Waiting

You on the floor: any floor is suitable and will be satisfying 

You in the car: front seay, back seat, hatch-back, somewhwere secuded so no-one can hear your pleasure

You on the couch: my couch, your couch, the couch in the club with everyone watching.

You on the table: on your back, your legs tied to the legs of the table, ready for Inspection, Eating and Screwing.

You on the table: on yiour tummy, hips up ready for the Paddle.

The To Do List just keeps growing .........

New Year?

There is no need for Resolutions  - that is the domanin of the Vanilla crowd.

Your focus now and forever is all about:

• Being Frantic and 
• Having Deep.thoughts on how to please me 
• Being Passionate.and making me happy
• Being put in your place.
• Having no doubt who is in Control.

Your ONLY Objective is to keep your Dom content.

Small

I want you to feel tiny, in your place and committed. When I put my finger under your chin and tilt your head backwards you will look up at me and find comfort in understanding and accepting that you are free from making any decisions. You will listen to my voice and drink in the fact that I will take care of everything.

You will obey and follow my direction: there is no need to stress about what is going to happen, if it will work or not, how things will pan out.  You have that priceless freedom.

It will always be the right thing if I am telling you what I need you to do.

Place all your trust in the one person that truly has your best interests at heart.

Words

Sometimes you need the words, words that give clarity and boundaries, expectations and duties.

Reassurance and guidance that what you are doing is good and that your actions please me.

Never get temporarily lost in the distance and chaos.

Overthinking is the enemy of calmness and serenity.

You know I am here and always will be - you are wanted, nothing has changed and you are important.

Words are important, making you feel my closeness and presence.

Grateful

So much to be thankful for, being cherished and guided.

Pure, joyous connection.

Having purpose and value in everything, being able to meet Objectives.

So many achievements in the future to look forward to and to be grateful for.

Focus

“Focus on me”. It does not matter how it is said, spoken or written.

The low, calm tone of verbal conversation, mirrored in written form when it needs to be, is all that is needed.  I do not need to raise the tone or to be loud and direct to draw out your obedience or deference.

Do I?

Only weak people shout and raise their voice and emphasis.

Gaining your immediate attention, to the full exclusion of any other distraction, is a basic Rule that you know that you must follow and respect.

Always.

Being told to focus makes you melt, the fire of anticipation and the need to satisfy my need, whatever that might be, takes over and sets your priorities.

You will always want to know that you have performed well, whatever the Task, and you also know that performance that falls short will be punished.

Best be Focused, then.

Always.

Sideways

I tell you to get undressed but to keep your bra and panties on, standing with your feet 12 inches apart.

I tell you to stand in the middle of the room so that you cannot lean against any item of furniture.

I tell you that you are not allowed to make any sound unless I give you express permission to do so.

I will not be reminding you.

I come up close to you and stand side-on to you: I can hear your breathing becoming deeper and when I put my palm on your chest I can feel your heart pounding, going fast, as the anticipation builds up.

I whisper in your ear that you are mine and I can, and will, do anything I want to do.

I place my left hand in the small of your back and my right hand over your tummy button.

I ask you if you have anything that you want to tell me. Nothing? OK.

The Rule here is that you stand upright and listen to what I have to say.

My left hand slowly moves down your spine and slips inside your panties which from this early stage I feel are getting nicely wet and warm: just as I wanted. I move my fingers to tease you and I slip one finger inside you making you gasp a little and draw breath.

You stumble a little and I remind you to keep still and stand up!

My finger slips in and out and I swirl it, adding a second finger which causes you to moan and wriggle.

I remind you that you are to be quiet.

My right hand slowly moves down your tummy and slips inside your panties, just below the top of them ………..

I whisper in your ear that you need to blank out everything from your mind, any sounds, or feelings, thoughts and mental noise – the ONLY focus you are allowed in on my fingers and my voice.

It that perfectly clear?

You nod because you are not permitted to speak.

My right hand slowly and purposefully moves inside your panties which are now very wet. Your clit is just begging, wanting, screaming out loud for attention which I ignore and rest my fingers just above her,

I hear a soft moan as you turn your head towards me, a pleading and begging look on your face.

Please you whisper. I tell you to be quiet and to be patient.

I tell you to look ahead: my two fingers are now resting inside you and you are very wet.

I tell you there is absolutely NO WAY that you will ever disappoint me because when following your Objectives that will just not happen.

Will it?

No, you whisper, trying hard t not to anticipate what my right hand will be doing shortly.

Keep still. Very still.

My index finger starts to stroke your clit, very faintly, up and down. I feel you grip my fingers as I do so, your breath shortens, become more erratic as the pressure builds inside you.

I switch my stroking to circling and then stroking your clit, varying the mix between the two, making you wriggle.

I so want to cum, PLEASSE may i?

Not yet.

Your body starts to shake, you are finding it very hard to stay still, the temptation to lean onto me is almost overwhelming as you are vey close to loosing control.

Please, please I will do anything you ask of me, but I really wat to cum, badly.

Be quiet, I will tell you when.

I move my fingers inside you, stretching them out and gently fucking you with them while my right hand circles and teases your clit. I can really feel the tension building inside you.

I tell you to stand on your tip toes and listen to what I tell you: you are mine, you always will be, and that your Number One Objective is always to please me. Nice and simple, easy to follow and easy to remember.

I tell you that you have Permission to cum, at which point you tense and then fall into my shoulder as you feel the delight, the intensity and exquisite pleasure of the Gift that I am giving you.

You relax on your feet and melt into me, safe and knowing that you have pleased me. I remove my very wet and happy fingers. I place the palm of my right hand on the outside of your panties as the wave of joy and ecstasy subsides, whispering in your ear that I am pleased with you and that you are to take your panties off and give them to me.

As you do I remind you, not that you should NEVER waiver from your Number One Objective.

NEVER.

Qualities

Educated.

Savvy.

Intelligent.

Proud.

Independent.

Driven.

Goal-focused.

Determined.

But underneath all of those qualities, only I know what you desire: the freedom and calmness that comes from my Control and your Ownership.

Four Key Principles

1.      Collared; the symbol of your status, your declaration of Ownership and all that it relates to. This may be a visual symbol but can also be not obvious to the casual observer BUT is known between us, and only us and respected as such.

2.      Safe: knowing that the level of Trust between us is such that I will always ensure your wellbeing as a priority, even though I will push you against your boundaries and limits to develop you.

3.       Secure: wrapped in the warmth of my attention, to the exclusion of others.

4.      Protected: from all harm, unwanted attention from others and from anything that worries or concerns you and cared for.

Always work hard so that I deliver the above.

Dinner

We enter the restaurant, what looks like a normal, vanilla couple. You look fantastic, nice dress and hair styled and very presentable, me in a sharp suit, crisp white shirt and plain red tie, shoes so polished I could shave in their reflection.

All very normal.

But your Sir knows what you really desire: not the drabness of vanilla but the red rage of being Owned and all that brings with it.

The edge tonight is that you have been given permission to go out and buy a matching set of bra and panties which I have not yet seen: you know my standards are very high and you also know that if your choice displeases me then there will be consequences, serious consequences.

Enjoy your Dinner and hope, with vigour, that your selection pleases me.