REMOTE CONTROL ( sub experience ) # 00

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TAOISM or AUTHORITARIANISM: (when to use each - LOL )

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~ Letting go,.... to concede.

- Is ALLOWING,... a natural and flexible path to unfold, (for all concerned) rather than attempting to *ALWAYS* control, or focus on self-centred outcomes !!!

TAOISM - https://www.youtube.com/embed/B-F319b5SuQ ~ enjoy
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TO WHISPER or WHIP: ( when to use each - LOL )

~ To work with the NATURE of the beast,... see & attend to it's (hi)STORY

- (hi)STORY affects us all (What's yours ??) - https://www.youtube.com/embed/kRuAo6BUS7Q

- The gentle actions of KNOWING - https://www.youtube.com/embed/smN9yebcibc
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Steve

(2u2)

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~ Revolving Trauma

Created by DaddyD****

https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=159067&postid=82500#anc

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enjoy

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~ I read a BLOG today from DaddyDra** on the subject header above,... and the way He & Amethy*** had developed their dynamic in this RESPECT.

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~ He professed & confessed their difficulties and communication skills they had developed  to overcome any problems, & the gains these experiences had to their 'togetherness'.

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~ I respect such honest openness,... and wish to share their experience & sentiments with others. (something I cannot do directly on his blog for some unknown reason)

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https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=159067&postid=81858

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BREATHE IT  IN.

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2u2

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~ We have all been there,... we've had the t-shirt, video, trophy, etc - and sometimes yes,...they were self-inflicted scars.

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~ I have noted,... The Cage - is no exception to this 'condition'. MISTREATED

( D/s, Male,Female,Other's - regardless of title/lable/preference )

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~ Fortunately,... and by some COSMIC stroke of fate, I was able to see a wonderful cover band ( of girls ) DIVA PURPLE ,... who played this old-time favourite of mine.

.... Which in its essence, becomes very cathargic in purging the devils, and allowing NEW beginnings. ( Like when I divorced my wife of many years ago )

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The raw emotion of this ballad,... has something for everyone.

( even a warning to your own vulnerability - take care out there - there's 'sharks' in them waters ) 

  https://www.youtube.com/embed/uEFChMd8-7U

~depleted~ day 2,... an early rising.

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( what makes Mel ~ 'tick' ~ & comply )

- Prep : mentally instil that the constraints of a CORSET will become equal to a TIGHT binding (Shibari) rope.

- Conditions: Slave posture head space, tightly fitted body corset before bed, 3-days no sexual self-play.

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Report #10

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Dear Steve,

I went through a similar process last night and adopted the position, so I could focus totally in peace and quiet.  Then in bed with the corset on I could feel my pulse racing.  It felt so lovely running my hands up my thighs. and my thumbs nearing my pussy and clitoris.  The feelings built up and up and I tried to hold on but I just had an orgasm that made me shake and shudder uncontrollably.  I could feel my chest and head so flushed and hot.   I fell asleep contented before Trevor even came to bed.  This morning I got up and spent 15 minutes in position, thinking of you and getting a clear focused mind.  It was a lovely start to the day.

I fully understand what you said about vanilla chores and I do so love that song. 

Love,
Mel xxx

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***********   TEST  BLOG  #00  - see how it displays / runs   *******************

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https://www.youtube.com/embed/Hb_qg7wyayA

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Hi Steve,

I will try and answer your previous messages now. I am glad you liked the heels in the profile photo, I am a tiny size 3 shoe. I am hoping to have fun and experiment sexually. Life is too short not to xx

It would be lovely to have a few exchanges to get to know each other and see what we might develop. I will try and be as open as possible with you about my needs, desires, kinks etc. I have some BDSM experience but very limited in terms of shibari. I do like the idea of you stimulating my mind and body and letting out my innermost desires and feelings. I feel excited already.

I do love to wear vintage stockings both seamed and rht.

If things were to go as well as I hope they might then initially my husband would be there for safety reasons but if things go well then that wouldn't always need to be the case. He is easygoing and would enjoy the views!

 

Mel

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