I am happy to make friends in this community. Only a few weeks in and I have met not just one but several great people. However, there is a downside most are not interested in play or are fellow males. Part of me wishes I did find men attractive, while one day I am sure I will be doing who knows in front of or with other men, I just do not find them arousing. This does not mean I regret meeting or plan to stop meeting new men in the community, hell makes me want to meet more! I just would like to start a vetting process with a possible instructor or play partner. I am only returning to FetLife and having great success at meeting great and lovely people, but after 8 months I thought maybe I could at least start being vetted by someone. These may just be whinnings of a guy that is horny, but I hope these are more just aligned with the desire to start learning. Keep me in your thoughts.