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I have been writing my thoughts for ages for my eyes only. Speaking with others here I found they blog for
many different reasons. Some similar to mine.
Some I can relate to, others not so much. But underneath it all is the vulnerability in sharing one’s thoughts with a community that they feel deeply connected to. Sharing their journey, their trauma, their fantasies takes courage and I applaud each and every one of them. For me I had been thinking about it and my wonderful dominant nudged me and told me I should. He said that sharing my story may help someone else, who like me struggles with past trauma.
Everyone’s story is different, but underlying there is a thread that binds us together. Take solace in knowing you are not alone and there are others out there that have shared experiences. My blogs, though deeply personal are meant to bring light and hope and to open honest discourse.
2 weeks ago. Wednesday, January 7, 2026 at 10:58 PM

I have been on a journey. Rocky and filled with obstacles. Searching for my true self. After years of being beaten down, made to feel unloved and unwanted, I am finally learning I can’t glean my happiness from someone else. I must find my own happiness, my own light and my own strength.
I can’t make someone feel something that they don’t. I can only be myself. And if that isn’t good enough, then that is on them not me. 
In that same breath, I know that I have so much to give someone. So much love, joy and my utter submission. I need to be happy for me. Let the light I have inside me shine. When I accomplish this, then I have found my strength that was within me all along.