Alright so I hate Tinder but I've met some cool peeps on there so I'm on there. 6 months or so ago I matched with a cute chubby girl who was both poly and into TPE. Like win win right? We get to talking and it doesn't take long for us to jump off that to snapchat.
We talk for a week or two, she is very interested in being my slave and having me be her Master Daddy. Things slow down a little as happens in life but we keep talking and enjoying our conversations. We share pictures and vids of the NSFW kind. Every thing is going great.
We decide we really want to meet. But for a while it isn't working. Her has another partner, I have another partner, she has a kid, and like both of our lives are just getting in the way of us meeting, to both of our frustrations.
We have a video chat to at least you know have something and once again it goes great we have a fun time. Just having issues with meeting in person on both of our parts. Life catches up to both of us and she goes to some dark places and doesn't message me for a while. It wasn't the first time because she had a kid and tended to sometimes just not be able to talk for days at a time. Totally okay.
Well a few weeks ago, after like a month of not talking, she finally messages me back. Wanting to finally go on a date. We set everything up and we meet at a bookstore that sells coffee since be both love coffee and books.
The date goes off great. She's giggling, we're chatting, and it honestly is just going great. She is short on time and has to skedaddle so we cut it short. I message her when I get home, cause I was in a bookstore, I had to buy books. My first message was about how I had a fun time and we should do it again. She agrees, but the message is short. I try talking a little and I get a response or two. But then nothing.
Five days go by and finally I cave, I want to know what the fuck just happen. Since it was so sudden, I was completely ghosted, and I had thought we had a good time. I message her, I lay my heart out there. And she replies that she didn't know what to tell me when we were on the date but she doesn't find me super attractive. She'd love to be friends but nothing else was going to happen.
I won't lie I was kind of pissed already at this point in my day and this didn't help. So I asked her like... what the fuck? You ghosted me for 5 days, was going to do it longer had I not contacted you, just to tell me you doing find me attractive?
And I want to be clear it wasn't the just very friends thing. It was the idea of ghosting me for five days and only finally telling me that AFTER I reached out again. I messaged her an apology for being a tad angry with my response and told her, nah. Friends probably wouldn't work as this was awful view into who she was as a person.
Some people suck.
