We have a different dynamic than most ppl do.. we are laid back and easy going...we have rules and things we follow.... We are both primal donimant alphas no it doesn't have anything to do with couples privilege etc it's just how we are...we would like to find someone who understands about how we are looking for a sub or slave that can do domestic duties and responsibilities but also understand how to act and be around others who are not in the lifestyle.. we are very understanding of different ppl and different likes we don't down ppl who are not like us we are totally ok with that but we ask that we be respected for who and what we are as well... We don't baise anything off of looks etc it's about the value one adds to the relationship not takes it away..