a dynamic built on trust, respect, and an unspoken understanding of power. If you walk through life with quiet authority, if you enjoy being adored without having to ask for it, then we’ll get along just fine.”
The real Catboy(sub male)
“I'm a Sub boy who's looking for something serious 👀
I have a lot of kinks and fetishes, text me if you're curious 😌”
Jforher(sub male)
“I'm interested in a female
To honestly separate my thoughts and put into reality, dominate me”
MasterDarcy(dom male)
Lapa(dom male)
“Looking for attractive (average for some) submissive women 19 to 45. I like small chested and small ass women.”
Brooklyncouple(sub female)
“We are looking for Dominant Bull who can teach us step by step”
ForSubJock(switch male)
“Hi. new here and wanting to explore. I'm looking for a submissive jock type. That will please me when when I want but will also let me do what want with him . Within limits of course. What I am searching in a sub is a guy who is Athletic, muscular, toned,. Prefer white guys. who is a top verstop”
bracedGal(switch female)
SwitchRose(switch female)
“A dominant or submissive, who is available to meet in hotels for real life, or happy for an online agreement. I am overweight, so would appreciate you not contacting me if you are not into that. I’m more experienced in dominating than submitting. Feel free to contact.”
FlyteRhysk(sub female){No}
““Satisfy my soul””
Bk'(dom male)
“Seeking for a submissive to obey all my orders, and give love and pleasure”
QuietLittleOne(sub female)
“I’m looking for a gentle, kind-hearted female Dominant who enjoys emotional connection, soft care, and creating a safe, non-sexual D/s dynamic. I want to feel guided, protected, and cherished—someone who sees the value in gentle submission and slow, trusting closeness.”
verygoodgirl(sub female)
bunnyuwu(sub female)
“i wan a daddy!”
lildandelionlily(gender fluid)
“Seeking a Dom/Domme. Femme-presenting Genderfluid Person. Not seeking straight men. I'm not a woman. I am a Brat, Good Boy and a Pet. I am seeking friends and community as well. I am open poly and queer.”
shyboysubtoy(sub male)
“Looking for friends and compatible kinky individuals to learn from and get to know better”
kinkycoupledom(switch female)
“We are a couple He is 45 and I am 40 we are looking to ad a bisexual female to come play with us must be kinky and enjoy most bdsm activities we are clean and drama free”
YourBetterDom(dom male)
NW Ruckus(dom male)
“I seek a submissive female who is seeking a dominant man with 30 years experience in the lifestyle.”
Mighty k(dom male)
“Seeking submissive woman to own and have her worship me only”
Freakyme(sub female)
“I'm looking for a couple than wants to get down and dirty with me and my big Daddy!”
Mr Jo(dom male)
“I’m new (ish) to the whole bdsm relationships I have been dipping my toe in the past 2 years! I’m seeking a submissive to build a relationship and trust with”
Cheater(other female)
“Anything in filthy. Whore”
Ramboozzy(sub male)
“Needs to kept locked up and denied”
Robertcc(dom male)
“I’m seeking a female sex slave with few hard limits.she must be willing to relocate”
Bdafk(male)
“Seeking a younger sub female to explore kinks and fetishes”
juanbaadboy(masochist male)
“ARE YOU MORE EASY GOING AND LAID BACK OR
MORE STERN AND STRICT?
HAVE A DOG WHO IS 870 LBS AND HAS 938 TOYS AND HAS WALKED 2203 MILES. CAN YOU FIGURE THIS OUT?
I am also VERY COMPASSIONATE, and EMPATHETIC, GOOD, BAD, OR UGLY, THICK OR THIN, LIGHTNESS OR DARKNESS, IF YOU'VE HAD A BAD DAY My ARMS, CHE”
chainslut(sub male)
“Seek session, short or long term relation w dominant(s) who's/re easy with authority; hypersexual; open minded and experienced. I can be a companion; run and keep a household; am a world class bottom/submissive & receptive to conditioning and intuitively adaptive. 75% sex & social; 25% service.”
Servant Prince(male)
“Open-minded and respectful gentleman seeking connections with single women or couples (FF or FM) who share an interest in cuckolding and open exploration. I’m a switch who enjoys watching, pleasuring, and connecting on multiple levels, whether it’s through touch, intimacy, or shared experiences.”
Alexios(switch gender fluid)
Boston Boy(sub male)
“I'm still pretty new to the scene, but am curious and eager to learn. I identify as a heteroflexible, bottom/submissive-leaning switch, and I’m looking to serve a Goddess or Mistress. I’m excited to fully embrace this side of myself and learn from more experienced people.”
Lord GalVyN(dom male)
“I welcome you into a realm where the boundaries of the soul and body are explored with methodical intensity, where sadistic rigor intertwines with perverse nuances in a process as calculated as it is inevitable.”
Jaaaz(switch agender)
sissysasha(sub male)
“a long term trainer”
Gelsemium(sub female)
“Enjoy making friends and talking to people. Not currently seeking a relationship. Happily single and living my best damned life.”
HidekiKun(sub trans man)
“I'm looking for a male Dom for a LTR.”
Lonely Peruvian(sub female)
gdpatrick(sub male)
“I’m seeking a mature domme to lead me and teach me how to be a better sub, really just looking for in person interactions and too get to know more people and more about the community. If you’re interested just text me at 9194467066 I check it more often.”
Kinkluvnfun(dom male)
“I am seeking to train true sex slave. Sub must enjoy pleasing as a devoted insatiable slut.”
BastianPig(sub male)
“I am very confident my fuck hole can take a beating for hours all spun out. No one takes a chance and experiences it. I am kinky af, love making content.. outdoors, role play.. PORN! I am looking for a couple of loyal fwb alpha dom raw tops who are attached to my hole as I am attached to their cocks”
OWNEDSlutBunny(sub female)
“Owned, slave, little, brat, alpha-sub, exhibitionist/Voyager. Master/daddy and I are i’m looking to branch out and socialize, to be around people who respect and understand the BDSM lifestyle and collared relationships dynamics and have fun.”
Just JR(sub male)
“Having a touch of experience in this realm Indesire a deeper experience. I find this world to be a launchpad for personal growth and connection, a religious experience in a different and artistic way. I’m shy and submissive with my partner but have a core of dominance eager to release…”
Futurecuck(sub male)
bakamaster(dom male)
Mike Dominant(dom male)
“I'm looking for new connections, particularly submissive women reasonably close to Wolverhampton.
I'm also looking for masochistic women as I am sadistic and want to explore this side of me alot more.
I'd also like to make connections for improving my skills in some areas - for example knots .”
kazoo(masochist trans man)
“Hello,
I am an 18yo trans guy with no surgeries who is pretty much free use. I am fairly inexperienced, but like to be told what to do.”
Cuntyslave(sub female)
“A dog slave that is into hardcore humiliation will beg you to worship your feet,
Very into being degraded,watersports,maid,freeuse,cnc,collars and leashes,mmf and to serve a master on her knees in her true place or being a proper seat for him
Virtual for now
No ddlg”
Milo Minderbinder(switch male)
Blueeyesbwc(switch male)
“looking to make friends and try new things.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Switch
85% Submissive
83% Rigger
83% Degrader”
XoMariposa(sub female)
“Looking for a D/S relationship that can be vanilla as well
Only looking in Michigan so please don't message me if your from elsewhere.
Thank you!”
Eileen Steph(sub female)
“I’m seeking a dominant male or female to take full control of me and be there sexy little sex toy.”
PainGoddess(dom female)
“Online friends for now, maybe more if the connection is right.”
Dom Horseman(dom male)
“I am an older Dom who enjoys the physical connection, control and contact with a Submissive woman. Years of experience pleasuring my partners.
I have a room full of nice toys to bring you to a heightened point of pleasure as well as my hands, tongue 👅 and cock, I don't need a little blue pill.”
Domina Reigns(dom female)
“I am seeking to connect with an individual to develop a D/s dynamic online and IRL.”
ItsLou(other female)
“Female dom? … yeah let’s go with that”
SadieBug(sub female)
F English(dom male)
columbussubbitch(sub male)
“Chub Pig Seeking Raunch Sadist Owner/Master For Permanent Enslavement”
Gioz(switch male)
“I am a switch, I enjoy playing both roles, open to both kinds of relationships, Dom or sub, I am into sexual control.”
ZaraHNunya(dom male)
“Lookin 4 new friends that are chill and kind. I am a musician who would love to listen to music with others and perhaps sing a bit while chilling. I am a very friendly fellow. I try to live by the golden rule as best I can. I love making all people laugh..... and I LOVE making women cum.”
sexiiiiilexi(female)
“Male Dom, aged 25-38”
licked(sub female)
Lady Isis(dom female)
“Looking for a sub/slave in the Baltimore area who is dedicated to service.”
obedientoy(male)
“"Seeking a true Dominant—someone who craves absolute control without judgment. If you have deep, dark desires, unfiltered fantasies, and urges you’ve kept locked away, I am here to serve as your outlet.”
KSEE(dom male)
MrBonk(switch male)
“I am an athletic young male and am willing to be what ever you want me to be, I am trying/ willing for your enjoyment to get into better shape. I want to give someone attention and receive attention or what ever they desire. mold me to what ever”
Katjon(sub female)
“Submissive girl looking a full controlling dom yet has to be okay with me being a single mom and my busy work schedule. Im looking for a strict and firm dom that is caring and rewarding also”
RiptideX(dom male)
“I am looking for a Dom mentor. There isn't enough space here to explain the situation fully. My wife was a full-time sub before we met. I was to blind to understand and she gave it up to be with me. Now it's been 25 years and I'm interested in learning to try and give her what she's missing.”
KiNKProvidence(dom female)
“KiNK Providence is a public weekly fetish only (no nudity or sexual acts) night held on Wednesdays at Alchemy in Providence Rhode Island from 9:30 P.M. to 1 A.M.”
ChainedUpFawn(sub female)
“i am an enby woman, i strictly go by they/them, failure to respect my gender identity will result in a block.
im only seeking local stuff, i am only really interested in experimenting, not looking for a relationship right now.
i will not respond to profiles without pics, thank you!”
intenseoldman(dom male)
“Seeking a submissive who's adventurous in and out of the bedroom. I love nature, traveling, and being outdoors. Indoors, I know how to appreciate life's pleasures, especially if one of them is you ;)”
MrTotal(dom male)
“A Fun eager female partner”
Whiteboylover xxx(sub female)
“Looking for Bwc only”
kikikikiki(female)
“My last dom ghosted me I just need real connection and care for my needs and understanding of things I'm uncomfortable with”
BigDadLovesladies(dom male)
“FIRST OFF I AM IN THE TAM BAY AREA. ANY WOMAN WHO IS LOOKING TO FIND OUT IF BDSM OR A SUBMISSIVE LIFESTYLE IS SOMETHING YOU MIGHT LIKE. TBC..”
Bouncebacc(dom male)
“Horny female”
sourpatchprincess(sub female)
UnconditionallyYours(sub gender fluid)
““I am a devoted and service-oriented individual seeking a decisive and caring Owner. My dream is to live completely under my Owner’s control, follow their rules, and develop according to their desires. I am looking for a long-term, full-time dynamic where I can become housewife-type devoted partner.”
Doppler(switch male)
“It’s all up in the air just depends on the person and the connection. Let’s chat!”
Longshottt(dom male)
“Looking for a deep connection.”
mini uzi(sub gender fluid)
“female or fem-presenting individuals preferably dom leaning with preferably the same kinks, but friendship/cuddle buddies also welcome!”
bonnyread(switch male)
“QPEX member looking for fun”
SirDionysus(dom male)
“Seeking a kindred-spirit, an open-minded Masochist who is up for some experimentation and a deep sense of loyalty and eagerness to succeed and please”
SubPayne(sub female)
“Hi! I'm very new to this but am interested in the lifestyle. I am a masochist who likes to be controlled. I am hoping to learn more about myself and about the community”
Obey and Please(sub male)
“I am seeking an online Mistress to serve. I love to obey and please.”
CMKL(dom male)
“I am looking for a Submissive female to start my journey with. Advice on how to be a better Dom is also appreciated.”
begemot(dom male)
“Come, fill the Cup, and in the fire of Spring / Your Winter-garment of Repentance fling: / The Bird of Time has but a little way / To flutter — and the Bird is on the Wing.
Just your friendly neighborhood sadist. 6'3" I'm married and in an open relationship.”
XtremePigBoy(sub male)
“young 22 yo piggy boy into kinky and extreme kinks.
Love discussing talking and meeting new people. I love making friends in the BDSM world as well as sex partners!
Would love to join the exciting BDSM world and know everything about it
Major kinks : CNC, group play, piss play
Vaccinated boy”
Qinky(sub male)
“I want a man who will sexually abuse me”
Middleearthdom(dom male)
“I am a dedicated guide and mentor, passionate about helping women discover the transformative power of true submission. I believe that submission is an art—a journey of mutual growth, trust, and connection.”
SubbieNew(sub male)
“Help in learning the lifestyle and a Virtual Goddess or Master to help teach and train me.”
LucyRedShoes(sub female)
“Hi, I'm Lucy.
Sensualist submissive with vivacity
I would be excited to find a genuine guidance in a dynamic of intelligent sharing and enthusiastic exploration.
I want to build connection, revel in kink, have pleasing new experiences while keeping a smile on my dial.
Say hi, let's be friends.”
CuddleDom(dom male)
MasterSK(dom male)
“I’m seeking a sub or a babygirl or a masochist or a slave.”
Motorbox(dom male){Sterndaddy}
“I am a spanker that is too old for sex. I like to meet a woman that claims she needs a disciplinary spanking. I usually meet her for coffee or lunch and I bring a blank contract that she may fill out as to the exact punishment she is requesting. I follow the contract exactly as written.”
NyRicanDom(dom male)
“Seeking a female sub for relationship/dynamic”
Cathrine(neither female)
“I'm single and searching for a man who is kind,lovely and respectful”
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