My last relationship was not one of the Master Slave dynamic but I was still the leader, the provider, the dominant one in the relationship. We parted mutually and with no remorse by different reasons. When we were separating and moving out of our shared living arrangement we told each other our plans of moving forward. Hearing her plan of her next moves brought to light how much stability I was bringing her, by leading, making the decisions because her poorly thought out plans were doomed to fail and bring forth more head ache and stress into her life. While my plans guaranteed me a better quality of life with more to come.
I heard her plan and I could've given her my 2 cents and advice, but I knew she would not hear them. (part of the reason we parted.) But my guidance and stability are privileges I bring and she lost it. I understand this privilege I bring into a relationship is significant and I expect an equal if not greater level of devotion from my slaves to reciprocate.