Power

A submissive is completely free to do whatever they desire, whenever they desire.

even with all their freedom they choose to kneel 

this is why submission is so beautiful 

For me I was 18 and met an older woman into the lifestyle she was a very beautiful woman and very submissive I found out after a while. 
we started just normally but it went it’s own course me being dominant came very naturally she loved it and we ended up being in a very good relationship I just wondered how others got into it I’ve had subs that enjoyed being spanked by dad and carried on from that. 

So I had a sub she was beautiful very compliant and oh did I feelings for her. 
but she was married had a daughter and that just stayed in my head I felt like I was destroying someone’s life by being with her she explained that her husband wasn’t into the lifestyle which I understand but for me it was the knowing she had family if she hadn’t it would of worked out very well but I just see a daughter that would lose her mum a husband that would lose a wife maybe it’s me but I hate the thought of breaking a family up I miss her but I don’t want to feel guilty anyway I hope she does well 

Ok ladies I do understand what your saying but not being into the baby girl thing I don’t really understand that so I do apologise. 

So there are plenty of ways this lifestyle works some Dom’s are sadists and some subs like pain so they fit well together some are just normal everyday guys but enjoy the kink so become Dom’s hopefully finding a good sub that likes to give control to the Dom then there are the daddy Dom’s that like the younger girls that enjoy the baby things oh and then there are the 50 shades mob that watch the movies and think yes I think I want to try that the Dom’s or think they are Dom’s like to think they can abuse the subs and get away with it but the subs think oh that’s a turn on I will give that a try but it scares the life out of them when they get involved with a real Dom so to all you want to be Dom’s subs think before you get involved because the subs might think it’s good but unless you are truly into giving up control this life’s not for you as for the want to be Dom’s you don’t abuse the subs it’s nothing to do with abuse most D/s relationships are formed and go on for a long time with a mutual respect for each other so think before you talk badly to the ladies or guys and for all others keep safe people good luck 

Well life certainly has a way of kicking you in the nuts but you know the best thing is to get back in the saddle as I have said before the sub holds a Dom’s power in her hands which is very true so to seize the power back move on grow and enjoy life