The tale of Phyllis and Aristotle
I was reading about the birth of BDSM.
The tale of Phyllis and Aristotle is one of the first well documented poems and songs about the idea of women dominatrix overcoming male brilliance with themes of subjugation, humiliation, horseplay and power exchange.
Although there is no evidence that this was based on any true accounts of Aristotle it does show by 1220 AD/CE it was well established in discourse that BDSM proclivities are desirable (yet dangerous) and engaged in by people of all social standing.
It is a disappointment that the idea of intense passion sensuality and exploration is looked down on in society due to mostly religious subjugation.
Some faiths actually encourage sex as a way to better connect with oneself a lover and god. This is most pronounced in some Hindu mythology and Jewish mysticism.
I am about to watch some anime before bed would a rather be nibbling someones throat and gently caressing there body sure why not makes it more fun.
My oral fixation will have to deal with a slight biting of my own lip with gentle sucking.
No sensory input one can ask are we even existing? - My ADHD would argue too little stimulus is a fate worse than death ☠️