Well after a contemplative but busy morning, I finally sat down to read some messages (I’ve been neglecting my inbox, sorry... no offence meant...)
Anyways, one in particular immediately piqued my interest. So I clicked it open. Much and all as I would love to share the contents, I’ve promised I will not and I am a woman of my word, but I do have permission to paraphrase. It was from a fellow sub (yes, I checked her profile and was duly impressed!). I digress.
In essence, she very politely introduced herself and explained she enjoyed reading my blog. She then went on to explain someone she has been “dancing” with for quite some time now is also an avid reader and enquired if perchance he had done more than become an avid reader. She apologised profusely in the next sentence for putting me in such a position, but I felt the hurt in her words.
I immediately replied and told her that yes, he had contacted me and was currently sitting in my inbox unread, and so I had no idea what his intentions were in contacting me as, in complete honesty, I do enjoy conversing with people who are attached, exploring and some I’m simply not compatible with but have great conversations with on a purely platonic basis. So she asked me to open it. It wasn’t “just” friendly chat. I went a step further, asked if he was single, exploring, dancing etc. He came back with 100% single. I haven’t replied.
So I told her of the exchange. And we both had a little laugh, tinged with disappointment and sprinkled with a generous topping of warm angry tears. You know who you are, dear, and I’m sending you enormous virtual hugs and do hope you keep in touch, if for no other reason than to ensure we don’t have the same dance partners 😜.
So, kind and gentle folk, if a woman asks you if you are single, what she actually means is not just “are you single”, but more precisely “is there anyone out there under the impression that you are NOT single...?”
Please remember we talk amongst ourselves too - the truth will ALWAYS come out...
P.S. to the Dom who sent me the message, the only reason I HAVENT yet blocked you is so you can read this and understand why she HAS...
Love and bubbles to all, happy hump day (dry-hump greatly recommended...)