To be a perfect lover. Is it attainable? Obviously you can't be a lover for literally "all".
While each body is similarly composed. The biggest factor in pleasure is preference. So then, how does one master being an efficient lover to "all", when the determining factor is relative, and somewhat fickle.
One pleasurable act to one does not always equal pleasure for another. So then, how about mastering people... each individual.
In order to do this though, one must have or develop an extreme eye for detail and be willing to endure the sometimes awkward feeling of your partners reaction to being in the spotlight (Unless that's your kink of course ?)
However, The body's reaction to pleasure is near universal. A moan, a shiver, the gritting of teeth, growling, pulling sheets, drooling, eye rolls, some scream, some grab/rub themselves, some grab onto you, their partner.
In this way mastery as a lover seems more like a mastery of subtle adaptation to your partners subtle (or not subtle) reactions to what you do. Now it's just a survey, an experiment to ego's end. To be able to please "all". Too broad, Too relative. To many anomalies.
Perhaps, it could be better to master one. Being fulfilled by that one's moans and shivers. Their fluids becoming nectar for your lips and stomach. Letting yourself be filled completely with every facet of their expression. Moans become songs. Shivers, shared vibrations. Eye contact, no longer a window, but an inviting pathway clothed or nay. Always an open door that speaks "See me".
Is that desire for "one" Inate, happenstance or developed? In any case their is one major issue; It has to be mutual. Otherwise, it's painful. People die from heartache. So heal, the you that comes out is worth it. Promise
Thank You For Reading/Listening
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