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EmmaFrost(sub female){Looking}

“Seeking a true dynamic with a Dominant with experience, and who can and will accept my unique situation in my submission journey..”

MuddyRunner(dom male)

“Seeking a connection that will lead to a 24/7 TPE long term dynamic. I am a SSC Master with both a sadistic and Daddy Dom side. I do use high/low protocols, rules and discipline.”

LonestarLover(dom male){None}

“Looking for a D/s relationship I am a Dominant male looking for a submissive. I am not a hard dom but will be if necessary. I live in Texas but not afraid to relocate.”

mastbrian(dom male)

“Are you in the Los Angeles area? I am seeking those females and young males that might need the mentorship of training to further their slave needs to learn their role in an independent arrangement, but progressively.”

Lupocabo(sadist male)

“Any sub female who wants to look deep and long in the abyss of my twisted mind, lets talk and role play and see if the pole fits in the hole. Tell me your deepest darkest fantasy, a stranger on the internet and i tell you mine.”

Sharkbear(dom male)

Just a broken toy(masochist male)

Eatoutallday(other male)

PhoenixDom(dom male)

utahbootslave247

“Gay male Owner, Master, 24/7/365 , TPE . A man to own me for life. A owner that want to have a slave with NO way out.”

lovelylizzy

“I’m looking for an older,experienced,dom/master to train me on a regular basis”

Mommyyy(dom female)

“I am seeking a Submissive who desires to melt in a flames of unbridled pleasure, she must be confident in her role and be self sufficient. I travel a lot so and will not always be reachable.”

subbslavee

“Looking for Dominant Female lead relationship.”

Sub j vegas(sub male)

lilslendy(sub male)

“Looking for a TPE dom/sub pet/owner relationship.”

Jabber(sub female)

“~ Other Sub females to chat with”

elleundecided(sub female)

“Connection, friendship, community.”

Rider On The Rain(dom male)

“I seek a woman who wants to submit and discover her inner slave girl.”

Sweet Mayhem(sub female)

“Emotionally intelligent Daddy”

Solace(dom male)

“Dipping my toes back into the water to see where the ripples travel. Say hello some time, I don't bite before its polite.”

Bimbogirll(sub female)

“transformation.”

Steve4Sir(sub male)

“I'm looking for a dominant verbal controlling master who would train me to please and discipline me for not”

Lad for dad(sub male)

“Im seeking a professional type mature gentleman to be my first male partner. Ideally,it would be a dream come true to find a man i can live with and rent a room from,being his personal domestic servant as well as his sexual servant. Me doing all the house chores,yardwork,and running his errands”

Blondefitsub(sub male)

“this sub is seeking a Dominant Woman for an FLR. A beautiful and superior Mistress to serve and worship.”

Silla(masochist female)

“A slave, seat and pony for a Queen when she requires comfort, a hand to assist, or a seat to rest upon. Whether I am holding her feet, waiting at her side, or silently watching over her, my purpose is to be there when she calls, without hesitation or doubt.”

pike(sub male)

“I hope to find a dominant lady who values true and loyal service. Someone who appreciates that being in a FLR is a natural order of things. This dynamic will be based on my core belief that TPE is not only acceptable, but necessary for the relationship to move ever forward .”

JazzDom(dom male)

“Hi I am Jazzdominant. I am seeking an attractive submissive woman for connection and possibly a d/s relationship. I am planning a trip to Rome.”

KEVTheBlackMan

“A single white female, that is interesting in exploring her submissive side. Eventually a long term relationship so I can be her rock.”

cherry rae(sub female)

“friends!”

Asortiz(sub female)

Mima(masochist gender fluid)

“Looking for a sadistic woman or man to come treat me horribly right <3”

goodgirlbia

“Online DD to my LG”

MagicBullet606(switch male)

“Looking for another kinky switch female for something long-term with a side mix of kink and vanilla and some BBQ mixed in!”

PrinceNav(dom male)

“Subs who are into ddlg and M/s dynamics”

FieryAJ(dom male)

“Friends”

Lollipop tits(dom female)

“Generally I'm seeking to cultivate interactions into relationships. Would you like to be one of my toys? Message me, tell me about yourself and the things that you like. It's all very interesting. I look forward to hearing from you. Don't leave your mistress waiting...”

newbieslaveforyou

“Looking to be controlled. I enjoy the aspect of being degraded and objectified. Online only”

lilmissdabz(sub female)

“Something fun and lets me get the discipline or praise you feel I deserve

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Brattypupgirl(sub female)

“Bratty sub looking for fun online training. Right now I'm super into hypnosis tracks, bimbofication, Whore play, anal training and puppy play! I'm open to a lot but need direction and clear communication. Pushing for pics or videos can make me uncomfortable, I'll share when ready. 'Hi' DMs ignored.”

subbylovey(sub female)

“I am seeking a LOVING Dominant Heterosexual Monogomous MAN. Preferably in my area which is in North Carolina. I don't do smokers or drug users. I would prefer a man that is an empty nester and doesn't have minor children living at his house. I feel that I have a lot to give and Hope that he does as”

SeekingExtensiveMods(sub male)

“Submissive seeking unique extremes. I’m hoping to be a fully live in domestic, 1950s level home and house management with an extreme twist. I want to be unrecognizably modified. Extreme stretched facial piercings, tattoos, etc! DM me to discuss how we’ll deform me!”

KewlOldDom(dom male)

“I'm open to different dynamics, though presently looking primarily for an intensely submissive woman who finds fulfillment through service, surrendering all decisions about her life and sex, and takes comfort in being owned. Domesticity and TPE.”

Babygirl Lyss(sub female)

“New to BDSM. Interested in a lot of things. Looking to learn and experience

Sapphic Doms Only”

PleaseU(switch male)

“Young Switch, new into BDSM”

Sir Andrew(dom male)

“Looking for a 24/7 online slave, must be a petite female who's truly interested in living as someone else's property. I am a hard dom who will treat u like nothing more then an inferior sex object. Main kinks: Bdsm, Degrading, Humiliation, Objectification, Sadism. Slavery, TPE.”

Taddtheboi(sub male)

“DMs are open! Let’s see where things go~”

Domokie(dom male)

“I'm seeking a slave preferred tho I'm open to a sub. I prefer you to be a masochist as I am a sadist tho I'm open to ones who can handle that side. I'm looking preferably for some one in Arkansas tho I'm open to online and long distance.”

Goat(dom male)

“A life long submissive partner. Honesty, loyalty, and obedience are what I value highly. Patience, good communication and trust are a must.”

CosmicNova(sub male){Please!}

“Looking for a mistress or dom”

The Architect(dom male)

straysub(sub trans man)

“I’m seeking a D/s relationship. Tpe/live in sub/kinky/ intimacy”

PawnGambit(sub male)

“Seeking a Dom more on the softer side. Not into humiliation or public abuse. I’m 27 5’10 195lbs thicker but mostly muscle. Looking for an online situation until I’m comfortable enough to meet. Currently not very experienced in terms of subbing for men. I’m more straight than I am curious.”

INXSFan(sub male)

“Looking to serve and please a Mistress. I'm quite a funny bloke but will shut up when told (!)”

Goddess Lexi(dom female)

“I am a dominant woman, that likes to be in control!! I'm looking for someone to build a connection and will be ready to obey my commands!! Such as JOl and edge-instructions!! I am mostly looking for a fit obedient boy! I don't take tributes so don't ask me about it !!! I don't need your money hahah”

subtoyou{Yes}

“I am looking for a long term, female dominated relationship. I am a single man with deep seated thoughts of a loving, kind and passionate relationship that will be exciting and new. It is of this for which i was born to serve those who love. I'm willing and able to relocate.”

polishprince

“Seeking Dom Male to serve near New London, Groton Ct! Collare me, strip me, tie me and use as you wish.”

preyforPredator(sub male){Collar, Le}

Hasan(dom male)

“Hi, 30 years old, 176cm, 70kg, fit dominant man looking for a fully submissive woman. Age doesn't matter but should be beautiful and fully obey my orders in any aspect of your life. Distance doesn't matter, we can start as online relationship, but prefer someone from Europe because I am living near.”

Evvaa(sub female)

“I am seeking either a femme fatale type, a woman who looks like she runs the boardroom business feminine or a muscle mommy, butch, strong, powerful and dominant. Looks like they could rip you apart with their bare hands.”

Talu(masochist female)

“Masochist|Pain Slut|Slave|Toy||Lesbian I’m not Yours, come with respect”

BigG(dom male)

“A Woman I can have a great time with”

Masoncc(sub gender fluid)

Mushroom(sub gender fluid)

SkullsnMel(switch female)

unholygoddess(sub female){Yes}

“A bisexual/curious woman who would be open to joining my current dynamic”

Skulls Mel(switch male)

adomsoul(dom male)

“Fun and exploration”

MNInkedGirl(sub female)

“I’m seeking the one! Not a couple, Not someone who is married looking for discrete anything. Not looking to connect with anyone outside the US, as it is not realistic. I’m looking for a like minded Dominant man who is looking to connect online/chat/call/text and see where it goes.”

Sissy Whore Alexa(sub femme){Seeking }

“Femdom Mistress Goddess Wanted. Keyholder, sadistic, strict, serious.”

Nyxaery(sub female)

“A soft dom. Relationship. Connection over sex. Preferably irl. No large age gaps (over 15 years).”

Mrmory(masochist male)

“I need a dominant who can train me to be her/his slave and be caring also i haven't tried this before”

StonelyLoner(switch female)

“I am quickly learning that the only thing that is real in this world is energy. It can be manipulated, but trusting self will never lead you to destruction. Imagine leaving your entire experience up to the energy manipulation of an ill-intended human being. LOL too much? *shrug* Das Me...”

Neverland Lost girl(masochist female)

“Right now I feel like a Sado dom with a little sprinkle of daddy is what I’m looking for. However, I know I want to explore more, I want to immerse my self in all things kink and really figure out me”

krs(sub female)

subbbn(sub male)

“male slave with few limits available for online and in person domination.”

Tom3636(dom male)

your welcome(dom male)

“I deserve the best and will not settle for anything less. Are you up for the challenge?”

ComplianceIsFutile(switch male){Not collar}

“Open to deliberate, aesthetically aware, and structurally sound connections. If you value logic, risk transparency, and emotional architecture — we’ll probably align. No hidden clauses. Some poetry preferred.”

tpeloveloyalty

“Love, Trust. Someone I can trust fully and whom I can be there for. Someone to have fun with, to explore with sexually or not, either together or if that doesn't work for you together with others. The key point being someone I know I can depend on and whom can depend on me in return.”

Maeday gmc(sub female)

“Also people who only wanna talk about sexual stuff within the first few few minutes of meeting are going to be blocked. I want something more thI’m looking for friends and a long-term relationship. I am completely monogamous and that is a must. Please no one over the age of 30. That’s also a must.”

Rennn(dom male)

“I am seeking an ongoing text based dynamic with a submissive girl. I want to claim and mold you myself. Own you and make you earn your praise by following my orders. I'll come up with a unique set of rules for you to live by and creative tasks for you to complete. Let's begin...”

ltr life slave(sub male)

“I am seeking real slave service tpe real in person full slavery to a high level”

Lance1969(dom male){Master}

“If I may be so bold to ask of a lady to help me with a few things and be my assistant as I am looking for a new career and need you to help me! We may work together to a common goal, as I am an open heart. Just me, Jason”

GagFan(sub male)

“Long term relationship, Dominant/submissive, play partner.”

MistressMeg(dom female)

“Seeking submissive to dominate looking for someone who repects their mistress and yearns to please punishment for disobeying is mandatory I will own you and enjoy humiliating you I am absolutely not into age play animals scat or mutilation do I make myself clear? now be a good boy and serve me”

HopesWings(sub female)

Farmer(switch male)

“Somoene in san diego to visit my ranch or serve wome. At their location”

Swano(sub male)

“Sub! Hurt me. Command me. Make me a pile of mental mush!”

SklaveNils(sub male)

“Devoter Mann (26) sucht ein dominantes Paar, das Führung lebt und sich einen loyalen, lernbereiten Sub wünscht. Ich bin offen für Rituale, klare Regeln und eine ehrliche, ernsthafte D/s-Dynamik. Kein Spiel – echte Hingabe.”

Lonig(sub femme)

“I seek a dominant female to serve and feminize me to her fullest amusement and pleasure!”

Master JimT(dom male)

LawrenceEl(dom male)

“Centrally Isolated so yes, seeking new connections.”

Dominum(dom male)

“I am looking for a needy sub who wants a long term relationship that involves her whole brain”

Lord Destu(dom male)

“Im looking for my sub. USA east coast but if you don't mind relocating we can work something out. Looking for 24/7 situation.”

TllObedience(sub male)

“Im new to this but im wanting to explore my submissive side. Ive realized recently that i like to be told what to do and am easy and obedient(as the name says ;) ) Not looking for anything too crazy tho, again im new to this so easy does it lol. Im also pretty shy and socially awkward. STRAIGHT”

CockSlaveForGangBang

“Just joined. Im into a lot/ most interests and kinks, and willing to try almost all/any others. I'm not really good with making decisions or taking action so I really enjoy being grabbed, told what to do/pushed around, and controlled.”

SalvoSub

“Great complicity..with people to "serve"”

JustDarkness(sub female)

SirLM

“Open minded sub/slave, males/females Females; (18 - 50's) Males; (18 - 30's)”

Zatan(sub male)

“looking to find a dom or domme that i can serve”

SydVicious(sub female)

“Always open to New experiences. I genuinely enjoy and desire more out of BDSM Kink/Fetish Friendly Lifestyle. My experiences in a D/s dynamic were some of the most fullfilling times in many ways. I've dedicated significant amt. of time reading/learning & writing to 1 day be FT submissive.”

ShesBrian(sub trans man)

“I’m looking for a Dom who leads with care and strength. I’m a soft submissive who craves emotional control, devotion, and being guided. I need connection that feels real and surrender that feels safe. I offer loyalty, obedience, and affection to someone who knows how to claim them.”

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