ElasticHeart

It's been a while since I've written something here. A lot has happened I think for most of us. Being in lockdown due to this latest Pandemic which we currently have to life with. But this is not what's weighing on my mind tonight. 

Tonight I'm laying here in bed wondering. Wondering if my search for my One true Dom will actually ever happen. I'm sure most of us has had our moments of doubt.  I am a very patient person by nature, but I cannot help but feel whether I will ever find that special One. I am not a difficult person and dont expect the impossible, but sometimes we actually do have to face reality. 

I was in a brief relationship with someone which did not last that long. After years of being single, I decided to give this man a chance in life only to learn he was a cheating, lieing human being. I have only been completely open and honest about every aspect of my life and even spoke to him about my choice in looking for someone who is open to this lifestyle. At first i was judged by him but he then decided and told me that he overreacted. We never got to experience all the good fantastic things this lifestyle has to offer.  Instead he kept on with his deceitful nature. 

I'm just sharing this part as It left me wondering a little more. I will not change my way of thinking -I will not be pushing aside this lifestyle I have chosen, but I cannot help but wonder if this will ever happen. I dont expect much from anyone. Just being to communicate, trust and understand each other. 

This brings me to this question waying so heavy on my heart tonight.......

Do I continue hoping that one day I'll find my Master/ Sir to whom I will submit completely or do I give up the search and hang on the side like a wallflower, just observing and make peace with the idea that that special one will never come my way....

Life is short and we need to enjoy the journey. Maybe it's bettrr just making the most of it by yourself. But then again, there are many of us who choose that they would prefer having that one special person to share our hopes, dreams and fears with.

This is the time my mind is working the most - nighttime. Being all alone in bed and actually missing having that special person right here next to me.

It's 3am in the morning and I'm thinking about everyrhing I've learned thus far about the decission of embracing this amazing and exciting journey in my life - the next chapter.

Thinking back, I've always wanted and needed a strong Dominant man. Not the abusive kind. One whom can take charge in any given situation.  Not that I'm a weak or desperate woman in any way. I have learned to stand on my own to feet, making things work no matter what life threw at me. Always walking with my head held high. 

But even then, I have this feeling of longing and emptiness that just won't let go. Clinging on and growing stronger every day. 

It's been 2 years now since I've decided that this is the lifestyle I wanted. After doing some intense soul searching, I have come to the realization that this was exactly what I've been missing all my life. 

Although, I have not met my One True Dom, I will not back down on fulfilling why deepest desire which is meeting The One and giving my all to Only Him. The One who will fill this emptiness I feel inside . The one to whom I can promise to give My All. 

I am thankful to all those amazing Doms/masters/Sirs I have met during the last two years being here for being truthful and honest. For understanding that I am not a toy to be played with. I have learned ao much from you.

Soon, I will meet The One who will make my knees go weak when I see there's a message from him, make my heart beat faster when I see a call and make my entire body shake when I see his eyes looking back at me. Soon my most inner desires will become reality and he will be the one whom will make me complete. 

Being a submissive is something so amazing, a beautiful gift. Being appreciated without judgement, being understood without question, being loved for being YOU. That is the most amazing thing any human being can ever ask for. 

To my future Master/Sir/Daddy, I am ready for our amazing journey together.

ElasticHeart

It's almost Christmas and everyone is ranting and raving about what they want and what they will do in the new year.  It's always important to set goals for oneself but always remember what's been. It's those moments we do not always appreciate which makes us the person we are today. Hold on to that and use those memories as tools. Using them wisely. 

My time here on The Cage has been absolutely amazing thus far. Although I have not yet met my One Dom, I have learned so much. Meeting some amazing people on my way to discovery.  Learning every single day. Taking note of the smaller things we tend to take for granted. 

I've learned that we are all here to find that one special connection. Whether it's a relationship or just someone to whom we can share our  most intimate fantasies - sharing without ever being judged.  This is what makes this site so amazing. The people we meet here all play a very important role in our journey. If we take the time to just talk, you would be surprised at how fulfilling this could be. Take the good with the bad and soon you will realise just how much you learn. In the end it's how you handle the information, or even sometimes the experience, that makes you so much stronger in the end.

I value each and every conversation I've had this year and want to thank each and  everyone that took the time to just even say hello.  So instead of saying what I want to do in the new year, I want to say , I treasure each and every pleasure I've had during the last year. May those pleasures guide me and may I keep them close to my heart.  Always.

All my love

ElasticHeart

Well, another couple of months passed since my first blog. Life has a funny way of throwing All kinds of things at us. We never know what to expect next.

I've not yet met my one true Dom but I will not give up my search. Patience is a virtue they say. And fortunately for me I have been blessed with being very patient. 

Oh yes, I've chatted to some Doms during this time - from all over the world.  Many has asked me why I tend to chat to those so far away from me, That there surely must be someone here in my home country. I believe the possibility of meeting someone from here is possible, but I've not yet met someone who actually thinks about the lifestyle The way I do. Most I've chatted to wants to experiment or alternatively they are looking for No strings attached fun. That's just not who I am. I will never judge another person, but I believe in holding on to my morals and values while in search of The One. I've never been one for a quick fling just because of trying out new things. I would.love to know that when I meet someone, they will understand where I'm coming from and the way I think. I'm not saying it must just be what I want or the way I think, but a mutual understanding. Something both of us want on a complete different level. 

I'm sure I will have a little more to say soon. This is just a little note to all other subs oit there. Yes, we are willing to submit our everything to that one special someone. Dont settle for someone that you are not completely comfortable with. The right Dom will come your way. Just be patient.

Well, me being new to this lifestyle, I have learned so much already. 

I have met some amazing people on my journey in discovering this path I've chosen to follow. Some of them taught me valuable lessons. 

I have always been very open minded about most things in life.  Absorbing all information received like a sponge - eager in learning and processing information received. 

Through this first two months being active here, I have been offered so many things - advice, being guided, some offering just good honest advice and others trying to take advantage of the idea that I am new. Yes, it's left me with a million questions. Why, why and why?

I would love to thank those amazing people offering truthfull and sincere advice. Offering to always be available should I have any question whatsoever. 

Then, there's the question that I just cannot get out of my mind. Why would some people take time in getting to know someone, with the intend to mislead you with everything they do or say?

I do believe many submissives here have the same questions as I have. Maybe some are just scared to put it out there, scared that people would think less of them. 

Well, I will ask just that question. Why would a so called "Dom" claim you to be his, making certain promises and raising expectations, knowing he cannot keep it?

Why do these "Doms" do that? Honestly. They are not true "Doms". That is my honest answer. A true "Dom" will never build a sibmissive up in believing that he would always be there for her, and not living up to his promise. A true "Dom" will never let a submissive down by just leaving her in the dark. 

These so called "Doms" need to realise that this is not a game being played. If it is a game to you, go find yourself a toy somewhere else. This lifestyle is true and real. And if you cannot be honest from the word go, you honestly do not belong here.

I believe that each real "Dom" is a gentleman who believes in Honesty, Trust and Respect. Something that the fake ones can learn from.

So please, next time you decide to make contact with a true Submissive, show that you're a man and man-up to what you say. 

I do believe that what I've said here will be supported by so many and that somewhere these fake temporary Funtime seekers need to be put in their place. 

This what we have here is a serious choice and lifestyle. 

As for all the true Doms here, thank you for being real. Thank you for all your understanding.  And I do believe you feel the same as I do. These fake people dont deserve a spot here as they are breaking all the rules set out in being part of this community. After all, Honesty, Trust and Respect is what we all seek at the end of the day.

I just felt like sharing this, sitting here at home, thinking about my journey up till now. 

I have embraced the lifestyle completely and I will be damned should one of these fake, narrow minded people influence my decission because of their false pretences.

I do believe I will have some more news and updates on my journey as experienced by myself. 

Always happy to meet new and interesting, honest people. 

ElasticHeart

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