****Submissives for training****

I have been approached by many Dom, Domme, Subs, Tops, Switch, Daddys, etc for advice. My first regret is trying to understand why a female would call herself a Dom. No, she is a Domme. Next, I am hearing from many Doms, Domme, etc that they have no idea what the hell they are doing. I mean holding a crop or whip in your hand does not give you that authority to be a ‘Top’. I do not like that word ‘authority’ so let me swap it out -seriousness to be a top. There is so much responsibility to be a Dom. You cannot obtain a whip or crop or leather and in one day or week be a Dom/Domme. This is ridiculous and hopeless. Now you have two people going down a road and no one knows how to lead. With that said, there is so much understanding to be a sub. I was reading an article where a Domme was telling a sub how to navigate from what he/she wants to be. This is wrong – you see the problem here readers? You cannot and should not do that. You have a sacred role and one role only – at this stage of the game with this sub. Added, while training these same groups do not know that there is a difference between a slave and a sub. With that said, there is subconsciously a modality of difference between these two mindsets. Added, upward there is a need disparity. You see - here, there is a total power exchange occurring but for different needs. Again, I would advise that you have some training before taking up and on these roles. I stress in my trainings the needs for safety for our females out there. Our subs are our precious cargo. Folks this is just touching the tip of this lifestyle. I have not even gotten into the psychological aspect of a sub’s mind. Added, I have not even looked at this from an erotic or hypnotic ideology.