This is something I’ve been trying to put words to for a while, and reading discussions here, and other places, finally pushed me to do it.
I think what interests me as a Dom is female sexuality… the wildness, the untamed energy as a contrast to me, still sexual, but disciplined and loving. The actor and decider… the controller versus the follower. The tight elastic band that is ready to snap (her), and the rigid metal trigger holding the rubber band, that is me.
My enjoyment of femininity in all its forms. Seeing her play with herself… it’s an art and a show. Something that is beautiful. Something that complements me.
There has really never been anything sexier than my partner having an orgasm… everything about it is wildly erotic to me.
While I feel most comfortable leading and feeling my partner follow, when it comes to sexual interactions I am so in awe of feminine energy that I find myself wanting to simply indulge my senses in being with a feminine sexual creature. It is such an interesting dynamic.