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9 months ago. Wednesday, May 7, 2025 at 1:59 PM

I'm frustrated. It's not your fault, it's just a fact of dating as a disabled person (or maybe just of dating in general). I'm not sure if this is a dating site. That's fine either way, but I was still hoping that I would find a few ladies who were interested in talking to me, with the potential for it to develop into something more.

I haven't had much luck in the dating world. I'll admit that I'm not good at approaching ladies in real life. As I cannot do this without help, my friend would either have to hang around while we talked, or leave me to it; however, if it did not go well, I would be sitting there, awkwardly, until my friend came back. Honestly, just the thought of it makes me queasy.

I originally thought the answer was traditional dating apps / websites, but I have been on these (on and off) since my early twenties, and have barely had a conversation on them, never mind a date.

I understand that not everyone wants to date somebody in a wheelchair, and that's fine; but I am clever (I have two degrees) and, once I have finished my current qualification, I will be in a position to get a good job. This is why I thought a kink website might bring me more dating success. I am not necessarily looking for a kinkster (I wouldn't say no if it felt right), but I just want the opportunity to date.

Rant over.

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