How Interesting

I was just told by a friend “I have a dildo and a dog, what do I need a man for?”

My reply “you know that’s illegal in some states.”

Conversation I heard today

 “hey do you want to———-?”

”i don’t know how”

”me neither, wanna figure it out together?”

Today is a gift, that’s why it’s called the present. Make the most of it and make a difference in someone’s life today. A simple smile can make someone’s day

Dreams don’t chase you back.

 Tomorrow is not guaranteed.

 Resentment and anger are like drinking poison and hoping your enemy dies from it…let it go

Tell someone that you love them TODAY 

Take a chance TODAY 

Each one help one

We only regret those things we didn’t do

 There are people that aren’t here today that made plans last night

We are only guaranteed an opportunity, use it wisely

 Give freely, do not expect anything in return and you will never be disappointed

Well it’s been one of those days today. I truthfully don’t have very many of these. I typically take things in stride…. But today..uggh. When I occasionally have days like this I’m reminded of this incident of painting basements.

 It was a mission trip to a small town in Mexico. The group was small and we were there to help with an irrigation ditch for their crops. The first couple of days went pretty much as planned and everybody seemed to be pleased with the progress. About the 4th day, one of the older women in the group noticed that the children in this small town attended school in a basement. 

The basement was as you would expect a basement in a small Mexican town too look. It was dirty, makeshift desks, poor lighting, the paint on the walls was in various states of disrepair and neglect and there was no window. The children were eager and happy though because this “school” was only a recent development. The woman decided that this was not a fit place for children to be educated…and here’s where the wheels came off the bus. She convinces the others in the group that we must immediately turn our attention to this basement and focus all of our energies there. So….

We began cleaning and painting the basement. This took our group the remainder of our few days left in the town. Despite the constant and loud objections from the town people that were for some reason singularly focused on water for their crops (not sure why?), that basement looked awesome after we were done. Strangely enough, we were never invited back for any other mission trips to that town. My lesson here, yes…you may be busy doing something that is important to you but are you doing what’s REALLY important to them…are you painting basements? When in a D/s relationship, keep this in mind

"I have noticed that when all the lights are
on, people tend to talk about what they are
doing - their outer lives. Sitting round in
candlelight or firelight, people start to talk
about how they are feeling - their inner lives.
They speak subjectively, they arque less,
there are longer pauses. To sit alone without
any electric light is curiously creative. I have
my best ideas at dawn or at nightfall, but not
if I switch on the lights - then I start
thinking about projects, deadlines, demands,
and the shadows and shapes of the house
become objects, not suggestions, things
that need to done, not a background to
thought."
Why I Adore the Night (Jeanette
Winterson)

Love that song

It’s hard to have a bad day if you’re skipping while you walk

“Fall in love with someone who is your safest space and your greatest adventure”

So what does it say about you when you’re folding laundry and you come across a pair of panties and you say to yourself “hmm wonder who those belong to?”