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Newest Members Seeking
bedharak(dom male)
“As Salaamu Alaykum. I’m looking for a gentle Sunni Daddy Dom who loves breast milk. I am studious, searching for a study buddy, prayer partner, mind blowing sex as often as we make nawaafil salawaat. I want the best of both worlds I guess.. sigh. A balance between the Sunnah and kink.”
lilfarmboy(sub trans man)
“I'm newer to the BDSM scene so I'd love to meet someone who's comfortable with that. As a result of my inexperience, my intentions are to keep my BDSM connections purely online until I can get to know more about the scene and become more comfortable with kink. I'd love a male or female dom ;).”
Big Tony(sub male)
“Honestly, this is brand new territory to me. I know I want a woman or women to take charge of me. I want to explore new horizons of myself. I at one time wanted to a male stripper, not sure if I could.
But...I want to explore new territory with my relations with the fairer sex...”
Big Daddy Kane(dom male)
“You can find me in the chat room!”
spider walnut(sub gender fluid)
“While I am open to a variety of scenarios, Ideally I would like to find a relationship leading to a long-term FLR”
Chastity Slave Boi(sub male)
“A master with a monster cock to lock me in chastity long term and brainwash me with his cock, ideally a twink hehe”
SteelEmbrace(dom male)
“Slave submissive looking for new online connections, possibly moving to in person”
NewInexperiencedSUB(sub male)
“I'm an inexperienced sub that wants a dom to bring out my submissive side.Looking for a Dom that wants to put me in bondage, make me plug myself more and introduce to new kinks.”
Discipline69(dom male)
“I’m looking for a mature lady or a younger woman , married or not, who wants to explore her secret fantasy or/ and her darkest nature ….A newbie is welcome.”
gaghertight(dom male)
“Play partners, people to discuss our kinks, friends”
MelloGuy(sub male)
“I am seeking a dominant and dynamic that brings structure, clarity, and the opportunity to grow along side one another”
Foxys(sub female)
“A Dom to teach me and be willing to push me but also understand my limits as we go along”
Scottieb(sub male)
“I seek Dominant Woman who enjoy submissive men. I enjoy many BDSM activities especially Bondage”
SFred(masochist male)
“I'm seeking for an cruel sadist..someone who bring physical pain and puts me into subspace. Curious to my tolerances? Dm me!”
MasterEd121(dom male)
“I'm looking for a serious relationship completely immersed in the lifestyle.”
MaxiMilian Visser(dom male)
“iam a guy looking for a submissive girl”
Zooey(sub female)
“Hi everyone! I'm a lesbian, new to the scene but kinky at heart. If you're a girl/NB and feel like chatting, feel free to send me a message! Especially if you're a domme ;) 
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HiThereCatsuit(sub gender fluid)
“I identify as a damsel and prefer Femdom presenting people. I work in the kink and fetish industry as a podcaster and content creator. I welcome conversation from respectful and kind people and I will return with the same to you.”
Egremontguy(switch male)
“Looking for people to chat to and connect with hopefully somewhat close to the very north of England”
Finnmaster(dom male)
“I am seeking submissive female in an online relationship. I hope we can explore fethises together and build connection. Please contact only if you are willing to commit.”
oralpissboyslave(sub male)
“I want to be tortured, humiliated broken and emasculated.
I want to make amateur videos with somebody as a sub /toilet slave, facesitting, piss drinking, degrading scat, etc . I will film anytime, with no mask if desired. I could even do a series with a storyline of my training”
SubInPetticoats
Naked Sub(sub male)
“I am seeking a female dom/mistress”
a kinky sub(sub male)
Enzoxsub(sub male)
“I'm a beginner sub, 26 years old, looking for a mistress for remote sessions, or relationship if good feeling. I have a few toys that my mistress can use to play with me”
Frxncenn(dom femme)
“Seeking a sub female who loves bdsm and Dom fems”
frslave(masochist male)
“French Slave into TPE looking for a Master to serve him in a long term relationship.”
bunj(sub agender)
“i'm new at the community, so i guess i'm just seeking people to talk about this whole world and share knowledge!”
Submissive Sex Sub(sub male)
“Obedient, loyal sub slave seeking Alpha Male ownership/use. UK-based, available for real-time TPE/service.
Core kinks: throat fucking/deep use (love open-mouth gags/devices for unrestricted access), cock & foot worship, bondage/restraints, domestic chores (cleaning, Man servant butler duties)”
SapphireCeleste
“My Primal Primary.”
Notsoarabarab(kinky male)
“Hey people,
Im an athletic 29yo from jordan looking for a long term relationship with some flare , been into the lifestyle for a while now , i have very fee limits”
morjewell(sub female)
“I’m looking for the proper Dom. Someone to train and make me everything I was meant to be”
HoneyMoon
shortxkingx(sub male)
“I'm looking for a lifestyle dom into chastity cuckold and all forms of subkinnk I'm intelligent and have some unique qualities that would make me attractive to a flr into key holding etca”
switchybunny
“i’m am inexperienced switch sub lean who wants to be taken care of and have some one show me what it can be like to have some to show my the way. also looking for friends”
YvonneR
Ganjagun(switch male)
“Looking for a travel buddy x”
Maxex(switch male)
“I'm a switch (leaning to sub). I am looking for women (dommes or switches) for productive communication, exchange of experience and sexting. I can keep up a conversation on any topic.”
Bellexoxo(sub female){Ck profile}
“My goal for tonight is to see how many degrading messages I can get. My masters orders...”
Anonymousf(sub female)
“Dominant male”
NoEscapeBelle(sub femme)
weegie
“Hi, I am a healthy male Submissive mature safe sane emotionally stable financially secure seeking Dominant Woman seeking Direction Structure Guidance Discipline to become useful helpful supportive and to cooperate in there life successes. Please reach out so i can be helpful.”
DaddyBearSeven(dom male)
Shibharipractice(switch male){Nope}
“Something that’s missing”
BiVirginSubbie(sub female)
“For a Dom”
bitingrisk(sub butch)
“local connections in new england !!”
SilverPhantom(switch female)
“A dominant who will help me become the woman I was meant to be.”
MikeyZ(switch male)
“I'm currently looking for play partners to explore and help one another forget about life's worries and stresses for a bit 
or just some pleasant conversation. Kinky or otherwise. Bonus points if you're a bit nerdy”
or just some pleasant conversation. Kinky or otherwise. Bonus points if you're a bit nerdy”CanBiWifeTwo(dom female)
“Hello ... This is my new account ... can't get into my previous account (CanBiWife). Sorry. Please message me if we have previously been in contact. Glad to be back !
I am looking forward to chatting with Submissive Bi Women and Bi Men. I am also quite interested in chatting with T-Girls.”
BadIntentions(dom male)
“I want a proprietary relationship with the right woman. Right meaning BDSM isn't foreplay or just on my birthday. No, she needs to fill that void she never understood. She needs control discipline safet. I once had that. Now I don’t. We'll get there. It's a process and I know the way. More. Just ask”
dizzydezzysomething(kinky female)
“Beach Booze Sex Combine all three and you have a great day!”
Sirmasterdom(dom male)
“Who knows what can happen. Friendship, just a chat or something more. Say “Hi” if you like. We can go from there.
Please just be your true authentic self from the get go.”
VanityVixen(switch female)
“Authentic & mature connections”
Babygirlade(sub female)
“Submissive little seeking her daddy Dom. 35-45 age range please.”
Artemis moon(sub female)
“Looking for platonic friends”
OwnerNOTneeded(masochist female){off market}
“Looking for a responsible owner classy educated honest respect me as a person until I am actually wearing your collar one limit is financial dominance for your own gain and not for us both”
restraint406(sub male)
“Dominant, Aloha Males to serve and service. Older bearish guy here, few limits. TPE motivated. Love sucking dick for long sessions. 
BNWO curious”
BNWO curious”
Joniii(dom male)
“hello looking for fun”
Alpha Dom
“Experienced Dom seeking a submissive to build long term relation and be part of family”
AuroraInBed(sub female)
“An emotionally and intellectually intelligent Dominant man, who can be equally cruel and sadistic as he can be a good caring person. Mostly looking for online since I am married.”
SeaWatcher(dom male)
“Submissive for a long term, real world dynamic”
daveslavepgh(sub male)
“Dominant Female, any age, in W Penna region”
sirbrianofWA(dom male)
“Submissive female for real long term relationship”
grampas lusts(dom male)
“I need a submisive that adores older men .
i miss playing daddy would you like a sweet daddy”
Chevetro(dom male)
“Currently coming out of a 10 year relationship or separation. Currently just looking for some fun to enjoy with a mature individual that enjoys being little lewd and adventurous. PM me see if we vibe chat Dominant male when participating in roleplaying.”
EuphoricDreams(dom male)
Pabsman(sub male)
“Seeking a mistress that doesn't seek financial control and that would seek a vanilla type of relationship.”
AcquiredTaste
“Seeking a beautiful, deserving princess for a long-term monogamous FLR. Ideally we'd do plenty of ordinary things together (cooking, hiking, traveling, board games nights, running) and I'd appear to be your normal/whipped boyfriend in public, but be completely controlled by you behind closed doors”
NJ COCKSERVANT(sub male)
“I’m seeking a straight guy…just one…that’s all I need…to be his dedicated cocksucker…someone who needs his balls drained down to root…I like guys who are very verbal…one who will tell me what a faggot I am…act like he’s doing me a huge favor by letting me suck his dick which he is.”
Thepaidsexslave(sub male)
“I am looking for my first time sub venture,
I am young, energetic and fresh meat for either an experienced male or female
I have many fantasies of being controlled. Get in touch if you like the look of me”
Old Henryxx(switch male){Love it...}
“Even at my age, there is something so exciting, sensual, erotic and plain sexy to be told to strip to full nudity, then get on my knees and obey the commands...
Love to keep my shelf fully shaved and expect the same from others...”
Evenangelscry(dom male)
“New to BDSM world. Looking for a female submissive to get experience as a male dom. Glad to make new connections”
Adela Single Mom(switch female)
“I'm hoping to find one meaningful, long-term connection with someone special online. I'm a pretty straightforward person who believes the best things start with a solid foundation of trust and real chemistry. I'm all in on exploring every layer of who we are.
PS:im Bisexual, love dom girls, or trans”
SluttyVirginPup(sub female)
“Possible mentors or friends within the lifestyle”
loneliestgirl(masochist female)
“an interesting young gentleman for an online connection - xoxo”
mmarie(sub female)
hsnwt(sub male)
“Looking for key holder 
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”JaneDow(switch male)
“Looking for someone who I can care about.”
gimpbimbo(sub femme)
“Looking for my Owner :) also, I’m trans ”
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alexsf(dom male)
“Seeking an intelligent sub who craves total surrender to a firm, caring leader.”
Master Angel(dom male)
“Looking for Sub Males to Facetime/Call/Text to control: Just a Gay Soft Domme looking for a puppy that wants love, torture, and attention.”
Urfavsubbymarina(sub female)
“Just looking for like minded people”
BoneJay(sub male){ None }
“Seeking FLR I have been a SIMP since age eleven
Play partner
SEE Loyal1forher former profile for additional details
Obedient, docile "Pleaser"”
BeanSproutSoup(sub male)
“Casual online fwb femdom. Kink and friendship”
JazzyDee(kinky female)
“Not sure yet.. just looking around”
WulfLarsin(dom male)
“Not really sure what im lookong for anymore, but ill know it when i find it.”
Dalmassor(switch agender)
“Primarily a brat (also a sadomasochist switch who's bottom leaning, pet player, Little/middle), looking for a top leaning switch and/or dominant I'm whatever capacity that looks like.”
MasterJ{none}
AnotherMaleToy(sub male)
“Looking for a domme to talk with online who is caring but dominant.”
NOLABiBttm(sub male)
Crazy822(sub female){Owned}
“We are seeking other submissive females and passable Trans mtf”
Timswitch(switch male)
“Looking for submissives or Dommes (still exploring my submissive side). I've been a sexual Dom for over 15 years and would love to help introduce new subs to the dynamic since it would likely be online. Please no aggressive Dommes....”
Jennicat(sub female)
“Seeking Lifestyle Dominance
I'm an independent, capable woman seeking a dominant presence interested in structure, discipline, and refinement in daily life. If you value restraint, presence, and purposeful dominance, this may be worth exploring.”
UmbraDominus(dom male)
“Sapiophile seeks friends and fun chats.”
HisLilKitten
“Looking for friends”
puppy boi(sub trans man)
“Someone I can explore little space, pup play, or impact play with.”
parebo(dom male)
“I'm looking to meet a polyamorous (or accepting of my poly situation), emotionally intelligent submissive, with a view to forming an ongoing D/s power exchange dynamic. I'm a believer in moving gradually, no jumping in with orders and honorifics.”
LupoDominante(dom male)
“Cerco una nuova slave anche con zero esperienza, mi piace molto guidare educare alla sottomissione. Cerco un rapporto vero profondo intenso, un'intesa con una donna intelligente, un rapporto prima mentale e poi fisico da costruire assieme passo passo”
phtheman(dom male){Dom}
“Seeking connections and discussions involving BDSM. May be willing to aid someone in learning more about themselves and figuring out what they are looking for. Most times we don’t know what we need until we are shown. Discovery is the best part.”
Princess Penguin(sub female)
“I am looking for (Age 30+) doms to speak to and see where it goes. Not sure what I am wanting currently but willing to be an open book. (Online only)”
switch joey(switch male)
“Looking to exploring the sub side of me”
The master of slaves(dom male)
“Looking for :
Slave/sub/masochist who wiling to meet on person or talking in messages and doing everything we agreed on doing on messages
even if you are new to sub and looking for a mentor or dom to teach you Or searching for long/short relationship including master/slave
Or you already have an exp”
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