Now that nearly all of my thinking is long term, I wonder what habits I should get into to maintain anonymity. For one, the more time is the more chance to slip up. I’m imagining things like deleting internet history regularly, keep a phone lock, maybe change phone numbers every so often? Also, there’s more time to be outed, especially since data security is ever more perilous. I’m thankful to not be in an area that’s dangerous to be known, but given how people reacted to Susanna Gibson, I will be limited in some ways if people think they know me from an acronym.
While out in the wild, has anyone found hints that someone was one of us? I’ve heard of those with the Fetlife tattoo but I think that’s a bit too known now. On dating apps, I’ve sometimes seen “looking for a connection” isolated. Not just a random statement, but in its own paragraph. Is that…?
