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Newest Members Seeking
OWNEDSlutBunny(sub female)
“Owned, slave, little, brat, alpha-sub, exhibitionist/Voyager. Master/daddy and I are i’m looking to branch out and socialize, to be around people who respect and understand the BDSM lifestyle and collared relationships dynamics and have fun.”
Futurecuck(sub male)
bakamaster(dom male)
Kinkluvnfun(dom male)
“I'm seeking ltr with true sub slut”
BastianPig(sub male)
“I am very confident my fuck hole can take a beating for hours all spun out. No one takes a chance and experiences it. I am kinky af, love making content.. outdoors, role play.. PORN! I am looking for a couple of loyal fwb alpha dom raw tops who are attached to my hole as I am attached to their cocks”
bloodytears(other female)
“I enjoy movies, music, art, photography, video games, and literature. A geek, I love horror, science fiction, fantasy, and suspense. I'm introverted, but I'm always talking once I gain confidence. I have a partner, and we're both interested in femdom. We're new to the world of kink.”
Just JR(sub male)
“Having a touch of experience in this realm Indesire a deeper experience. I find this world to be a launchpad for personal growth and connection, a religious experience in a different and artistic way. I’m shy and submissive with my partner but have a core of dominance eager to release…”
Mike Dominant(dom male)
“I'm looking for new connections, particularly submissive women reasonably close to Wolverhampton.
I'm also looking for masochistic women as I am sadistic and want to explore this side of me alot more.
I'd also like to make connections for improving my skills in some areas - for example knots .”
kazoo(masochist trans man)
“Hello,
I am an 18yo trans guy with no surgeries who is pretty much free use. I am fairly inexperienced, but like to be told what to do.”
Cuntyslave(sub female)
“A dog slave that is into hardcore humiliation will beg you to worship your feet,
Very into being degraded,watersports,maid,freeuse,cnc,collars and leashes,mmf and to serve a master on her knees in her true place or being a proper seat for him
Virtual for now
No ddlg”
Milo Minderbinder(switch male)
Blueeyesbwc(switch male)
“looking to make friends and try new things.
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XoMariposa(sub female)
“Looking for a D/S relationship that can be vanilla as well
Only looking in Michigan so please don't message me if your from elsewhere.
Thank you!”
Eileen Steph(sub female)
“I’m seeking a dominant male or female to take full control of me and be there sexy little sex toy.”
PainGoddess(dom female)
“Online friends for now, maybe more if the connection is right.”
Dom Horseman(dom male)
“I am an older Dom who enjoys the physical connection, control and contact with a Submissive woman. Years of experience pleasuring my partners.
I have a room full of nice toys to bring you to a heightened point of pleasure as well as my hands, tongue 👅 and cock, I don't need a little blue pill.”
Citten(sub female)
“A masked mystery to toy with me as much as possible.”
Domina Reigns(dom female)
“I am seeking to connect with an individual to develop a D/s dynamic online and IRL.”
ItsLou(other female)
“Female dom? … yeah let’s go with that”
SadieBug(sub female)
F English(dom male)
columbussubbitch(sub male)
“Chub Pig Seeking Raunch Sadist Owner/Master For Permanent Enslavement”
Gioz(switch male)
“I am a switch, I enjoy playing both roles, open to both kinds of relationships, Dom or sub, I am into sexual control.”
ZaraHNunya(dom male)
“Lookin 4 new friends that are chill and kind. I am a musician who would love to listen to music with others and perhaps sing a bit while chilling. I am a very friendly fellow. I try to live by the golden rule as best I can. I love making all people laugh..... and I LOVE making women cum.”
sexiiiiilexi(female)
“Male Dom, aged 25-38”
licked(sub female)
Lady Isis(dom female)
“Looking for a sub/slave in the Baltimore area who is dedicated to service.”
obedientoy(male)
“"Seeking a true Dominant—someone who craves absolute control without judgment. If you have deep, dark desires, unfiltered fantasies, and urges you’ve kept locked away, I am here to serve as your outlet.”
KSEE(dom male)
MrBonk(switch male)
“I am an athletic young male and am willing to be what ever you want me to be, I am trying/ willing for your enjoyment to get into better shape. I want to give someone attention and receive attention or what ever they desire. mold me to what ever”
Katjon(sub female)
“Submissive girl looking a full controlling dom yet has to be okay with me being a single mom and my busy work schedule. Im looking for a strict and firm dom that is caring and rewarding also”
RiptideX(dom male)
“I am looking for a Dom mentor. There isn't enough space here to explain the situation fully. My wife was a full-time sub before we met. I was to blind to understand and she gave it up to be with me. Now it's been 25 years and I'm interested in learning to try and give her what she's missing.”
KiNKProvidence(dom female)
“KiNK Providence is a public weekly fetish only (no nudity or sexual acts) night held on Wednesdays at Alchemy in Providence Rhode Island from 9:30 P.M. to 1 A.M.”
ChainedUpFawn(sub female)
“i am an enby woman, i strictly go by they/them, failure to respect my gender identity will result in a block.
im only seeking local stuff, i am only really interested in experimenting, not looking for a relationship right now.
i will not respond to profiles without pics, thank you!”
intenseoldman(dom male)
“I'm seeking a submissive who wants to travel with me.”
MrTotal(dom male)
“A Fun eager female partner”
Whiteboylover xxx(sub female)
“Looking for Bwc only”
kikikikiki(female)
“My last dom ghosted me I just need real connection and care for my needs and understanding of things I'm uncomfortable with”
BigDadLovesladies(dom male)
“FIRST OFF I AM IN THE TAM BAY AREA. ANY WOMAN WHO IS LOOKING TO FIND OUT IF BDSM OR A SUBMISSIVE LIFESTYLE IS SOMETHING YOU MIGHT LIKE. TBC..”
Bouncebacc(dom male)
“Horny female”
sourpatchprincess(sub female)
UnconditionallyYours(sub gender fluid)
““I am a devoted and service-oriented individual seeking a decisive and caring Owner. My dream is to live completely under my Owner’s control, follow their rules, and develop according to their desires. I am looking for a long-term, full-time dynamic where I can become housewife-type devoted partner.”
Doppler(switch male)
“It’s all up in the air just depends on the person and the connection. Let’s chat!”
Longshottt(dom male)
“Looking for a deep connection.”
mini uzi(sub gender fluid)
“female or fem-presenting individuals preferably dom leaning with preferably the same kinks, but friendship/cuddle buddies also welcome!”
bonnyread(switch male)
“QPEX member looking for fun”
SirDionysus(dom male)
“Seeking a kindred-spirit, an open-minded Masochist who is up for some experimentation and a deep sense of loyalty and eagerness to succeed and please”
SubPayne(sub female)
“Hi! I'm very new to this but am interested in the lifestyle. I am a masochist who likes to be controlled. I am hoping to learn more about myself and about the community”
Obey and Please(sub male)
“I am seeking an online Mistress to serve. I love to obey and please.”
CMKL(dom male)
“I am looking for a Submissive female to start my journey with. Advice on how to be a better Dom is also appreciated.”
begemot(dom male)
“Come, fill the Cup, and in the fire of Spring / Your Winter-garment of Repentance fling: / The Bird of Time has but a little way / To flutter — and the Bird is on the Wing.
Just your friendly neighborhood sadist. 6'3" I'm married and in an open relationship.”
XtremePigBoy(sub male)
“young 22 yo piggy boy into kinky and extreme kinks.
Love discussing talking and meeting new people. I love making friends in the BDSM world as well as sex partners!
Would love to join the exciting BDSM world and know everything about it
Major kinks : CNC, group play, piss play
Vaccinated boy”
Qinky(sub male)
“I want a man who will sexually abuse me”
Middleearthdom(dom male)
“I am a dedicated guide and mentor, passionate about helping women discover the transformative power of true submission. I believe that submission is an art—a journey of mutual growth, trust, and connection.”
SubbieNew(sub male)
“Help in learning the lifestyle and a Virtual Goddess or Master to help teach and train me.”
LucyRedShoes(sub female)
“Hi, I'm Lucy.
Sensualist submissive with vivacity
I would be excited to find a genuine guidance in a dynamic of intelligent sharing and enthusiastic exploration.
I want to build connection, revel in kink, have pleasing new experiences while keeping a smile on my dial.
Say hi, let's be friends.”
CuddleDom(dom male)
MasterSK(dom male)
“I’m seeking a sub or a babygirl or a masochist or a slave.”
Motorbox(dom male){Sterndaddy}
“I am a spanker that is too old for sex. I like to meet a woman that claims she needs a disciplinary spanking. I usually meet her for coffee or lunch and I bring a blank contract that she may fill out as to the exact punishment she is requesting. I follow the contract exactly as written.”
NyRicanDom(dom male)
“Seeking a female sub for relationship/dynamic”
Cathrine(neither female)
“I'm single and searching for a man who is kind,lovely and respectful”
blackveildoll(sub female)
mindlessCuck(sub male)
“Seeking a dominant female to train my little pea brain to worship and obey her divinity. I get off on being used and abused by an alpha female. I’m a proud beta bitch boy who’s job is to stay relevant to my owner.”
SubSparky(sub male)
“Looking for an online Dom to awaken the sub I've always wanted to be.”
Blacksage(male)
“Ill know when I find it.”
Unknownalient(dom male)
“I’m looking for a long term free use submissive straight guy. Who’s obedient, loyal, and monogamous. Is open to try new things. Move in together irl. So that he can serve me both irl and online. Make me his top priority no matter what. (Ages 18-27).”
SexyCurvySub(sub female)
“A Dom whose willing to be a friend first, and always…”
Dominant b(dom male)
“Don seeking sub, beneficial for both and ready to push limits of satisfaction”
CalliRose(sub female)
Babyminx(switch female)
“I'm looking for a fem presenting person to play with and sometimes my boyfriend. I'd prefer someone who's a switch or sub because I already have 2 people who lean towards dom.”
FunGoodBadBoy(switch male){None at th}
“Prefer in person to Zoom, subbing to Doming, fish to steak, theater to movies, beach to forest, open play partners to Pros, TS to men, Sapio to stupid, Bernie to Donald, pop to oldies, great-less to more-mediocre. If you think you deserve the best..we deserve each other. I live in LA. You?”
YourGermanLady(sub female)
“Business woman seeking dominant affair in South Germany”
TheDollCollector(dom male)
“slave or sub”
Harmony Kitten(sub female)
“Friends or master”
BindMeBonnie(switch female)
phtm(switch male)
“Relatively inexperienced with BDSM, looking to explore my sub side but also open to dom experiences with the right person”
MrMeToo(dom male)
“Seeking female sub. New to power dynamics, looking for partners”
Mattyhd(dom male)
“Seeking naughty filthy women that can handle a big gurthy cock and rock my world”
shebakesalot(sub female)
“I'm a creative, nerdy, and playful Baby Girl looking for her Daddy Dom who is equally driven in life and looking to build a D/s dynamic in a loving, long-term and monogamous relationship. Bonus points for a love of puns :)”
Walker D(dom male)
“Looking for a sub girl close to my age(30) to start online and later hopefully become irl once trust is built. Likes tease and denial, and willing to be a good girl for me.”
Goreman(dom male)
“Kinky female sub that enjoys Primal Rough fun. Is open minded and very kinky”
HotCuckold(sub male)
“Dominant Female who is looking to push my limits in satisfying your darkest desires”
Hogan(sub male)
“Hello!
I am a friendly single gent looking for a Femdom to keep happy.”
violet eve(sub female)
“Looking to learn more about BDSM and myself. Single and identify as sexual submissive. No interest in 24/7 or Master/slave. If curvy girls aren’t your thing, move on.”
Jasonkw(male)
Lysmarie(sub female)
JennaBx(sub female)
“31F sub. Just looking around for now.”
BlueDestiny(dom male)
“Maturity in all it’s forms.”
Raha(female)
JuicyMocha(dom female)
“Ebony couple seeking big booty trans woman with oral fixation :-) let’s have fun”
ChaebomBae(female)
“Female Submissive, Seeking Dom Male 💋”
CDawson(dom male)
“I'm searching for someone who shares a general interest in the kinks I have. My checklist is filled out and I'm will to try new things. I'm 100% a Dom looking for a female sub willing to explore sexual fantasies together. I'm new to this site but not new to these kinks. In person, online, or both.”
ivyz(female)
“Would be amazing to find local. With wild chemistry and good humor.”
blueoxidex(sub male)
“Submissive male bottom seeking Domme”
HoneyBeeSub(sub female)
Ready to go(sub male)
“Beginner and very interested in meeting with femdom women”
Twitch m(sub male)
“Looking for a dominant female to send video tasks. I have a string fetish for pretty sexy feet in nylons and heels. Would like to explore sph and serve a smart dominant female.”
Slave9383(sub male)
Subslavedalton(sub male)
“A dom male or female”
Leathermasterforsub(dom male)
“Am looking to explore and okay with so one who is inexperience or slightly experience and will not feel awkward to try something new.”
Srbearcat(male)
“Been away for a few years. Looking for a dynamic submissive for LTR.”
Seeks FLR(sub male)
“It is my hope to enter into an FLR”
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