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Where Eclectic & Eccentric Collide.
3 weeks ago. March 14, 2025 at 10:08 PM

Submission is something I do enjoy a great deal. I like to go into everything with a positive mindset. I find it makes it more enjoyable. In the past I have tried ‘new’ things like medical sounds. I always figured it would enormously ~ painful. To have a stainless steel rod in various thicknesses sliding down the urethra, pain seemed to be the only option. I learned a huge lesson I have used throughout my life. Something ‘new’ is always way worse in my mind, than in reality. I found I loved experiencing the sounds sliding inside of me. In fact, I truly looked forward to it and going up in size. This is why my mind is more open to new experiences, things I swore I’d never do. I submit to ~ Her and the desires she has. That is the whole point. If I balk at some of her desires, what would be the point of her wanting me around? Might even find it was worse in my mind too. Food for thought.  

NemoNebulous​(sub female) - 100%. I obviously have no experience with sounding, but definitely resonate with things seemingly worst in the mind that reality(usually). My first BDSM scene I was faced with floggers. I was pretty sure I was not going to enjoy the pain aspect, but reluctantly agreed to give it a shot. Well, turns out I LOVED it. Which is why I don't really subscribe to the whole "if it's not a hell yes, it's a "no"" because sometimes it's a matter of experimenting and I think most things are worth trying at least once, even if you're unsure whether it's for you or not. To me, that's what sage words are for. If he had considered my reluctance a "no", I would have never tapped into my masochist side. You never know if you'll enjoy something until you try it. Some things I am positive I will NEVER try, other things I'm unsure but willing to give at least a shot. Most things in the latter category I have found I very much enjoy. If it's not enjoyable, SAFE WORD as soon as it's realized.
3 weeks ago
Seeks FLR​(sub male) - Thank you for such an amazing response to my post. Flogging was another great example. I love being flogged. Canes on the other hand…🤣😂🤣
3 weeks ago
A Minx - Sadly, some people live their whole lives in fear. I always say - Go For It! You may never know otherwise and I completely agree with it's way "worse in the mind" especially if one has a vivid imagination!
3 weeks ago
Seeks FLR​(sub male) - That is my experience too. Way worse in the mind. I do have a vivid imagination.
3 weeks ago

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