Me Umm this is a question that hits me very close to heart. When I went off to college 18 unsure I had an idea of this life but of course it was a very blurred idea. A few partners both kink and vanilla but learned really nothing of life relationships much less our wonderful space in the world.
Oh and also I’m terrible at grammar sorry but not.
Well the college thing didn’t work out for me so I moved in with my uncle in Indianapolis where I was introduced to my first real submissive she was 51 and established and kind enough to help me learn what being the leader really is. I think this is something that is lost in our community(that’s a rant that’s coming in another blog) I was never her submissive yet she was absolutely my teacher. I learned many things you can’t in books or most Doms either won’t explain or deny to young Doms.
Life being what life is I moved back to Wv and she found a Dom in Florida and move there after retirement haven’t heard of her since but from all I could tell she was cloud 9ing so happy for her blessings. But now comes my mistake I thought of this life as a phase. To wrap that storyline up vanilla marriage 3 wonderful kids and 12 years of good and bad.
So this leads me to my question for everyone how does one come back in it’s not as easy as one may think?