Hello All and I do hope you all are having a wonderful evening:
Please feel free Dominant’s and submissives to leave any comments you may have I will read them and if you want a reply say so and I shall.
As I have said previously, I am a submissive 24/7 and I just love it and to feel that free feeling it gives to me as an individual. However submissives, if your Dominant is not into picking out your daily attire or some other rudimentary task daily, that’s ok. Remember we are submissives and we are to ALWAYS enhance our Dominants life not create more stress. Remember THAT. Now does that mean I’m not a 24/7 submissive, absolutely not. Nor does it mean that my Dominant doesn’t care about me or my wants, He just may simply not be into that and He/She will tell you trust me they will.
Submissives remember this also, if you are talking to a new potential Dominant He/She will know in about 8 – 10 sentences if you are who you say you are without question, especially if He/She have been in this lifestyle a number of years.
Tips for your interview processes:
1. NEVER assume you and your potential new Dominant are on the same page. He/She will ask you questions, You as the potential submisive can ask questions also. Question and Answer sessions are a VERY important to this process on both sides.
2. IF you are unsure of what your Dominant wants ask, If you are unsure about a word ask, If you are unsure about anything ask that is what this process is all about. Learning about each other.
3. ALWAYS address your potential new Dominant respectfully with Sir/Ma’am/Mistress/Master, unless you are told differently. It shows respect first and that you are willing and able to be respectful.
4. If you ARE asked to take BDSM tests please do so and respond in a timely manner. Your potential new Dominant/Domme will want to see the test results. They will ask you any questions about the testing if they have any. They may also ask you to take more than 1, don’t be afraid of them. It’s not only a test for BDSM but also to see if you will follow directions. The IMPORTANT key here is again to be honest and truthful when answering test questions. You are literally putting your life in someone else’s hands – NOW do you understand the IMPORTANCE OF BEING HONEST AND TRUTHFUL.
5. Know this also, believe it or don’t, Not all Dominant’s are the same, nor do they want the same things. That is why training is so very IMPORTANT whether you been in this lifestyle 2 years or 30 years. Dominant’s already know that every submissive is different, that is why there is an interview process.
6. If all else clicks together and you two are bonded as far as language, knowledge, experience, and so on – you may be asked to meet. Please submissives do not dress slutty, unless asked to do so. Dress in your street clothes to show that you can dress yourself and look good too.. There is a time and place to dress slutty and a first meet up isn’t it. Don’t wear a lot of perfume, most Dominant's (I can’t say all and won’t) prefer your natural smell over perfumes. Don’t wear a lot of make up either, there’s a time and place for all these things but not at a first meeting. If you are asked to wear a certain thing DO so. Again it’s all about following directions for your Dominant to see and know that you will do so.
7. Once again, NEVER forget you are a gift to your Dominant and presenting yourself as that GIFT is essential. Be true to you and your Dominant ALWAYS.
8. This life style can be all you want it to be (and probably some shit you haven’t even thought of yet) but if you as a submissive are not honest, truthful, forthcoming, loyal, caring and kind you have nothing for the Dominant to build on to find out more about you and want to meet.
9. DO NOT be a smart ass it’s just not appealing to anyone. Dominant’s like to laugh also tell a joke, or a funny story. I recently told a story about being caught in the woods the first time, Potential was laughing and so was I.
10. BE YOURSELF in its truest form, but follow rules so you can have that potential to meet.
As always y’all stay safe, but have lots of fun.