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The Spicy Librarian's Hot Take

Welcome to my cage.

My name is Kimmy, and I am a submissive with a strong need for containment. Kink for me isn't just play; It is a way of life that helps me navigate the world with my AuDHD. My needs are specific and non-negotiable: I need impact, consistent dominance, and a partner who understands that my perky "on" state is not my only state. I am an open book. I will be honest about my needs, my history, and what I’m looking for. In return, I require the same honesty. If all you want is a quick hookup or to get photos, that’s fine, just say so. Don't waste my time with a slow fade or empty promises of a future that isn't real. If you are a Dominant who understands that true power is found in communication and care, not just a title, then you're in the right place. I am looking for someone who can hold me with a firm hand and a soft heart, someone who sees my vulnerability not as a weakness but as a key to a profound connection. My authenticity is my boundary and filter.
2 months ago. Wednesday, November 5, 2025 at 6:18 PM

FKJ feels like touch.
Not hands, exactly, but resonance.
Every loop settles me deeper into myself.
Bass lines sync my breath; keys stretch my shoulders open.
It’s what regulation feels like when someone finally holds rhythm for you.

That’s what I crave in a D-type.
Not command for command’s sake
I want containment that moves with me, not against me.
The same way FKJ builds a song
layer by layer, patient, responsive, always listening for the next inhale.

When the sound swells, I don’t brace.
I exhale.
Because I trust it not to drop me.

That’s how I want to be led.
Not controlled but conducted.
Guided like melody through chaos,
anchored without being silenced.

FKJ teaches my body what safety sounds like.
And that’s the kind of Dominance my soul recognizes
steady, attuned,
playing me open until I hum.