There are so many titles I could give my current thoughts, my 2 cents, my ramblings. Most are probably better off unsaid.
I know the answers but yet I still want to scream out WHY?!?!
What has happened to our wanting to always gain knowledge, experience and depth in the BDSM community/family. Where respect, protocols, actual discussions not to mention oh and here’s a strange one, introductions of self before “activities” ensue, that community. I know there’s some still out there albeit few and far between it would appear from most of the lot I’ve had the, I’m sorry not sorry, misfortune of chatting with. Yes, I speak primarily of the chest pounding, small brain from the southern region thinker, wannabe, poser “Doms” who somehow think our community sites are an escort/call girl service?! I mean please…!
Many “subs” you know who you are, just as bad in varying ways, totally uneducated in BDSM as a whole and don’t care to be, encourage the riff-raff, and think it’s all a game besides.
Whew, okay a little better now…damn!
Real brothers and sisters, those who are forever teaching, learning and evolving, those who know in there soul you are where you were meant to be, I see some of you, read your words and inner feelings, You’d never know at my cynical stage of what “used to be” how you make my heart happy not to mention hopeful.
Thanks,
rj