Okay so here's the thing, I love penetrative sex. A lot. Like spread me open and fuck me six ways to sunday a lot. Sir and I were having a conversation about it awhile ago and the phrase "Penetration fetish" came up. Which has had me thinking, does that count as a fetish?
Fetish is defined as "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc." (the lazy google definition anyway)
I wouldn't say that I like it to an abnormal degree, but maybe that's a matter of perspective? I mean what's a "normal" level at which to enjoy it? BDSM aside, people enjoy every part of sex to a different degree and for different reasons. I know plenty of women in particular who just like oral, or have to have some degree of clitoral stimulation involved. Even most of those I know who also like penetrative sex aren't quite as one dick, two dick, red dick, blue dick, gung-ho about it as I am.
I've discussed it with a few friends and opinion seems to split between "Well sure that's a fetish." and "I'm pretty sure that just counts as liking sex."
Of course these friends range from the kinky as fuck to vividly vanilla, so the perspectives are varied.
You might say that depending on certain factors it both is and isn't one. At the same time. 😁 (Something about having to open ones personal metaphoric box to find out. I dunno it's a joke I'm not going to flex too hard for it to make sense.)
I'm aware that this honestly has absolutely nothing with the Schrodinger's cat thought experiment, but I figured it made for a funnier title than Overthinking stupid stuff during quarantine.