I think I might be borderline brat.
I have always thought of myself as a submissive but I have been reading a bit and from what I can tell a brat is someone who is purposely disobedient as to provoke her Dom into punishing or dominating her.
Now I am not a complete a**hole and I am usually submissive to whatever he wants but I do talk back occasionally when I dont get my way. Example: yesterday he teased me and when he wouldn't let me touch him back I still tried anyway and kind of threw a small temper tantrum by whining and stomping my feet when he was done and still wouldn't let me.
Also outside of the bedroom I am a bit more of a brat, mostly because I just have an attitude and temper naturally. I can be pretty sassy.
My Dom would like to add the word bossy to describe me outside of the bedroom.