The struggles of being single with a fear of rejection

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - So are you afraid of being rejected because you have been rejected so many times? Or are you afraid of the rejection and how it will make you feel because you’re shy and a little insecure? :)

caelansub4you​(sub male) - 5would ya believe me if I said both

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - I would because why lie? Lol. And I’ve been where you are before. I can tell you with 100 percent confidence that it will only get better when you start seeing yourself as someone worth having. You have to take a good look at yourself and see the true worth of who you are. See both the good and bad and know all those parts make you. A unique person in this world who is deserving of love and what he desires in life. When you believe that you will give off a sense of confidence and self worth that will draw people to you.

caelansub4you​(sub male) - See that's the tough part is being confident has never been my strong suit and usually I am never anyone's first choice

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - I totally understand hun I really really do. I was always the last picked in a group of girls. Always over looked because I never stood out. I wasn’t loud or flamboyant and I surrounded myself with girls who liked it that way. Eventually you say fuck it. Eventually you get tired of caring about the opinions of others who at the end of the day don’t matter. What matters is how you see yourself. What matters is how much you think you’re worth. Are you a person worth living right now? No? Then what would make you be? What don’t you like about yourself? Not what others don’t like...what don’t you like? Change it. Change it because you are worth more than the less than optimal version of you. You are worth the very best version of yourself that you can be. When you feel that way others will too.

caelansub4you​(sub male) - Thanks for the advice

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - You’re welcome dear. I know it may come off abrasive but I don’t mean it to be. It’s heartfelt and sincere. I truly have been there and I want you to know it won’t always be this way. If you ever want someone to talk to feel free to message me. I’d be happy to listen.