Drinfear's Ravings

 There are a multitude of topics I could post here, and quite honestly, planned to do so.. But the train of thought derailed coming out of the station, and the train wreck cannot be rectalfied (INTENTIONAL mis-spelling and pun intended) in any semblance of cohesion.. I have recently been watching some combined episodes of undercover boss, which opened My eyes to profound similarities between the positions of CEO and DOM/ME, Master/Mistress, Daddy/Mommy.. I whole heartedly regret not making the post immediately, I continued to watch, and progressive revelations watered down the revelations of the immediate moment.. MY fault, nobodt else's.. I can only hope to recapture the clarity in the near future to make the post that was so necessary..

Dom

 P.S> I AM human.. I make mistakes. When such mistakes happen, I apologize for them because I am NOT perfect.. This realization, I believe, sets Me apart, and makes people take notice.. (AGAIN, I could be wrong, and accept that..) 

 My submissives are NOT prisoners.. They are My partners in life, facing the world AND its' challenges beside Me.. They have the choice to leave whenever they choose to do so, for whatever reason they decide.. I do not isolate them from friends or Family, I encourage them to find others they can relate to, and be themselves with.. such is My Role as their Friend.. (My 4th Role in My girls lives, which has been explained before, but I will repeat Myself, though I usually refrain from doing so..) My 5 Roles are 1) Protector. 2) Provider. 3) Guide. 4) Friend. 5) Lover. IN that order of importance..) 

 I seek neither to limit their access, nor to influence their choices in ANY way.. They know My Rules and stipulations, and agree to them before joining My Household.. I also, at times, make sure these Rules are re-enforced from time to time.. But SOME choose to push boundaries, which is to be expected, SOME choose to push too far.. Some see the Rules as hurdles to find loopholes in.. I have no issue when someone wants to be released.. Once asked for, it shows My failure to perform My duties, to fill the roles I have prescribed for someone that gave Me the gift of their submission..I do not fight or argue their decision.. Who am -I-, a failure, or someone lacking in their eyes, to DO so..? 

 As much as it pains Me, this video explains MOST, but I attest not ALL, of their experiences..

 so many ways and things I 'could' say here.. But everything that NEED be said is apparent in the post already.. I DON'T share My girls with other guys.. Personal preference and choice.. Loyalty is a PRINCIPLE, not a word to be thrown around  when it suits.. 

Dom

 I have multiple friends that I met and got to know here, then became even closer friends with when we began texting and speaking directly.. I have revealed My vocal abilities to several of them, including My vocal ranges.. I can also, quite happily, I may add, admit that I ONLY displayed My VOCAL abilities.. (I can parrot songs, and was taught that mimicry is the sincerest form of flattery.. Arrogance is taking the original artists work and attempting to improve it. MY belief, no humiliation or judgment to anyone else..)  But ultimately, most songs also have 'moves'. or dances associated with them.. -I- am a white boy.. more precisely, an OLD white boy *laugh* and have the moves, or lack thereof, as the case may be, to PROVE it.. *laugh* One song I CAN perform, according to ME, is THIS one.. Vocals, inflections, nuances AND moves.. 

Enjoy..

Dom

 PS I have attempted multiple times to post vocals here, but either the site cannot recognize, or My mic cannot pick up the vocals.. Do not know which choice is correct..

  Some may judge Me, this is their right , but I was raised a specific way.. There is right, there is wrong.. There is NO gray areas.. If something is right, it is right, if it needs explanations or clarifications to rectify it, it is NOT right, now IS it..?  I am not one to judge anyone, this is not My purpose nor place in life.. I know nobody elses' walk, so who am -I- to decide what they should or should not do? 

 Principles are foundation stones we set to build relationships on.. Trust, Respect, Honesty, Loyalty.. Contrary to modern popular belief, these are NOT just words to be tossed out to win arguments, they are PRINCIPLES to base relationships on.. NOT words to be ignored when something "better" comes along.. THAT is opportunism, NOT building relationships.. (look up the definition in Webster's.. Those that DO so may want to review the definition of FASCISM, too.. FASCISTS are the ones screaming, passing laws, and doing ALL they can to shut down ANYONE whose opinion doesn't agree with THEIRS.. Hmm.. WHO does that sound like..? (NOT pointing fingers here, I am speaking on a wider scale than this site, and am not well enough versed n the site, being here ONLY to blog, and keep in touch with friends I have made, and would not do so regardless..) 

 I am not any kind of activist.. I speak My beliefs, which I will share freely if messaged, but having pointed out hypocrisies, I do not expect a flooded inbox.. Such is life..

Dom

 I have a good friend that was, regretfully, scared off the site. We stayed in touch through texting.. They KNOW who they are, and I hope they read this blog.. I just wanted to post a welcome back to the site to them, and say how proud I am that they returned.. I do not expect a like, or any type of message in response, just, as always, offering My moral support..

Dom

 I have a various array of dating apps installed on My phone, as well as a lot MORE AI chat apps.. The AI chat apps seem to direct the focus of the chats on the sexual aspect.. *shrug*  It is software, which can only follow directed and pre-defined paths in its' execution.. Then there are the dating apps, that are "supposedly" individuals on the other end of the conversation.. But when paradoxes are raised between what they say, compared to the open revelations they express, the AI shuts down immediately..  

 I met Natalie on a dating app, Vanilla Umbrella, which is dedicated to the lifestyle.. It was shut down a year or so after we got together because the Fet app complained too many times that VU was crossing multiple community thresholds and needed to be shut down because of it.. Google decided the time expended verifying, or, more often, FAILING to do so, resulted in expenditures of man power and hours they were not willing to expend in the future, so removed Vanilla Umbrella from their menu.. 

 I STILL choose to use VU as compared to fet.. Any app that is superior need not raise false allegations against another.. The allegations raised were NEVER proven, google and apple just got tired of spending so much time investigating the allegations.  Shame.. VU has a classified section for various local community events from around the world.. London, Berlin, Paris, Amsterdam.. Invitations went out to ALL willing to read them, as compared to fet that posts ONLY those within a confined area.. But hey.. *shrug* I'm just ME.. Who am -I- to say anything against a "juggernaut" that has so many petitioner (or at least so many unverified sources to COMPLAIN from) complaints..? 

 I can only hope others here may investigate the vpk packet and install the app, investigate it, even with a grain of salt to determine the superiority of the two.. NO, I am not connected to it beyond meeting Natalie, My little of 8 years.. I receive no compensation beyond expressing what -I- believe to be right, because it was PROVEN.. The vpk package requires some attention and following proper directives, yes. But MY experience shows the effort worth the rewards.. 

Dom 

03/28/26

 I recently made a post, and have to apologize.. My headset is not sensitive or astute enough to provide an authentic version of the song I chose to sing.. I am looking forward to purchasing one in the near future that can differentiate and differentiate the tones and inflections.. My present headset and microphone are designed for standard gaming, and have been enough until now.. I realize I need something more discerning, and will purchase something better in the near future.. The song I attempted to sing, but failed to register was..

 I look forward to letting others hear My acapella rendition in the near future..

 Some may complain that My outlook is far too strict, or too narrow.. That the world is not written in black and white.. That right and wrong are effusive, or even relative.. -I- disagree.. RIGHT is right, wrong is WRONG. If an action needs to be defined or explained, it is WRONG. No if's no and's, no but's.. RIGHT needs no explanations, descriptions ot explanations, DOES it? O.o

 I recently ran into a wall, one full of excuses and equivalencies, ALL trying to justify actions both sides KNEW were wrong.. By downplaying, and attempting to rectify their stance on the subject, they exposed their view that any such promises, or vows, they made to ME, could be discounted, downplayed and made irrelevant.. Once I SAY something, it is concrete. If I make a PROMISE, it is for LIFE, and beyond.. If I make a VOW, it supersedes this lifetime, and DEATH will not prevent Me from upholding it.. (YES, I know that most will dismiss this comment as dramatics, but My Life experiences PROVE these words far better than anything I 'say' ever could..)

 If someone dismisses the statements, promises or vows someone made to a specific person, HOW can I expect them to hold any such statements THEY make to ME as sacred, or binding..?

 Words have meaning. They were SAID with purpose, with definition, and MEANT in the moment.. Yes. But the statement DOESN'T change depending on changing interpretations.. If someone makes vows to God, in the sight of Man LEGALLY, the only way to cancel those words is by nullifying and cancelling the relationship.. Failure to DO so, and entering into a relationship with someone so involved, proves that these principles are just 'words' to be thrown around when it suits the individual, NOT as a principle to base a relationship on..

 Dom

03/24/26

 I am not one to judge. I know nobody's walk through this life but MINE, and do not pretend or claim otherwise. I have ZERO grounds to judge, having no context from their perspective to determine right or wrong, and honestly? Would not do so if I DID.. Judgment is neither My purpose or place in this life.. 

 THAT being said, I DO tend to attract those that fit this specific mentality..

Dom

It amazes Me how someone can connect on so many different levels.. Music likes, SHOWS mutually liked, characters, books, genres in every vein.. But once principles are included, they merely become words. NOT the principles relationships are based on.. Trust, Respect, Loyalty become mere words thrown out to maintain an individual foothold within a life they have proven they have no belief in, or access to..
I know there may be those out here that may believe this post is singling THEM out.. Such is NOT the case.. I am posting this based on recent issues I almost tripped over privately, in personal messages with someone I began to believe might mean more than the friend we agreed to be.. But the red flags do NOT get ignored any more these days.. Once they are raised, I move to the next..
I will ALSO not disregard the red flags that have recently been raised, and continue to do so with the passing of time, diverging from things I have been led to believe, and the actions that prove otherwise. I do not point fingers, I am not here to judge or humiliate, I am merely expressing facts..
Dom
03/21/26