Hey guys, my name is Lizzy14 and this weekend I created my profile for the 1st time ever. I am 48 and decided to get intouch with my sub side in the bedroom with a Dom instead of dreaming oh I wish someone would do that to me type thinking.
So on with the 1st lesson learned. I was speaking on here with a Dom whom will remain anonymous here and we hit it off via bond and was asked to setup a whatsup account and I did. We were speaking and I didnt feel safe. IF that is correct term. I felt he demanded too much from me already and we even havent met yet or spoken about what I dont like (hard and soft limits). And that I have a life outside of this and I will not do this dominance outside of the bedroom. I am an adult who knows what she likes, dislikes, wants, not want.
Yes i know I may have acted like a Domme during chatting but isnt what we are suppised to do. Ask questions, tell them or us what they like or I like etc etc. I feel as adults we should be comfortable and not acting like you had a tantrum because I was not obeying you via chatting.
I may not know all the rules but I expect respect and vice versa.
This lesson did not discourage me but I felt torn and wounded like a puppy.
I hope you all subs alike voice your concerns and speak up. We are all adults and we are here for you.
Lizzy